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Proud Woman, Mother, Daughter, & Friend

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About Me

FIRST, I ASK THAT YOU PLEASE SCROLL DOWN TO THE "WHO I WOULD LIKE TO MEET SECTION....THIS MAY SAVE YOU SOME TIME AND ENERGY... I am loved!!!! I am interested to see who I can find in here from the past. I have not had the time to get this thing started, but here goes.... I am truly blessed to say the least. To God be the glory!!! I have come a long way and know that I have a journey ahead. I am in Orlando and have been now for almost 4 years. I graduated from FAMU (Go Rattlers!!!) in 2001 with a degree in Psychology, and I am loving the field, I was made for it and it was made for me. I am actively pursuing my MS in Counseling Psychology with aspirations to become a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Life has been great and God still is AWESOME!!! I have a lovely diva princess who will be 8 this year, whew, time has been flying. My girls are still my girls: Cassandra, Anquanice, Sherlina, Stephenice, and Gelania. Everyone's doing well and happy in life!! I could go on but I hope to talk to my old friends soon.
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Name: Pookie, Phil, P-Money, Dr. Phil...Ms. Phil ok.. Phalandra
Birthday: September 27th
Birthplace: Charleston, SC
Current Location: Orlando, FL
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black-but Dark Brown in between touch ups
Height: 5'5 (doc told me I stole a half inch and that I was a lil under)
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: African-American!!
The Shoes You Wore Today: None, not cause I'm a durty foot, but I haven't left yet
Your Weakness: That's tough off the top to think of, I'll come back to that
Your Fears: Fire
Your Perfect Pizza: Cheesy with veggies, pepperoni and shaushage(pan from Pizza Hut)
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Complete my Degree and find good supervision for my licensure
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: Thank you Lord for another day and why is Chino jumping all over me??
Your Best Physical Feature: ha ha.....ME
Your Bedtime: I would love to be in bed by 930, but I'll settle for before midnight(it's summertime)
Your Most Missed Memory: MY GRANDMOTHER....summers at her house with my cousins and yard sales (I used to get a lot of Barbies)
Pepsi or Coke: Coke
MacDonalds or Burger King: Mickey D's
Single or Group Dates: At this point.....a Good date....I'm flexible
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Both
Chocolate or Vanilla: Vanilla
Cappuccino or Coffee: For those of you who know me and the baristas....Starbucs coffee, caramel syrup, half and half...
Do you Smoke: EEEWWW
Do you Swear: Nope. Thank God. There are two people out there who have experienced those episodes
Do you Sing: but of course!
Do you Shower Daily: Uhhh yes..
Have you Been in Love: Yes I have, and expecting to share those feelings again
Do you want to go to College: In college. Sounds weird, but I like school..lol
Do you want to get Married: Do I? Don't be ridiculous!!! I'm just not desperate
Do you belive in yourself: 100% If I don't how can I expect anyone else to?
Do you get Motion Sickness: only when I was pregnant many years ago
Do you think you are Attractive: YES
Are you a Health Freak: Health freak, no........
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes I do
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes, when I'm at home and not driving
Do you play an Instrument: Did play the violin for many years..need to pick it up again
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: NOOO!!!
In the past month have you Smoked: NOOO!!
In the past month have you been on Drugs: does caffeine count?? if so, not fair!!!
In the past month have you gone on a Date: u mean an outing with someone from the opp sex? then yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yes, but only to get my iPod fixed
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: NO
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: NO
In the past month have you been on Stage: NO
In the past month have you been Dumped: NO
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: NO
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Hearts only, but nothing tangible (kidding)
Ever been Drunk: tipsy maybe, drunk-Never
Ever been called a Tease: Who hasn't been? even if it were not true or intentional
Ever been Beaten up: Didn't do a lot of fighting, but NO!!!!!
Ever Shoplifted: No
How do you want to Die: Naturally, not tragically or doing something outrageous
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: A great mother, wife, daughter, friend, professional (most of which I already am)
What country would you most like to Visit: Not sure
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Brown
Favourite Hair Color: None, lol, or black
Short or Long Hair: None or short, unless he has locs like me
Height: just a preference....5'9'-6'6'
Weight: depends on the height....and how he wears his weight.
Best Clothing Style: Love a suit, jeans and slacks that fit right, dress casual, just not offensive
Number of Drugs I have taken: 0, unless you count caffeine- I think yall mean illicit drugs, right?
Number of CDs I own: wayyy too many to count
Number of Piercings: 2. did have a belly button ring 8 years ago
Number of Tattoos: 1
Number of things in my Past I Regret: I would say a lot, but I have since used them for the experience that I needed to make me who I am today
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My Interests

