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About Me

Hey hey, it's me Barbara Tolentino Reyes! My life is my family PERIOD! I met Miguel when I started working at TJ Target in the summer of 1991. Prior to getting hired at Target, I just happened to submit an application before Memorial Day, went to San Felipe with my best friend Erika and her family, came back with a message to call Target to schedule an interview. I went to the interview and got hired the next week.

I didn't meet Miguel until July when I bumped into him in the office. I walked into the conversation he and some other guy had and he looked at me and called me a superficial B-yatch. I thought in my head, "Damn Asshole" and walked away. Thought he was stupid. Later tho, we started talking around the store. He walked around with a shopping cart wearing a red vest that had "Ask me and I can help" on the back--yeah geek, I know. We gone out to eat after work, or kicked back on the Target parking lot chatting, sometimes with groups of people; or go out bowling with Target people. Fun times.

We eventually got close and he asked me out on March 27, 1992 after a bowling game at Sweetwater. I was happy! But I down played the excitement cuz I didn't want to get too attached to him at that time. I was still on party mode and going out a lot. My feelings for him were getting stronger that we started seeing or talking to each other every day. We partied together, did traveling together, tried new foods together. We did everything together and enjoyed each other's company.

Till the day we got married October 31, 1998, we saw each other everyday and never got tired of each other's company. Weird, but we seriously never got tired of each other.

Mig proposing to me: Story Mig still get's pissed off. 1997, he met with my dad discreetly to ask him for permission to have my hand in marriage. My dad being so excited, he came to me and kissd me on the head and said, "Congratulations on your marriage". Uh, I didn't know this was happening and I saw Mig behind my dad throwing up his arms in frustration. Mig was going to surprise me that evening by proposing me at some location Mig and I forgot where, back in 1997. My dad ruined the surprise!

We were not interested in getting married until we attended Gabby and Richard Mejos wedding in 1997. I introduced Richard to Gabby at Target (another Target relationship). (I knew Richard from Southwestern College when I took summer school. I knew Gabby when she first got hired at Target and I trained her to work infants dept. She worked the first day in 3 inch heals. Everyone thought she was crazy.) I was in their wedding and at the reception I caught the bouquet and Miguel caught the garter belt. That convinced us to get married.

My Interests

Music:

Henna making goofy faces

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Lately, Henna's favorite past time is to make goofy faces. When she first did this, I laughed so hard. I had trouble trying to get it in video, for she does so randomly and unexpected.

05-30-07 Kids dancing to Rock and Roll

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Dancing to rock and roll! Gotta start them early.

06-09-07 kids playing on the couch

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What were the kids doing on June 9, 2007? They got a kick of throwing their toys at the back of the couch and were checking them out. Henna just turned two years old. Julian will be four in August. They like to play with each other, and at times they are partners in crime. This demonstrates it.

12-10-06 dad & Henna Decorating the Tree

Add to My Profile | More Videos Decorating the Christmas tree! This video is more to show her language comprehension at 17 months.Late 70s rock, disco; 80s New Wave, rock; 90s R & B, in general. Songs give me memories during time in my life when they were popular.

For example: Blue Bayou (Linda Rondstadt), all Air Supply songs, Off the Wall (Pink Floyd), How Deep is your Love (Bee Gees), Sailing (Christopher Cross), Afternoon Delight, Dust in the Wind reminds me of when I lived in South Carolina or East Coast in general (1970s-1980).

I remember seeing my dad sing, Yellow Submarine (Beatles). He was in the Navy at that time and worked in submarines (I think). 1970s.

True (Spandau Ballet), When Doves Cry (Prince), Careless Whisper (Wham!), Crazy for You (Madonna), Don't Answer Me (Alan Parsons Project), Shout at the Devil (Motley Crue) remind me of living in Hawaii (1980-1985). I was into Menudo! Jelly shoes, Slick Chics, Dove shorts, jelly bracelets (what people are wearing now), feathered hairstyles and fluorescent clothing were the rage. Also Hawaiian music. If you go to school in Hawaii, you learn hula--in all grades. Hula was taught as early as when you can start standing.

Tender Love (Full Force), Somebody, Shake the Disease (Depeche Mode); The Cure, Tears for Fears remind me of 7th and 8th grade in CPMS (1985-1986). Letty and I would buy earrings, swap them out and wear at least 3-6 in one ear lobe. We'd mix and never match.

Wicked Game (Chris Isaac), Losing my Religion (REM) remind me of the San Felipe trip I took with Erika in 1991.

With or Without You (U2) reminds me of my friend Crystal Valdez in my freshman year of HS.

Freestyle songs like Show Me (Cover Girls), Diamond Girl, TKA, remind me of my drill team days in my HS freshman year. Oran Juice Jones. Lowered trucks were the rage. Lots of Depeche Mode and such I'd see Trang and Roselle be all Goth. At that time it was called, "being morbid". 1987.

Where the Streets Have no Name (U2) my sophomore year. This reminds me of Crystal.

Silent Morning (Noel), Want to be the One (Stevie B), Information Society, Camouflage remind me of my junior year.

I Will be Right Here Waiting for You (Richard Marx) reminds me of my senior year.

I Don't Want to Cry and Someday (Mariah Carey), Rush Rush (Paula Abdul) reminds me of my first year in college.

Early and mid 90s hip hop (Womp! There it is, Rump shaker) remind me of the early dating times with Mig driving his mustang. I was never into hip hop, but Mig played these songs in his 80 black Mustang so much it carried the stigma.

Spanish Rock en Espanol (Mana, Cristian) entered my life (mid 90s) and I've been listening to it ever since. Partied at Frog's and Zool (when it first opened. Boy was it so fun at that time! Not even compared to it now) with Erika, Rosemary, Karla, and Target people.

Movies:

I am proud to say that I watched ALL STAR WARS movies at the theaters during the first weeks of opening in my life!

Star Wars and Empire Strikes Back were seen in South Carolina.

Return of the Jedi took me 5 times to watch it. Always sold out. I paid $1.50 to watch it at the base in Hawaii.

Television:

Gawd, I'm an HGTV junkie! I'm always looking for projects to do at home! PBS "History Detectives", Extreme Makeover Home Edition, Food Channel's Unwrapped I enjoy. OH! But if I need a good laugh, Whose Line is it Anyway?! I love the guys and always dreamed of going to one of their shows.

Books:

I have these Star Wars comic books I purchased in the mid 90s that I love and will never get rid of. Otherwise, I like National Geographic, Smithsonian, Archeology, Sylvia Brown.

Heroes:

Luke Skywalker...Legolos...Hot babes!

My Blog

Parenting Lesson #1

Never go to a grocery store after work with kids in tow...without feeding them prior to entering.I thought I'd be able to buy a few things to prepare dinner only to find Julian and Henna screaming for...
Posted by Que barbara! on Wed, 23 May 2007 07:34:00 PST

Chicano Park message from Rudy Guevarra

From: Cal A. Vera Date: Apr 17, 2007 9:28 AM The Chicano Park Steering Committee got word that the Minutemensos have applied for a permit to protest Chicano Park Day this Saturday April 21. Join as ...
Posted by Que barbara! on Thu, 19 Apr 2007 09:21:00 PST