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SyL

Act as your heart pleases, rather than to ease the hearts of others.

About Me


| View Show | Create Your OwnGet Your Own! | View Slideshow ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Let's see...I'm not your typical Chinese girl! There's a time and place for certain actions, and I usually can adjust to accomodate with my environment. I'm a chameleon, yadidamean?! Professional banker by day, party animal by night! I'm a tomboy, but my favorite color is pink...so that makes me a girly tomboy?! I love to watch sports! I love to shop too! I have a big heart! I'm open-minded, non-judgemental, sincere, genuine, amiable, and down to earth. I put others before myself most of the time, I consider the feelings of others all the time, but I also believe that no one is perfect, that is why I forgive AND forget. I always give everyone a chance, and even a second. There's really no point in holding a grudge, and who cares what other people think or say about you?! As long as you're true to yourself then you'll be content with yourself. Being optimistic is vital for survival, because without optimism one would not be able to persevere. Life is full of obstacles and tribulations, no doubt, but if you were put to it, you could get through it! All that I've already been through in my lifetime so far is unimaginable...I'm not the average 24 year old! I am grateful and fortunate to be alive! There most def are angels watching over me. The lessons learned from each and every one of my episodes have enabled me to be the person that I am today. With the constant support and motivation from my family and friends, I've finally found myself, but I am aware that this is just the beginning!

My Interests

I LOVE MY GIRLS!Get Your Own! | View Slideshowworking out, watching sports, watching movies on dvd & in theaters, hangin out with friends, karaoke, bars, clubs, chillin @ home with Kupo, yum chah w/ Mom on our days off, family time, beaches, sunny days, goin to bball, football, baseball games, beer!, Grey Goose, Hen, amusement parks, video games, arcades, snowboarding, camping, BBQs, volleyball, swimming, bowling...down to participate in anything!, reading magazines, pleasure reading when i have time, astronomy, dinosaurs, stargazing, anything, educational, helping out with anything that's for a good cause i.e. the AIDSwalk, Breast Cancer Foundation, saving animals, helping people help themselves....

I'd like to meet:

T.I and A.I.I'm just on here to keep in touch and retouch with friends, so if I don't know you I may not respond and will not add you. Apologies in advance!

Music:

all types, i don't discriminate. Faves are Pac, T.I., Lil Wayne, E-40 and the rest of the bay area hyphy artists, Nickelback, Coldplay, Kelly Clarkson, Nick Lachey, Jessica Simpson...everything! it really depends on my mood.

Movies:

The Departed! Bad Boys I&II, Titanic, The Sweetest Thing, Coach Carter, Hitch, The Notebook, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, 50 First Dates, ATL, Pay it Forward, Next Friday, All About the Benjamins, The Ring, The Grudge 2, Scarface, American History X, City of God,......u catch my drift

Television:

the only programs i watch on tv are sports (NFL, NBA, & MLB), highlights on ESPN, and the news. i don't watch anything else cause i don't like to get stuck on shows! Once in a while i watch reruns of Fresh Prince and Girlfriends, and the Discovery Channel.

Books:

Tuesdays with Morrie, The Five People You Meet In Heaven, The Da Vinci Code, Angels and Demons, E.A.R.L. The Autobiography of DMX, my astronomy textbook. *recommendations for a good read welcome!*

Heroes:

my parents, of course. my sister, my two brothers, and my dog (hey, he's the smartest dog in the world...if u don't know u better ask somebody!).
****HERE'S A POEM THAT I WROTE FOR WAYNE 2 YEARS AGO**** ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ TOGETHER AGAIN ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Still in distress but tryin to maintain.Tryin so hard to deal with this pain.Why? Why you? Why the best?Since you left us all, my head's been a mess.Tryin to maintain, tryin to stay strong.I know that I shouldn't think that what happened was wrong.Life is unfair, this world unjust.I believe that is why you were chosen, so you no longer have to suffer like us.I know that you're happy now and in a better place.Not having you here anymore is something that I have to face.I have to let you go and just cherish your memory.And reminisce about the good times while I sip on some Hennessy.In my thoughts you'll always be, in my heart you'll forever remain.Though without you here, my life will never again be the same.But I will never fail to strive to make you proud.Because I can feel you above watching over me, chillin on a cloud.Rest in peace Wayne, and before we know it we'll be together again.Brother and sister, partners in crime, each other's best friend.Every morning I awake and see the sun shine,I shall patiently wait for my time.

My Blog

X'mas '06 Wishlist

Hey everybody! Wow, it's that time of year again! How time flies. I can't believe that I've had myspace for over 3 years now, cause every year all the girlies do Kris Kringle @ Thanksgiving dinner, an...
Posted by SyL on Wed, 06 Dec 2006 11:46:00 PST

X'mas O'feva wishlist...

hey secret santa, i know u've been waiting for my list. sorry took so long, but i still don't know what i really want. i need a new perfume tho. i thought i like ralph lauren cool but when i smellt it...
Posted by SyL on Tue, 13 Dec 2005 08:21:00 PST

$yL's wishlist for x'mas '04

took me a while to put this thang up, maybe because i don't know what i want. of course everybody has desires and wants, but this year has been so fuckin bad, jinxed, black, whatever the fuck yall wan...
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

L.A. BaYbEE!!!

The most spontaneous trip ever...Me, A-dub, n nat drove up to L.A. on Monday, at like 2 in the morning. Well, Annie wanted to go see her man, cuz he got into a lil accident and went to the hospital ov...
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

OMG

I am sooo mad...went to the Beyonce, Missy, A Keys, and Tamia concert for $75...just to get kicked out!!! F*CK! >=( Rarrr!!! It's alright tho, I love my girl Hyo...all for u....
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

cAmPiNG!!!

I went camping this Saturday! Well, just for a day, but it was FUN! Well, besides the fact that I was freakin' hungover from the night before. Shit, Carol and Wing woke me up at the buttcrack of dawn ...
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Oh mY...

Oh mY, "the house" was caRaaaaZY!!! Partied straight from Saturday till Thursday morning. Gyeah, "the heeZY..."
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

bored...

I'm bored at nat's house...all the sleepy heads are KOed. =( Is there anything to do? Hollah..
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

BLasTiN pReZ WeeKeND!!

Wow, i actually had a bLasTin' ass weekend that i can actually talk about and say more than "Oh, i just kicked it...." Lemme see, on Friday i went to Alice's house cuz it was her b-day so me, Maryanne...
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

BORED AT WORK...

I'm bored...at work. It's freakin' 9:25am. WTF man. Yes, SyL is growing up now, I can't be a Toys R Us kid anymore. Time to take on that thing that i've been duckin' from for the past almost 22 years ...
Posted by SyL on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST