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Paul

About Me

CELEBRATE LIFE AND BEING ALIVE - MAKE SOME NOISE !!Every time we open our eyes, is another chance to create the life we want ......My "misadventure" in Iraq marked the end of one way of life ... and the start of another ...By 9.10am on November 17 2004 I was lying bloodied, burnt and broken in my wrecked vehicle; the victim of a Suicide car bomber in Baghdad. In a matter of seconds all control of my life had been violently snatched from me...over the months that followed, I came to realise that I had to take it back.Of course, this seemed like a ridiculous proposal to everyone else, given the amount of pain I was in, the extent of all my injuries and unfavourable prognosis, however I knew from experience that the right attitude coupled with motivation and a commitment to "be the best me I could become" would help to rebuild my strength again, not just physically but emotionally and mentally too (I did my first "Body for LIFE", or BfL, Challenge in 2001 and had continued to lead a BfL Lifestyle until the attack, over 3 years later).From my wheelchair I set my goals and commited to achieving them - I decided NOT to let myself be a victim of anything or anyone and that I would ...1. Walk again; unaided. 2. Build my body even stronger than it had been, before the attack 3. Redesign my life to one of CHOICE NOT CHANCE.Why did I make these choices ?... well, I realised that wherever we find ourselves at, is the perfect place to start; EVERY MINUTE of EVERY HOUR of EVERY DAY.Our lives can change in the blink of an eye - not just when something happens TO us, but also in those moments when we choose to take a stand and MAKE THE DECISION TO MAKE A CHANGE AND CHOOSE TO LIVE OUR LIFE AT 100% !Since that "Life-Choosing" moment, I have continued to go from strength to strength !I am passionate about life and appreciate it far more today than I ever did before that "misadventure".At the beginning of this journey, everyone was saying "you can't...you wont...it's too soon...", and there were certainly times on this journey when I almost bought-into that ....... ALMOST. However, my commitment and belief was strong enough to keep me moving towards my goals... and beyond.Winning the BfL competition and being named "Irish Grand Champion" was not the end of my story or journey - it became merely another bright, new start!The last 2 years has seen me travel the world and make some AMAZING friends, have been to the States umpteen times and re-trained as a Life Coach with MARTHA BECK (of OPRAH fame), travel to & volunteer at an ORPHANAGE IN THAILAND POST-TSUNAMI, establish A SUCCESSFUL COACHING PRACTICE, become involved in different working groups in the UK dealing with POST TRAUMATIC STRESS....... and don't even get me started talking about REJOINING A ROCK BAND... Man, Life is gooooooood !!



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The Death of a friend of a friend

..TR style="BORDER-RIGHT: 69c 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: 69c 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: 69c 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: 69c 1px solid; BORDER-COLLAPSE: collapse"> Have you ever noticed that when you pass o...
Posted by on Thu, 08 Jan 2009 05:14:00 GMT

It’s Time to Shine in 2009 !

Yeehaa !! We're now well and truly in 2009 ... and it's going to be a GREAT year - WOO HOOOO !!!I think you all know just how excited I am about this new year ... and it's not, as some might imagine, ...
Posted by on Fri, 02 Jan 2009 04:01:00 GMT

Flying home at Christmas

A valuable lesson ... and a true story ..HERE'S A LITTLE EXPERIMENT ... PICTURE YOURSELF IN THE FOLLOWING SCENES IF YOU WILL ...OPENING SCENEYou've been up since 4amYou've walked to and from your 12 h...
Posted by on Thu, 18 Dec 2008 08:35:00 GMT

Get Rich Quick - develop an Attitude of Gratitude !

"The Richest person in the world is not the person who has the most, it is the one who needs the least"     You will never be rich in life if you cannot do 2 things; Be Grateful for what ...
Posted by on Mon, 01 Dec 2008 06:53:00 GMT

War and Peace

Someone wrote to me recently, and during the course of their emails the subject of judging others came up. So for what it's worth, here are my thoughts (edited slightly) ... Try to always be...
Posted by on Sun, 09 Nov 2008 07:26:00 GMT

Where does TRUE STRENGTH lie ...

... is it in the Body ? ... Mind ? ... Heart ? ... Spirit ? An alignment of more than one of the above ? Watch this video ... and make your choice ! http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=4K9GM3ZB7Gc .
Posted by on Mon, 27 Oct 2008 10:57:00 GMT

Strong in the Broken Places

There is a quote that I've used on my myspace profile page for the last couple of years by Hemingway that says:..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />   "The w...
Posted by on Mon, 13 Oct 2008 10:43:00 GMT

Who would we be without our "stories" ?

In order to make something into a "problem", we have to do one of 2 things:..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />   1. Compare it to how things used to be and ...
Posted by on Thu, 18 Sep 2008 21:59:00 GMT

From "me" to "we"

  I read a story earlier today that got me thinking ... It is often easier to choose love and compassion over hate, fear, anger and condemnation when it involves someone we don't know (i.e. a st...
Posted by on Wed, 17 Sep 2008 11:17:00 GMT

Carrots, Eggs & Coffee Beans

A certain daughter complained to her father about her life and how thingshave been so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to makeit and she wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting an...
Posted by on Fri, 05 Sep 2008 01:04:00 GMT