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Lessons Of RelationshipIf a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't "be friends." Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things haven’t changed. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he is more educated or has a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships... There is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always knows where you are, and your always available to him - he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

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