Qualifications are: You have to be able to hold a conversation on subjects other than baseball or other sports,and enjoy music,live jazz,walks,eating which is my second favorite thing to do(second to sleeping),movies.Recipe on how to make love to a woman 1. Know her spiritually then Pray with her. 2. Tell her you love her in the morning. 3. Call her in the afternoon or send small package (flowers, cards,ect.)during lunch and meet up with her if you can. 4. Take care of your (her) children 5. Allow her to lead the conversation(BE ABLE TO HOLD A CONVERSATION) 6. Have dinner discussions 7. Think carefully before you have a disagreement and remember though you may feel you are right...your woman may be slightly more intellegent than you(ok maybe not all)FOR THOSE THAT DISAGREE, ITS ALRIGHT TO DISAGREE!!! JUST MAKE YOUR OWN RECIPE THIS ONE IS MINES.... 8. Hold her and allow her to feel comfortable enough to cry. 9. Give her space! Find yourself & your spirituality first before you begin to seek out a partner 10. Always court (date) your woman. continue to treat her like you did when you first met her and were trying to get close to her. Continue to make her feel you are interested in her and what she's about. 11. If you can do all of these things then U should have a very meaningful relationship. *GOTCHA!!! U THOUGHT THIS WAS ABOUT SEX!! GET YOUR MIND RIGHT!!!*