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Standingbear

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About Me

Just a laid back cat who knows what he's made of but never forgetting I'll never completely be the man I wanna be so always trying to fix myself so I can be the kinda man I need to be. Honor & chivalry is a big part of me, still holding doors n pulling out chairs. Love to love, prefer peace although I've acquired a lot of scars along the way. Wild at heart & a restless Spirit but someday soon hope to walk side by side with the one that thrills my soul.Basically someone close to me awhile back that I would have spent my life with if I were a better man turned me onto what I realized I was needing in my life at some point & now it seems to be etched in my soul. We loved strong & she helped me to be a better man that I desire, at least on the inside...This is kinda silly but this is who I am, what I would hope for & how I'd put it all together....Courage's & brave & believe in humility, strength n dignity to do the right thing. Kind & compassionate & playful n tough, dig candle light kisses but also like it rough. Sometimes gentle other times not, confident & assertive to take what I want. I believe in passion with fire & flame, variety goes along way, just the same. Sometimes predictable, other times not, always loyal to the end when I'm in your spot. Honesty always & able to talk, never leave u guessing n don't like that walk. A lil stubborn I have an ole soul, traditional n practical but not too cold. Proud to show my Honor to u everyday, loving it n feeling it all the way. Sometimes scarred, loves a loosing game, willing to try again, never in vain. Not too hard but not too soft, strong as an oak but soft as moss. Simple on the outside but complex in the middle, just the right ingredients not a riddle. It turns me on to know u got my back, when were solid to the core & friendships a matter of fact. Don't mind a challenge but never keepin score, when she's not afraid to take my hand, make love not war. Loyalty n Honesty always fore sure, strong enough to trust, truth is the cure. Love smiles n laughter keeping it tight, gotta thing for tom girls but with a soft bite. Hair up, hair down it's all the same, what a turn on when she's in her game. Whether sundresses & sandals or heels & slacks, love them holey jeans given me a heart attack. Variety exciting me the look on her face, when she's changing it up just like leather n lace. Genuine personalities give me a rush n moving in the same direction opens me up. So someday relaxing & doing our thing, when were old n gray on the porch swing. This is me, what I want, gotta fix a few things, hopefully not too long."From my heart being as not full Native, if I too, were cast away rightfully with the other white men, then I would proudly lay down for what my forefathers have done for it is bountiful with sin but, if I were to be accepted as for what my heart holds dear - the Native way, then I would gladly & proudly spill my blood for you, for it is true, it is thick & Red". Brian "StandingBear"I feel blessed & have been given the honor to understand what is real & true if only I forever remember to see with my heart & soul & listen with ears that aren't obstructed with "life's chatter", I hate injustice & I mourn for those that have been oppressed whomever or wherever they may be. I am usually very protective of anyone close to me & would also stand right beside anyone in a righteous battle & lay down my blood for them as well. My Brother has given me the speech of choosing my battles wisely many times. I am very traditional in many ways especially times of old although I am very open minded as well. I have much respect for my Elders for they have much to offer. I'm white, Scottish, Irish & some Native mix but race has no boundaries in my eyes. More important where your heart is rather than what your eyes see. The name Standingbear is a spiritual gift given to me in a dream a long time ago as two warriors on horseback came to me & in the middle was a Bear, he stood to his hind legs showing no aggression & stayed with me as the warriors rode away. Bear & I didn't seem to be such friends in the beginning as he probably didn't trust me & I guess I had to earn his respect, for many times before in dreams he came to me not so nice. I have slept with bear & cubs in there den a few times now in my dreams so ... guess I am welcome. I have a few power animals - Bear (who guides me in troubled times with his logic & understanding & providing me courage to do what is right), Deer (for the beauty they remind me of), Crow (for providing me insight into turning events), Horse (for reminding me to be free), Buffalo (reminding me that Wakan Tanka like Tatanka has given all the abundance that is needed & has always reminded me that giving is more important than to receive), Owl (for opening my eyes & heart to the ways of old at a young age), Hawk (helping me with his keen sight to understand what I may not see now) & Coyote (helping me to stay cautious). I became very interested in old ways at an early age & feel that I was drawn to these ways of truth for a reason, some obvious, some probably not yet known. I do know however that I have never had a more deep connected kinship in anything else in my life. feels like I should be from another time n place or at least a different generation of past. I pray that my Creator will always embrace me & guide me through dreams & provide me with new experiences, for I have been given many blessed encounters with my animal friends in the waking world & dreaming world in the past & I will always hold that close like a dear friend.
Your Power Bird is an Eagle
You are spiritual and able to soar to great heights.
You are a true inspiration, and many people look to you for guidance.
And you are quite demanding in relationships... but you're worth it.
People know that you will become even greater than you imagine. What's Your Power Bird? Which Tarot Card Are You?
You are the Justice card. Justice preserves the harmony of the world. Working with opposite forces, Justice does not seek to criticize or condemn but rather to accept. The idea behind the card justice is that opposite forces are complementary; you could not have good without evil or light without darkness. Justice's position is to make sure that if a thing is out of balance, the weight of its energy is realigned with its opposite force. This card is also a card of humour, for it is in pointing out contrary positions that humour is often found. The attitude that is found in the humourous person, being able to shift perspective and flow with an instinct, is important in the maintenance of good balance. Image from The Blue Moon Tarot Deck. http://www.themysticeye.com/pics/bluemoon.htm
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You Are a Visionary Soul
You are a curious person, always in a state of awareness.
Connected to all things spiritual, you are very connected to your soul.
You are wise and bright: able to reason and be reasonable.
Occasionally, you get quite depressed and have dark feelings.
You have great vision and can be very insightful.
In fact, you are often profound in a way that surprises yourself.
Visionary souls like you can be the best type of friend.
You are intuitive, understanding, sympathetic, and a good healer.
Souls you are most compatible with: Old Soul and Peacemaker Soul What Kind of Soul Are You?
What Subversive Alternative Paradigm Are You?
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You scored as Mystic

You are a Mystic. Practical magic isn't really your thing; you much prefer to take the inner roads to self-development and spiritual evolution. You find ecstasy in meditative silence and commune with the divine without aid of any church or religious leader to guide you. You will seek the light of heaven in your own way, even if that way is not apparent to the casual observer.


Otherkin


70%

Mystic


70%

Spiritualist


55%

True Alternative


50%

White Lighter


50%

Magician


35%

Discordian


25%

Aimless Eclectic


15%

You are The Hierophant

Divine Wisdom. Manifestation. Explanation. Teaching.

All things relating to education, patience, help from superiors.The Hierophant is often considered to be a Guardian Angel.

The Hierophant's purpose is to bring the spiritual down to Earth. Where the High Priestess between her two pillars deals with realms beyond this Earth, the Hierophant (or High Priest) deals with worldly problems. He is well suited to do this because he strives to create harmony and peace in the midst of a crisis. The Hierophant's only problem is that he can be stubborn and hidebound. At his best, he is wise and soothing, at his worst, he is an unbending traditionalist.

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Which Tarot Card are You?
You are The Hermit. You sometimes turn away from society to focus on the inner world. You sense that there is a deeper reality and wish to find it. You are a seeker, and are a wise teacher. You are The Hermit, seek and ye shall find.
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The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.
In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored.
You'd like to your lover to think you are optimistic and happy.
You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.
Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.
In this moment, you think of love as something you don't need. You just feel like flirting around and playing right now. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

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I'd like to meet:

God of course & all the Native forefathers & keepers of the way from ancient times. My Mother who recently passed from this world - December 31st 2006 (my birthday). It is now her birthday into the next world. She was one of the Bravest, warmest & peaceful people I ever knew. I will miss her but ... it is only a moment & I will see her again.Anyone really as long as your easy going n laid back.Will possibly add a blog or something up top as to what I'm looking for beyond friendship. Someday I would indeed like to walk this path with 2 sets of foot prints.

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The Beat Goes On..Tribute to Leonard Peltier

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZsQzepS5MQ
Posted by on Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:35:00 GMT

life-never forget


Posted by on Tue, 23 Dec 2008 22:57:00 GMT

WHO I AM & WHAT I WOULD WANT WHEN ITS MY TIME.

Basically someone close to me awhile back that I would have spent my life with if I were a better man turned me onto what I realized I was needing in my life at some point & now it seems to be etc...
Posted by on Sat, 13 Dec 2008 16:30:00 GMT

real luv man!

check this vid link out ....http://cosmos.bcst.yahoo.com/up/player/popup/?cl=1084941 0
Posted by on Sun, 30 Nov 2008 03:34:00 GMT

just thoughts

In the beginning, I did not need you, no more love to give, I was through Then one night through all which had been shared, my heart opened up, and you were there. I began to trust, I began to f...
Posted by on Thu, 17 Apr 2008 10:34:00 GMT

MORE TO SHARE

I want to share to you that I have seen what I believe to be the coming of many things in dreams through out my life, I am greatful for this. I am sure many many of you have as well through out your l...
Posted by on Wed, 26 Mar 2008 10:54:00 GMT

MY THOUGHTS TO SHARE

    I often long to be with the Creator, to shed this skin, my life but I must always remember that I am now, Grandfathers manifestations are all around me, inside me & until my tim...
Posted by on Wed, 26 Mar 2008 10:17:00 GMT

HONOR, RESPECT, COURAGE

..> Body: ...
Posted by on Thu, 31 Jan 2008 22:27:00 GMT

ADOPTING A WILD HORSE (MUSTANG) OR BURRO

http://www.blm.gov/wo/st/en/prog/wild_horse_and_burro/adopti on_of_wild_horses.html(866) 4 mustangsFederal protection and a lack of natural predators have resulted in significant increases in wild hors...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Nov 2007 17:29:00 GMT

WILD HORSES & BURROS

The Bureau of Land Management is in the process of implementing legislation recently passed by Congress. The legislation directs the BLM to offer for sale those wild horses and burros that are more th...
Posted by on Tue, 27 Nov 2007 16:57:00 GMT