What can I say about married life? I got a loving husband and a new name: Karalina Samalaulu Saleapaga Ross. It's like the only thing people ask when they hear that you've gotten hitched is 'Howz married life?'. I wish it was like someone hands you a career, house, car, and country club and says 'have a nice life'. Of course, all of that is suppose to be taken care of before the wedding...not in my case...and in reality, not in yours either.
Ask me if things are different when I'm pregnant. I think that's when the real change comes. I think the true test of love is when your baby cries in the middle of the night for the fifth time and as your getting up to tend to your bebe, your husband gets up and says "Honey, I got this..."...awww man,love right there baby.... hehehhee... that's when you can lay back down, curl up in your cozy bed and let loose a sigh of relief...
"Man I got a good one..." and cruize off into lala land...
At this point in my life, advice that I would impart to anyone who cares is "Live your life man..."! Don't get caught up in the bullshit. Life really is short, too short to care what people say and think about you. Don't mold your life around what they think. Make and do things that bring you true happiness. Before you know it, your 60 and you look back with regrets. Be bold, spontaneous, and loving to everyone that you feel that way towards...because one day you'll turn around, and they won't be there...just a memory in space and time.
Love yourself, take care of yourself, and be happy your alive.
..
