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A Man Duh

Offer me solutions, offer me alternatives and I decline.

About Me

I rock. I am not a bitch, but I have to keep up with you bitches. I am a dirty Jersey Girl and perfectly rough around the edges. I talk like a trucker and have some very disgusting habits that I am perfectly comfortable with. I am blunt and honest, I don't hold back. I love to be social even though I am fully disgusted by most people. I hate how we are forced to socialize through cyberspace now, I miss the human interaction, but I take what I can get. I am shy sometimes, but sometimes I can be very outgoing. I am super paranoid about everything,I am my own worst enemy. I have major perfectionist tendencies, sometimes on the verge of obsessive compulsive. Nothing shocks me, you can say anything and I have probably thought of doing it, done it or something worse. I want to get back to the rawness of life. Sure humans have come far and our technology has done some great things for us, but all the basic survival skills are now served to us in perfect little microwavable packages. What's gonna happen when there are no more microwaves? I am waiting for my great epiphany, but I am not expecting it.

My Interests

I am like a pack rat of interests and my mind is a junkyard of ideas....wow...thats deep man. My man and our dogs first of all. good friends, family, memories, photography, painting/drawing, music, aimless driving, pool, 24 hour diners, growing up in the suburbs of jersey...yeah, you know what its like partying out there, coffee, shows, the circus, thrift stores and flea markets, yoga, nutrition (I say this I as I crush a theater sized box of milk duds), road trips to nowhere,food shopping, 420, hiking+camping, the ocean, nature in general. I enjoy crazy stoner theories, making movies, watching the dogs wrestle. I love learning, too bad I didn't realize it when I was in school. I like being goofy and I love funny people, in general laughing makes me happy...imagine that. I love people watching. I like to study edible and poisonous plants and herbs and learn their medicinal properties as well as nutritional and other assorted properties. I love cooking. I am glad I am not interested in the insane rat race of life that is going on, because there is so much more to it than how much money you make and what kind of car you drive and until we realize that, we are doomed. My man and I love to talk about our future plans of creating a self-sustaining lifestyle. I am just a chill, drama free girl who wants the simple things in life.

I'd like to meet:

Why Real Anarchists Don't Breed By Les U. Knight

We anarchists have many reasons to avoid procreation today. Our redundant breeding feeds the very forces we are trying to counter, and prevents us from living as freely as we might. Capitalism is dependent on a growing population and an expendable work force. Labor gains power when the need for workers is higher. As demands for supplies are reduced, and markets cease to grow, economic changes we aspire toward will more easily be achieved. Sustainable economic systems could replace out-dated "slash and burn" methods when consumers are fewer in number. Society's institutions are dependent on our producing families. Churches, schools, and social services, all need fresh supplies of human bodies to exist. Business applauds births. As if to celebrate each new North American life, a multi-passenger vehicle rolls off the assembly line to join it. Anarchists generally oppose the culture of work, production and consumption. Breeding increases participation in these institutions. Workers with children are more dependent on their jobs and less likely to strike. Anarchists take risks which parents can't. Thinking about not producing more offspring is difficult for most of us. It's a freedom that we guard fiercely, even though, with the exception of China's government, no one is trying to take it away. The establishment is certainly not trying to talk us out of reproducing. Governments have traditionally been natalist and often subsidize procreation. Disorganized masses are easier to control than small unified groups. If each of us produces one less pupil for the schools, one less soldier for the military, one less wage slave for industrial exploitation, one less consumer, and one less pawn in the government subsistence trap, we will help the old system fall. And when it does fall, it won't be landing on any children we chose not to create. Anarchy includes taking responsibility for our own lives. Creating a dependent which "takes a village" to raise, forces others to share responsibility for a couple's free choice. Breeding. especially insisting on extra services for breeding, shirks personal responsibility. Anarchists eschew hierarchy, favoring interactions among equals. Parent-child relationships are hierarchical, not consensual. Children don't choose to be born, but parents do choose to breed. Creating a dependent child also creates an authority figure for many years. Couples who breed "accidentally," have not taken responsibility for their fertility. Anarchists and environmentalists understand the biosphere is in danger, and that six billion of us is far too many. Taking personal responsibility, we eschew breeding for the sake of both humankind and the Earth. Earth's biosphere will benefit as every demand humans place on Nature is reduced. Human society will benefit from an improved birth rate, as shortages of food, housing, and resources are potentially lessened. Existing children could be better cared for in the coming weird times if there are fewer of them. By not breeding, we'll have more time and energy for promoting social change. Anarchists seek neither security nor stability, understanding these states of illusion are not compatible with real social change. Parents seek both security and stability, for the sake of their children. Good parents make bad anarchists. When thinking about improving our density, many see death as the only means of achieving it. Actually, death has had little effect on global population. A million deaths are compensated for in less than a week. High death rates cause high birth rates. Giving up the fantasy of raising children which are biologically ours can feel like a major sacrifice to many people. However, if we are willing to risk our social status, jobs, and sometimes our freedom, surely we can consider giving up something that doesn't exist yet. Some say we need to breed more anarchists, but how many of us come from anarchist parents? You cannot make someone an anarchist: it's up to them to decide. We'll likely have more luck influencing other people's children. Anyway, this would be expecting our children to do what we should be doing, with a 15 to 20 year delay. Anarchy happens right now, if we choose it. Voluntarily choosing to not add another human to the existing billions is the greatest gift we can give the planet and the most severe blow we can strike against the New World Order. Real anarchists don't breed.

