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sterling

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About Me

Heres a bit about me, ive seen some profiles with surveys on them tellling you all about a persons likes and dislikes etc so instead of that - here goes......I am a strong black woman, I need not a cheap imitation of a man to get ahead. My key words are self-respect, self-love and independance. I am quietly but determinedly confident. I am in control, so much so that I dont need to shout it from the rooftops to make someone - or anyone believe me.When it comes to relationships I dont want a man to rescue me and make me complete, nor do I want a rich man who will cater to my every vain material need. I want an equal who will treat me with the respect that is my birthright. And woe betide the fool that crosses me because I simply am not programmed to tolerate bad behaviour, I operate a 'three strikes your out policy'. The first minor misdemeanour and I am prepared to forgive. A second mistake and I might just put it down to sloppiness. But screw up a third time and I will kick you to the kerb where you belong. Jealous thinking, bed hopping, girl slapping, women haters are not my cup of tea.When it comes to sex, I know exactly what I want and how often. Whatever I am up for, I wont be forced into anything that turns my stomach - unless that's what i've asked for.I have faith in my body regardless of its size or flaws and anybody that has any negative comments had best keep them to themself.In life, im out-there and hungry for success, I have a strict career plan, I know where I want to go and how I am going to get there. I am not career witch who steals your ideas ans sweetly passes them off as my own. Nor am I the office gossip who spends breaks swapping cheap and nasty rumours. I am a team player, more likely to pat my collegues on the back than stab them in it. I know that if i want to win friends and influence people i need to get my haed down and get the job done.No matter how 'chummy' I get with someone, no matter how chummy the friendship feels I will not let anyone belittle me. I'll speak to them about any uncalled for behaviour and put them firmly in their place.I undrestand that every one in a while we all get rubbish directed at us, but I make me stronger and able to appreciate the better things in life.I do not let lifes crap get me down, i ride with the rought times knowing that i have the strength and willpower to pull through. I am my own woman, my real strength lies in my heart, not in my looks or my hairstyle.I have determination and self belief; therefore, I dont adopt feel the need to procaim my self as 'goodas' or believe in girl power, i simply believe in the power of myself - a fully formed independant woman.bless. Miranda..
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