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About Me

this life is what you make it. no matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes. it's a universal truth. but the good part is, you get to decide how you're gonna mess it upWe spend so much energy being our own Judge & Critic, who the hell has time to be that for anyone else? I prefer to think we are all perfect. I have found it is usually the flaws that relate us to each other in life & in that there is perfection.
I am 36 yrs old. I live in Massachusetts and work in the city of Boston. I have been in this area now for 13 years.
I grew up in Atlanta and lived in various locales in Georgia for nearly 18 years. It still feels like home at times and the majority of my family still lives there. It has been painful to be away from them so much but its been a pleasurable time of self discovery for me personally.
14 years ago I had to change everything about my life. In an effort to save myself from the grips of addiction I sought recovery and continue to rely on the help of others i have met that can relate to me in that way.
Some of the closest people in my life i have met online and i tend to cherish the value and the intimacy that this medium can sometimes allow.
With that being said... want to know more..just ask :)
I LOVE ROAD TRIPS ! I much prefer to vacation by car than by plane. I swear i grew up in the back of my family station wagon. I have had the pleasure of visiting 33 of the 50 states and plan to make it to the rest someday.

I am A MYSPACE Addict..


here are the steps we took which are suggested as a means of recovery:
1) We admitted we were powerless over myspace--that our lives had become unmanageable.
2) Came to believe that a Power greater than Tom could restore us to sanity.
3) Made a decision to turn our passwords and our computers over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4) Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of friends, comments and inbox.
5) Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another myspace friend the exact nature of our wrongs.
6)Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects from our computer.
7)Humbly asked Tom to delete our accounts.
8) Made a list of all persons we had sent hate mail to or flirted with their significant other and became willing to make amends to them all.
9) Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others or meant going back on myspace.
10) Continued to take personal inventory of our friends, lovers and haters, and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

11) Sought through prayer and abstination from the computer to improve our conscious contact with the real world, as we understand it, praying only for knowledge of a better future and will for us and the power to carry that out.
12) Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to myspace addicts, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

genuine, honest, trustworthy friends that will be there in the best or worst of times. Reliable, respectable and dependable. Like i hope to be from now on... a person that walks head held high, with dignity and honor and respectful of all people.
people that INSPIRE me to grow and change and to live with a greater sense of humility and integrity and responsibility while not taking life too seriously...

I haven't lived up to my own standards of friendship. Seems these principles i have to work on everyday.With that said... let's have some fun and get to know each other better :)

My Blog

The Last

Im thankful for you my friend, I really am sincerely&.But I cant help but think this todayThat something big is missing Something special slipped away I miss my family.  I miss my friends...I miss t...
Posted by on Wed, 25 Nov 2009 11:39:00 GMT

8 years ago

8 years ago I was in ....Marietta...., on vacation with my wife. She got sick while down there and ended up in the hospital.  She was taken in the ambulance by Jake- working as EMT he took the call - ...
Posted by on Fri, 11 Sep 2009 08:13:00 GMT

My Life -- according to u2

Using only song names from ONE ARTIST, cleverly answer these questions. Pass it on to 15 people you like and include me. You can't use the artist I used. Try not to repeat a song title. It's a lot har...
Posted by on Mon, 03 Aug 2009 07:25:00 GMT

The top 5 quiz& a good get to know you : )

The top 5 quiz& a good get to know you : )   what's your top 5 favorite movies? Whats your top 5 favorite albums/Cds? Whats your top 5 favorite actors/actresses? Whats your top 5 favorite songs? Wh...
Posted by on Mon, 08 Jun 2009 07:04:00 GMT

Processing

Processing Processing &As i like to call it...Hold on.Make sense of what you can...And let go Of the stuff that will never make sense...Just my advice...But judge neither... The sensual or the nonsens...
Posted by on Thu, 21 May 2009 06:31:00 GMT

I wanna dance with you

 dance with you - Livesittin' on the beachthe island king of lovedeep in fijian seasdeep in some blissful dreamwhere the goddess finally sleepsin the lap of her loversubdued in all her rageand I am ag...
Posted by on Thu, 21 May 2009 05:22:00 GMT

FIRSTS

1.       Who was your FIRST prom date? did not go to the prom2What was your FIRST alcoholic drink? Taking a chug from my dads beer when I was like 4 on my way to and from the fridge watching football...
Posted by on Thu, 14 May 2009 05:54:00 GMT

i'm always going to want to make it move

i heard this song for the 3rd time in 3 days this morning and i started belting it out at the top of my lungs...something is seriously wrong with me... ha ha...  anyway it's cheesy but certainly tappe...
Posted by on Thu, 23 Apr 2009 06:15:00 GMT

Ways to make your life happier

Ways to make your life happier Every day& Share a kind word with a friend.Give away a smile.Listen to what someone has to say.Listen with your heart.Try one new thing.Forgive one person who has hurt y...
Posted by on Tue, 14 Apr 2009 07:26:00 GMT

MAYBE we are building a new world

Maybe - by Sarke MAYBE we are building a new world.MAYBE we'll paint marshmallows purple, or free circus elephants.MAYBE we'll ride on chocolate merry-go-rounds, or make tennis shoes for camels.MAYBE ...
Posted by on Fri, 10 Apr 2009 08:55:00 GMT