People come into your life for a reason
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
MINUS THE BEAR
Wolf Parade
Death Cab For Cutie
Snow Patrol
Queens Of The Stone Age
Stars
Radiohead
Priestess
Modest Mouse
Jeremy Enigk
Shiny Toy Guns
Tapes 'n Tapes
Sia
The Used
The Fire Theft
Sunny Day Real Estate
City And Colour
Hot Chip
Jeff Buckley
Metric
Wilco
Elliott Smith
Tegan And Sara
Death From Above 1979
Deftones
Team Sleep
The New Pornographers
A.C. Newman
Broken Social Scene
Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Ryan Adams
She Wants Revenge
The Presets
Powderfinger
Shout Out Louds
The Faint
Robots In Disguise
Feist
The Dandy Warhols
Imogen Heap
Bloc Party
311
Teddybears
The Flaming Lips
Supergrass
Hum
Jack Johnson
Zero 7
Clap Your Hands Say Yeah
The Postal Service
Damien Rice
Of Montreal
The Sounds
Muse
The Arcade Fire
Eagles Of Death Metal
Franz Ferdinand
Mark Lanegan
Aqualung
Sparta
Howie Day
Sufjan Stevens
Iron And Wine
Institute
Ted Leo And The Pharmacists
Taking Back Sunday
The Tragically Hip
Saosin
Interpol
Third Eye Blind
Unwritten Law
The Bravery
The Killers
30 Seconds To Mars
The Marble Index
Matchbook Romance
Kaiser Chiefs
AFI
Story Of The Year
Saves The Day
Brand New
The Mark Inside
Rise Against
and on and on and on...