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Vince

every man suffers pain; either the pain of hardwork, or the pain of regret.

About Me

I'm a mellow individual, I believe that life depends on our outlooks, and what we make of it. I'm an attentive, opinionated, goal oriented, intellectual, sincere, ambitious, optimistic, logical, broadminded, practical, and thoughtful individual. I don't critic a person's individuality by assuming without reasonable facts. I tend to overlook the practicality of life. Yes, I still believe in fate and destiny. I'm extremely picky, I despise deceitfulness, and action speaks louder than words. I'm a direct person; I state what I have in mind without hesitation, I may appear to be brutally honest, but I expect likewise. I love simple things in life, and I'm extremely thankful for what's upon & what I'm given. I can be your best friend or your worst enemy, to my friends and family, I'm someone they can count on, when no else is there. I do not treat everyone equally, nor do I give everybody the same level of respect, they would have to earn them. Obstacles are upon to enlighten our thoughts, and to be kept as a future reference. I can be a listener and a good advisor you choose....I'm patient, but don't push me to the limit, understanding but don't push my buttons. I stand by my words as well as I stand by my ground, though i'm a little indecisive, a bit hesitant because I try to makes things right, but I know when I'm wrong and I admit it. Im a sarcastic and cocky person, but I can be serious when I need to be. I'm a random type of person, demanding, easily distracted, stubborn, and etc. Others may find me a bit complicated, but yet I'm very simple.I am what I am.....just being me....love it or leave it.

My Interests

..The saying is true, "you never know what you have till it it's gone". Everything passes by in an instant, so you should really appreciate the people in your life. Whether its family, friends, or significant others, let them know that you love them while they are still here, because the day you take that for granted, you will regret it for the rest of your life.....

I'd like to meet:

..Over the years I have really understood how meaningful every individual is that walks into my life. Every person has walked into my life for a purpose to help shape me into who I am today. Whether they realize they have done it or not. It's strange how you look back and remember the people who cause you not only joy and happiness, but tears and pain. At the time, you wonder why your paths have crossed, and why you deserve to be in such situations involving people who have hurt you; but understanding the real depth of it all, I realized that the individuals who has impacted my life, whether it be big or small; More and more I realize how important each and every person is who walks into my life and even if they have walked out. I just want to say thank you for making me who I am today...

Heroes:

..My Dad...September 7 , 1950 - July 15, 2006 and My cousin Chan Chiu January 1, 1977-November 12,2006..

My Blog

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Do not undermine your worth byComparing yourself with others.It is because we are differentThat each of us is special.Do not set your goals by whatOther people deem important.Only you know what is bes...
Posted by Vince on Fri, 25 May 2007 09:48:00 PST

Just a thought....

Life is too short, grudges are awaste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can.Apologize when you should , and let go of what you can't change. Love deeply and forgive quickly, take chances, give ever...
Posted by Vince on Fri, 16 Feb 2007 11:57:00 PST

R.I.P.

First my dad in July, now my cousin this past Sunday...Everything seems like a roller coaster......when will it all stop??? http://www.kcra.com/news/10306537/detail.html...
Posted by Vince on Wed, 15 Nov 2006 03:55:00 PST

smoking

To those that don't know, I've stopped smoking, ever since my dad passed away, I've always had this guilty feeling everytime I lit one up. Plus, he hated me smoking and always wanted me to quit. So......
Posted by Vince on Thu, 10 Aug 2006 11:09:00 PST

A Big Thanks

My dad's sudden passing has caused us a lot of grief. This week for me has been emotionally draining. My family and I are very lucky that we have family and friends who supports us through these hard ...
Posted by Vince on Thu, 20 Jul 2006 07:31:00 PST

Something to think about Part 13

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out whom you are or whom you wan...
Posted by Vince on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Friends

Isn't perspective a wonderful thing? Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don't have. Appreciate every single thing you ha...
Posted by Vince on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST