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About Me

I am a nocturnal creature. One of the lucky few whose job supports that lifestyle. I have lived in San Francisco for most of my life and wouldn't have it any other way. I am generally patient and try to get along with people but sometimes get myself into trouble by thinking too much. I seem to have a gift for making people laugh but really am pretty serious most of the time, sometimes too serious. Having studied various occult disciplines, I tend toward a mystical point of view but am non-judgemental with regard to the beliefs of others (as long as i am treated in a like manner). I try to be inclusive of all faiths, including 'no faith'. My only real prejudice is against stupid people. Favorite Rumi quote: Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass, the world is too full to talk about. Ideas, language, even the phrase 'each other' doesn't make any sense. Quick survey of major astrological influences at my nativity: Sun - Aries, Moon - Libra, Ascendant - Virgo, Mercury - Taurus, Venus - Pisces, Mars - Capricorn.This personality test was surprisingly accurate:

Your result for The LONG Scientific Personality Test...

INFP - the Healer You are more introverted than extroverted. You are more intuitive than observant, you are more feeling based than thinking based, and you prefer to go with the flow rather than having a plan. Your type can best be summarized by the word "Healer", which belongs to the larger group of idealists. You have a capacity for caring that is deeper than most. You strive for unity, are fascinated by the battles between good and evil, and can be something of an idealist. Only 1% of the population shares your type.
As a romantic partner, you are usually supprtive and nuturing, however, you have a high need for individuality. Harmony is extremely important to you as you are very affected by conflict and tension, which also makes you resist confronting your partner directly about problems. When you get angry, you usually blame yourself, rather than your partner. You can also be stubborn and unyielding when you feel you are being criticized or mistreated. You feel the most appreciated when your partner listens to you carefully. You need to be understood. You need to hear your partner express their feelings, the more often, the better. Your group summary: idealists (NF)
Your type summary: INFP

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I am 34% Asshole/Bitch.
.. I may think I am an asshole or a bitch, but the truth is I am a good person at heart. Yeah sure, I can have a mean streak in me, but most of the people I meet like me. Take the
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@ FualiDotCom I am 70% Evil Genius.
.. Evil courses through my blood. Lies and deceit motivate my evil deeds. Crushing the weaklings and idiots that do nothing but interfere in my doings. Take the
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@ FualiDotCom I am 36% Geek.
.. You probably work in computers, or a history deptartment at a college. You never really fit in with the "normal" crowd. But you have friends, and this is a good thing. Take the
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@ FualiDotCom I am 52% Hippie.
.. I am not a child of the 60’s but my heart is true to the cause, man. I realize that being a hippie is not just bell bottoms and tie-dye. It is also about the drugs and smelling bad, too! Take the
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@ FualiDotCom I am 13% Idiot.
.. I am not annoying at all. In fact most people come to me for advice. Of course they annoy the hell out of me. But what can I do? I am smarter than most people. Take the
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Someone with the quietude of spirit and depth of experience to appreciate the subtle truths of life without obsessing over trying to understand them. Someone well spoken but capable of sharing silence unselfconsciously. Someone urbane and nocturnal who enjoys good coffee and appreciates the absurdity of life. Someone well mannered but strong enough to know when it's time to talk straight. Someone not overly hung up on the whole "money-stuff thing" but who DOES have a home and a job. Someone with strong opinions yet posessed of the wisdom and humility to admit that they might be completely mistaken. Someone patient enough to discern what you MEAN, rather than react defensively to what you SAY. Someone who understands that we are all the same consciousness experiencing itself subjectively. These are qualities I look for in a friend or a mate but, that being said, I realize that most people (myself included) fall well short. Mostly I just want to be respected for the good qualities I know I posess by someone committed to deserving that respect in return. I am NOT interested in joining any kind of hierarchical occult society, but am open to informal discourse on esoterica. Musically i like to play with experimentally minded musicians who aren't on a 'rock star mission' or suffering under delusions of virtuosity. I'm looking for people who want to craft a sound and not just use music to make a buck or get laid (not that I object to those as possible fringe benefits). If you like 'My Life in the Bush of Ghosts' we should get along just fine.

My Blog

In Memoriam

January 4th always seems to sneak up on me.  It's like, I'm getting up and going to work and it's just the same as any other day and at some point I look up and it's January 4th, the day my mothe...
Posted by on Mon, 05 Jan 2009 01:17:00 GMT

CA Prop 8 is illegal

Prop 8 is illegal.  Shut up.  Get away from me.  Educate your own kids.  What two people who love each other do is no business of the government's, ESPECIALLY if what they are doin...
Posted by on Fri, 07 Nov 2008 10:52:00 GMT

Post your favorite haiku

I'll start, this one was inspired by the rantings of a tweaked out middle eastern man I used to work for.  All the dick-pricks know You mess with me you get dicked Fuck you full of holes   T...
Posted by on Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:50:00 GMT

Lush

This is my favorite bit of lyrics from the first band I was in.  Years ago at this point but I still find myself remembering it.  No recordings of us performing it but oh well.  Written...
Posted by on Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:59:00 GMT

Chuang Tsu, the inner teachings

Wow, this book's been sitting on my shelf for years now and I only just started reading it.  Amazing stuff.  A collection of Taoist "fables" set down by Chuang Tsu around the 4th century BC....
Posted by on Mon, 02 Oct 2006 04:11:00 GMT

Soul Coughing

Wow!  Someone turned me on to the band Soul Coughing recently.  I can't believe nobody told me about these guys YEARS ago.  They're broken up now but produced three albums between '94 a...
Posted by on Fri, 19 Nov 2004 11:55:00 GMT

Wow, heavy

When I tell people I believe in reincarnation, I guess I should have been more specific. I found this excerpt from a Buddhist text regarding Anatta (soullessness). Anatta is the Buddhist doctrine of...
Posted by on Mon, 10 May 2004 07:29:00 GMT

caring

If you think nobody cares about you, try missing a couple of payments.
Posted by on Tue, 04 May 2004 04:01:00 GMT

experience

Experience is something you don't get until just after you need it.
Posted by on Mon, 03 May 2004 01:34:00 GMT

Eagles & Weasels

Eagles may soar, but weasels aren't sucked into jet engines.
Posted by on Sat, 01 May 2004 05:42:00 GMT