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My name is Ashley and I am a sophomore in college. Inspired by One is an upcoming nonprofit organization to help eliminate AIDS and poverty in Africa (specifically the North West province of South Africa). In September 2006, I spent a couple of weeks in South Africa and Botswana, and I have seen the devastation caused by AIDS and poverty...I've seen the tears and struggles. I went to help build homes for 53 orphaned children. They all live in an "orphanage" that used to be run by a pastor and his wife. Three other women also helped to care for the children. The pastor and his wife brought in the kids from several squatter camps where the children had been abandoned by their parents. Some kids were alone because their parents died of AIDS, and some were just simply abandoned. The pastor and his wife couldn't stand to see the kids on the street and wanted to take them in...but they did not have a home big enough. A friend let them use the one-room shack behind her home with a piece of carpet that did not even cover the entire floor. The corners of the room were nothing but dirt. There was no ventilation, electricity, or running water. The room is so small that the children have to pack in there and sleep sitting up. Unfortunately, the pastor died of a heart attack shortly after they started taking care of all of the children. After he passed away his wife was left with the children and a tent church. It is the desert, so it is very hot during the day and incredibly cold at night. They do not have any heating or air conditioning, and most of the children didn't even have a blanket to keep them warm. Our team made a bag for each child before we left and we took them with us. We put an outfit, a sweatshirt, toys, a blanket, and a stuffed animal in each bag for the kids. We also bought tons of food once we were in Africa to take to them. The team members bought the children chicken, and it was the first time some of the children had ever had meat. We spent a lot of time with the kids at the orphanage and the team put up 4 steel structures that will serve as houses for the children. The first time we went to the orphanage, we noticed the kids were kicking garbage around as a ball. The least we could do was buy a real ball for them to play with. When we gave it to them the next day, all they wanted to do was play with it. The crime rate is so bad that there are razors on the fences, barbed wire is all over, and some houses have very tall concrete walls surrounding them. The orphanage has barbed wire hooked around the stick fence. While the kids were playing, one of the boys tripped and tried to use his hands to break his fall...and landed in the barbed wire. He had a huge gash in his hand from it. We really wanted to fix him up...but had to be insanely careful in case he had AIDS. One of the guys on the team took our first-aid kit to try and bandage him up, but even after wiping it off, the little boy's hand was so dry and dirty that the band-aid would not even stick. When the kids would fall down and get hurt, it seemed that the women at the orphanage did not even care. My aunt and I would run over to the babies, pick them up and try to comfort them. It wasn't until the second day that they really started to trust us. But it is completely understandable...they have been abandoned by their parents and had no idea who we were. And while we did have a little language barrier with the children, the adults spoke English, so they translated for us. Love translates itself, and the kids knew that we were there for them. When I first said I was going on the trip, some people said that it was ridiculous to go to the other side of the world when some places here are bad too. But I knew it my heart that I was called, and so did the rest of the team. While being there, I realized something very important...the pretty wealthy people living a 10-15 minute drive away from Dinokana and these other villages did not seem to care what happened. But when we got there and spent time with them and they saw what we were doing for the orphanage, a fire started in their hearts too. They became more passionate and compassionate for the people living in their own backyard. That's why I went on the trip. That was the purpose. And if anyone wanted to go on a mission trip...I would say to not even think twice. Do it and you will not regret it. Extend your hands. Go beyond yourself and do something for someone else. This experience was life-changing and I cannot wait to go back. Thank you for your support. If you have any questions or are interested in helping out....please feel free to email me. [email protected]..
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bad news

I received a few separate phone calls last night telling me the same thing...The pastor of the church in South Africa who connected my team with the orphanage passed away. As of right now I can't give...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Dec 2009 11:08:00 GMT

another Christmas...

It's time again for my annual Christmas blog. I can't believe I've been home from Africa for two and a half years. That means this is my third Christmas since my mission trip. Christmas has been so di...
Posted by on Fri, 26 Dec 2008 03:40:00 GMT

what’s on my heart....

Tonight couldn't have been any better. I haven't felt like this in a really long time. & I have one person to thank for that :] Right now I can't stop thinking about speaking at a high school just...
Posted by on Wed, 23 Jul 2008 20:29:00 GMT

ORPHANAGE UPDATE! THEY NEED YOUR HELP!

I found out some encouraging news yesterday, but it always seems to come with heartbreaking news at the same time. I saw some recent footage of what is going on in the orphanage and in Botswana. Here'...
Posted by on Mon, 21 Apr 2008 05:17:00 GMT

NEW FUNDRAISER!

Hey Everyone, I just put together a fundraiser last night! We’re going to have a walkathon on Saturday, May 17th at 11am -- RAIN OR SHINE. If you would like to walk with us or donate to the caus...
Posted by on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 12:54:00 GMT

IDOL GIVES BACK ON NOW

Idol Gives Back is on Fox until 10pm. Please tune in and if you feel it in your heart to give I encourage you to do so. I can’t stress how important it is to reach out and help those who really ...
Posted by on Wed, 09 Apr 2008 16:52:00 GMT

support the cause

Inspired by One has a favor to ask of all of our friends. If you look on the profile on the left hand side, there is a support code. Please copy and paste the support code into a bulletin and get your...
Posted by on Sun, 06 Apr 2008 06:00:00 GMT

ways you can help fight hunger without spending a dime

hey everyone, a new friend just reminded me of a game called free rice challenge. if you play it rice is donated to those in need of food. here's the link... www.freerice.com also, by simply clicking ...
Posted by on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 18:40:00 GMT

another Christmas...

okay, so i know that i did this last year too...but it's important to realize that nothing has changed. its once again officially Christmas in Africa, but those little kids won't wake up to presents u...
Posted by on Mon, 24 Dec 2007 17:20:00 GMT

Christmas

Right now it's officially Christmas day in Africa. I'm sitting here in my house with the Christmas tree up, lit and decorated. We just got back from dinner at my aunt's house with the rest of my famil...
Posted by on Sun, 24 Dec 2006 18:23:00 GMT