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martha

I am here for Friends

About Me

I'm very honest. I may not always volunteer information but I never lie. So don't ask unless you really, really want to know. However....when it comes to the little things, kindness before honesty, always. Unless, of course, you look like shit and you want my opinion. In that case, screw your feelings. I would expect the same. I have no patience for intolerance or inflexibility. Life is too full of possibilities to get stuck on just one perspective or idea. I'm very independent but I'm also very attached to the people I love. I never fight and avoid confrontation whenever possible but DO NOT fuck with my people 'cuz the claws come out.I regret nothing and seldom think about the past but I have absolutely no sense of future so I'm terrible at making and keeping plans. ANY plans, don't take it personally. Sometimes I can get extremely down but it never lasts. I'm all about the simple pleasures. A song, a kiss, a simple word can be enough to bring me out of my hole.

My Interests

Reading, dancing, Discovering new places, no matter how big or small Discovering new people: good, bad, or in between, everyone's a different adventure.

I'd like to meet:

The greatest people you ever meet are always the ones you weren't expecting

Music:

Scissor Sisters, Mika, Amy Winehouse, The Strokes, Coldplay, Fiona, Gwen, M.I.A., Peaches, Arctic Monkeys, Louis XIV, John Legend, Cafe Tacuba, Diamond Nights, Orishas, The Beatles, Jeff Buckley, Robbie Williams, U2, Weezer, Los Fabulosos Cadillacs, Manu Chao, Madonna, Radiohead, Marc Anthony (only the salsa stuff)

Movies:

Anything by Almodóvar, David Lynch or Charlie Kauffman, Lost in Translation, The Shining, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Almost Famous, Scarface, 9 & 1/2 Weeks, Less than Zero, El Callejon de los Milagros, just to name a few...

Television:

LOST LOST LOST!!!!!, Nip/Tuck, Project Runway, Entourage, The L Word, Heroes, Grey's, AI, Brothers & Sisters...Seriously, I watch too much TV.

Books:

Sexus, Cien Años de Soledad, The Catcher in the Rye, The Hours, Las Edades de Lulu, American Psycho, Brave New World, Incest, The History of Love, The Life of Pi, How We Are Hungry, What Is The What, White Teeth, the list goes on forever....Plus, David Sedaris can do no wrong.

Heroes:

Henry Miller, Anais Nin, Holden Caulfield, Bono (he only gets better), Ghandi, MLK. These are just a few who inspire greatness & fearlessness. In the end we are all just people; everyone made up of the same matter as everyone else. Anything one of us can do, any of us can do, you just have to believe it.