Marija

Hi everyone.I am not that good at profiling myself. It's hard to put my feelings and thoughts into words on a website. Short about me: I am a open person, who loves to meet new contacts. That's why I'm here. .oO(Of course)Well, I have a little story that I want to share with everyone in here! It gave me something to think about, and I have learned much of this. Everytime I see myself in a dílemma, I remember this story, and know exactly how to react..~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~*~.~ *~.Michael ws that kind of guy, that you love to hate. H was always in a good mood and he never talked bad about anyone. If someone asked him, how he felt, he answered:"If I was any better, I would have been a twin"He was a natural inspiration. If someone at work had a bad day, Michael was always there, telling how to always look at the bright sides.One day I got curious and asked him:"How do you do it?"Michael answered:"Every morning when I wake up, I tell myself: "You have two possibilites. You can be in a good or a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Every time something bad happens, you can choose to be the victim or learn of the situation. I choose to be wiser. Every time someone give me a complain, I can either accept the complain, or point out the positive sides of life. I choose to find the positive sides of life.""It's all good, but is's not that simple" I said"It really is" Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut of all the unnessesary, then you will see, that everything is all about choices in life. You choose how to react to situations. You choose how people will effect on your mood. It is you who choose, if you want t be in a good or a bad mood. At last, it's you who choose how to live your life."I thought about what Michaelsaid for a long time.After a while I left the company to start my own company. I lost all contact with Michael, but I offen had him in the back of my mind.Many years later I heard that Michael was in a terrible accident. He felt 20m down from a mast. After 18h of surgery and weeks on EO, Michael was relased from the hospital.I meet Michael about 6 weeks after the accident. WHen I asked, how he felt, he answered:"If I was any better, I would be a twin. Would you like to see the scars?"I asked him what he thought of during the accident.Michael answered: "The first thing that came through my mind, was how my unborn child would be without her father. While the rescue staff was carrieng me to the ambulance, I remembered, that I had two choices. I could either choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."Weren't you scared? Did you loose your consions?" I asked.Michael went on: " The rescue staff was fantastic. They told me that everything would be alright all the way to the hospital. But when they rolled me into the hospital and saw the doctors and nurses faces, I got very scared. They were looking at me like Iwas going to die. I knew I had to do something.""What did you do? I asked."There was a very big nurse, who were yelling questions at me. She asked me, if I was allergic to anything. "YES" did I say to the big nurse. All the doctors and nurses stopped riht away, and awaited my continuing. I took a deep breath and shouded: "GRAVITY". And while the doctors and nurses was laughing, I told them: "I choose to live, threat me like I'm alive, not dying".Michael survived thanks to doctors skills, but also because of his fantastic mood.