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I did have a few things written about me ie, I'm a mum of a beautiful baby boy, Spencer, a bit about what I do to chill out, and who my fave friends are. BUT.... That doesn't really tell much about ME.So here's something completely different (shout out to Monty python fans ;-) ).......HAPPINESS IS A JOURNEY, NOT A DESTINATION........... 'For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. At last it dawned on me that the obstacles WERE my life. This perspective has helped me to see there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment you have and remember that time waits for no one. (Souza)' .....................MY TOTEM............................. The phoenix. It is a mythical bird/creature,and when it dies, bursts into flames. An egg appears, and from the ashes, the Phoenix arises, reborn. As with everyone, I've had my ups and downs, and hit rock bottom as well. The phoenix is a symbol to remind me that no matter what happens, I'll come through, stronger and better than before. .......................................................... DESTINY exists, but we make it. Everyone has a place in life, something that they were meant to be and do, but the way we reach it and accept it is up to us and the choices we make. From accepting/turning down a date, to what we have for breakfast, to deciding to skip a class, to how we spend our money each day- all impacts on our destiny. We make or destiny by the choices we make...........................AND LOVE........................ Is unexpected. Take all chances, cos you never know where you'll end up- I met my boyfriend and father of my child at a night club, and kept turning him down til I ran into him down the street and he asked me to hang out for a while... and he's 3 years younger than I am... It was 6 months after I broke up with my ex of 5 years and I so wasn't ready for a boyfriend ( single life rocked!) but I found him and fell in love... Ahh. Bliss. ........................................................... TRUE FRIENDS are not just friends... They are Family. I'm so blessed to have my family of friends, all different, but all the same... Hugs all round! .......................................................... and last, but not least...................................MY SON teaches me patience. He has taught me a love that I have never felt before, pure and unconditional. He has taught me that I am not the most important person in the world, and I find my self being unselfish in making sure that his needs are met. And he's also taught me how a smile can brighten up your day, no matter how tired or run down or grumpy you are.
Your Inner Child Is Surprised
You see many things through the eyes of a child.
Meaning, you're rarely cynical or jaded.
You cherish all of the details in life.
Easily fascinated, you enjoy experiencing new things. How Is Your Inner Child? I made this layout with help from pYzam , Look at these other Layouts!

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Saving a life

Over the past few months, I have discovered just how important giving blood really is. My sister, Ella, has contraced a rare blood disease where her bone marrow stops producing Blood. Everyone's blood...
Posted by Jen on Fri, 29 Jun 2007 05:39:00 PST

An empowered woman

Thinking back to a conversation I had with a close male friend of mine last night on the pros and cons of motherhood....I've discovered that with all its pros and cons, with all the love, bewilderment...
Posted by Jen on Thu, 18 Jan 2007 06:23:00 PST

Life Before and After Bubs

Before...... Spontanious and Long Sex. Showers Every Morning Going out only inhibited by Dosh in the Bank( or lack of) Sleeping in when ever Nunmero Uno- Me, Followed by my lovely man  Time take...
Posted by Jen on Tue, 19 Dec 2006 03:29:00 PST