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*props Vin for the literature*
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Your Seduction Style: Siren / Rake
You possess an unbridled sensuality that appeals to many.
The minute you meet anyone, you can make the crave you almost immediately.
You give others the chance to lose control with you... spiraling into carnal bliss.
A dangerous lover, you both fascinate and scare those you attract. What Is Your Seduction Style?

Music:

TOOL, Mindless Self Indulgence, Radio Head, Soul Coughing, the Ambitious Career Women, David Bowie, Fear Factory, the Beatles, Morphine, Peaches, Electrocute, Beastie Boys, ICP, Modest Mouse (but like years ago, not just because of recently...like it matters), Tom Petty, Simon and Garfunkel, Adam and His Package, old Korn, Coal Chamber, I Am Kloot, Gorillaz, Minor Threat, Manu Chao, Lords of Acid, Tenacious D, 4 Non Blondes, Right Said Fred...you better believe it!! I have a few other guilty pleasures I won't scare you with, Tori Amos, NIN, The Eels, Dead Milkmen, Fugazi, Catfish, Thievery Corporation, Dresden Dolls, ButtHole Surfers, Violent Femmes, Eminem, Missy Elliot, Pavement, Deftones, Slipknot, Poison the Well, G Love, Solex, Betwixt, NOFX, Queen, Rolling Stones, Neil Young, The Doors, the moldy peaches,elastica, flaming lips,cake, pixies, bob dylan,... you get the idea...I like a lot of things good and bad.

Movies:

NAPOLEAN DYNOMITE, garden state, fight club, brazil, big money hustlas, requiem for a dream, breakfast club, jim henson movies, bowling for columbine, anything tim burton (except his remake of charlie and the chocolate factory...why do people constantly try to remake AWSOME movies? you know your gonna fail...come on people), spun, salton sea, anything Kevin Smith, Rushmore, royal tennanbaums, lost in translation, run lola run, magnolia, fargo, rocky horror, the last unicorn, pink flamingos, desperate living, a clock work orange, city of lost children, newsies (yeah come on...you know you loved it) disney movies, labrynth, classic movies, Meet the Feebles, waking life, etc.

Television:

Adult Swim, Simpsons, Invader Zim, Family Guy, Most Extreme Ellimination Challenge, all those nature channels and discovery shows, documentaries I am totally obsessed with Americas Top Model and Extreme Makeover...blah blah blah...I watch to much tv...lets put it that way

Books:

Ishmael, Choke, Confederacy of Dunces, Mind Power, Culture of Fear, Life of Pi, Edible herbs and wild plants, Snow Baby and Hallmark Cards.

Heroes:

My Parents. They have overcome many things in their lives to get me to where I am today. Without them I would be nothing, and for that, I am forever grateful.

My Blog

Happy happy, joy joy

oh man! so the move is over and things are settling down. the new place is absolutley beyond my wildest imagination of the perfect place! there is nothing but nature all around us, and about anothe...
Posted by A Man Duh on Fri, 07 Sep 2007 09:38:00 PST

Moving Week

Well, the time has come to pick up our things and move to the other side of the mountain. these next few weeks will be busy ones, but worth it! to those of you who actually need my address, send me ...
Posted by A Man Duh on Mon, 27 Aug 2007 05:08:00 PST

Because sometimes you just can't wait for the 4+ feet of snow to melt and you just gotta hike!

So yesterday was absolutely beautiful...sunny and clear and high 60's...so we did the first hike of the season! YEA!!!  We kicked Camel's Hump directly in the face...and in return it kicked our b...
Posted by A Man Duh on Sun, 22 Apr 2007 06:44:00 PST

happy blizzard day indeed

well so that last blog is now officially meaningless.  we just spent the last hour digging out our cars from about 2 1/2 feet of snow.  at least it is powdery and light.  anyway, my car...
Posted by A Man Duh on Thu, 15 Feb 2007 07:10:00 PST

What???

so yeah, it is the middle of december in vermont....and there is no snow and i can go outside without a jacket.  global warming is totally a lie and if you believe in it, you are a sucker. i wast...
Posted by A Man Duh on Mon, 18 Dec 2006 04:18:00 PST

my artistic coming out of the closet

my first show!   the picture of the pictures doesn't represent very well, they lose the "edge" but none the less...its me with my first show! (where is the picture you ask?? well its in my "...
Posted by A Man Duh on Tue, 26 Sep 2006 06:48:00 PST

FINALLY

So, the move went down...thanks a million again to all of our awsome friends who busted their butts to help...and thanks to the welcoming crew ready with bbq in hand to feed the moving animals.  ...
Posted by A Man Duh on Tue, 06 Jun 2006 08:02:00 PST

ANTM

so i have a slight addiction to some stupid reality shows...i don't like to admit it too often...don't want to show that i am actually human...but if jade wins...I HAVE NO FATIH in mankind.  can ...
Posted by A Man Duh on Thu, 18 May 2006 05:04:00 PST

SWWWEEEEETTTTT new hippie life

FOR PICTURES- GO TO MY PROFILE PICS ..just a taste of the new digs. Well, It is official...after all this time and waiting and dreaming...the big move is happening.  I am finally gonna be a ...
Posted by A Man Duh on Thu, 11 May 2006 05:07:00 PST

stupid things

I am such a sucker for these quizzes and surveys, but I hate when everyone has survey central all over their pages....so i am going incognito. Your Birthdate: June 12http://images.blogthings.com/whatd...
Posted by A Man Duh on Tue, 31 Jan 2006 05:30:00 PST