Working with youth, in the community and in church. I love to surf the web from time to time when I am not swamped in my school work, spending time with my daughter, talking to my friends and just enjoying life. I love motorcycles too. I don't have one yet, but plan to get one (Thanks to Kermit my BGD). Oh yeah, can't forget my possessive Miniature Pinscher "Chino"

I'd like to meet:

IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING DERROGATORY ON YOUR PAGE, DISRESPECTFUL ON YOUR PAGE, IF YOU HIT ME UP WITH A "WAZ UP SEXY," OR YOU ARE NOT AWARE OF HOW TO ADDRESS A WOMAN.....PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT YOU WILL NOT, I REPEAT WILL NOT RECEIVE A RETURN MESSAGE OTHER THAN JESUS LOVES YOU AND WANTS YOU TO BE A MAN AS YOU WERE CREATED TO BE, AND NO, I WILL NOT ACCEPT YOU AS A FRIEND. IT IS OBVIOUS THAT PEOPLE DON'T READ ANYMORE OR ELSE THEY WOULD RESPECT WHAT WAS WRITTEN IN THE PROFILE!!!!! I FIGURED I NEEDED TO UPDATE AS A RESULT OF BOYS WITH MEN-LIKE AGES SENDING MESSAGES AND REQUEST AS IF.....HOPEFULLY THIS WILL HELP SOMEONE SAVE THEIR KEYSTROKES..OK, NOW WHERE WERE WE? I'd like to find some old friends and meet new people who LOVE GOD, want to LOVE GOD, RESPECTS themselves, RESPECTS others, who want to TAKE OUR YOUTH BACK and let them know that it is not all about SEX, MONEY,and DRUGS (they have been tricked & fooled to believe that they don't need GOD at all times or to be educated), and those who have healthy and thought-provoking conversations. I don't do DISRESPECT!! This place could be beneficial, empowering, and positive. Fred Hammond, Mary Mary, Tye Tribbett, Kirk Franklin, JMOSS, Dorinda Clark, Karen Clark-Sheard,Joann Rosario, and many other Gospel artists as well as the talented young artists that are not ashamed to represent Jesus such as Lecrae,Trip Lee, Da T.R.U.T.H., Kiki Sheard, Onitsha, Tennyson, etc! Angela Basset, Tyler Perry, Morris Chesnut (ok, you know I had to put him there, lol), Mya Angelou, Denzel Washington, Chris Tucker, and other actors actresses, poets, writers who promote positivity and empowerment...It's time to grow!! ..
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Music:

I am a music lover: Jazz, Gospel(Contemporary and Rhythm and Praise, Gospel Hip-Hop), Old School smooth R&B, Classical, Easy Listening.

Movies:

I hafta give props to The Color Purple, the girls quote that movie backwards and forwards (true CP fan), Diary of a Mad Black Woman (not that I am) lol, almost any Denzel Washington movie (true talent), Antwone Fisher (gotta love Derek Luke too), Crash, A Christmas Story "Daddy's gonna kill Ralphie!!"Annie (original), Akeelah and the Bee, Finding Nemo, Meet the Browns (Play by Tyler Perry-"Thankya!" Pursuit of Happyness

Television:

Not too much tv viewing, but almost any investigative show on Court TV, Girlfriends, My Wife and Kids, Dateline, America's Next Top Model, American Idol (but it's getting old), Still a Jeopardy fan, Judge Matthes, Dr. Phil (maybe cause his name is my nickname?)

Books:

The Holy Bible, The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Health Disorders (DSM-IV-TR)the bible of mental health professionals, lol. I like to just pick up books relating to mental and social health. I recently read the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman and it was wonderful!!! Great to read if you are in a relationship/friendship. Lady in Waiting, another good book recently read. Books started and not finished: The Gift of Therapy(an open letter to a new generation of therapists and their patients), Reaching out in Family Therapy, The Wounded Heart, The Mummy at the Dining Room Table (Eminent therapists reveal their most unusual cases).

Heroes:

Jesus Christ-Thank you Lord for rescuing me and loving me unconditionally!!!!!!! Myself and My Grandmother as well.