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Pancreatic Cancer Fighter

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In memory of my mom, LYNDA, 7/16/1934 to 5/23/08 and my husband MIKE 7/6/61 to 11/4/06 both lost their battle to pancreatic cancer
On Friday, May 23, 2008 at 10:00 p.m. my mother Lynda passed away from pancreatic cancer. Her battle was significantly different than Mike's was...but the end was the same. I've now lost two people very close to me from pancreatic cancer.....I hate it!
"Good health is a crown only the sick see"
I feel as if I am buried alive Yet I smile, and respond "Fine, thank you." I have been appropriately conditioned No one wants to hear the painful t r u t h. An essential part of me, my limb A constituent of my earthly being Has been violently amputated. Yet I laugh at the mediocre conversations A verbal splash in a shallow puddle Pretending to be a player of the words That have no m e a n i n g. My heart has been ripped from my bosom No benevolence granted No explanation-No apologies Only cataclysmic p a i n Only agony No anesthesia remains, just the bitter pain. Yet I wear the m a s k Day to Day. Pretending I fit in But really I'm a foreigner here They speak an alien language I attempt to translate the words Still, they mean nothing to me. Sequestered in the mask They hear not the music I dance to Nor the words I speak Nor the pain I echo Nor the native language of my e y e s They will never really know me It's only a mask.Please pray for these people who are currently battling pancreatic cancer:
THIS CANDLE BURNS FOR THEM!
Arley -diagnosed August 2007
Christine - diagnosed January 2007
Denny – diagnosed July 2007
Donita - diagnosed 2007
Elaine G. - diagnosed February 21, 2006
Gordon Frasier - diagnosed Spring 2007
Harold Hooper - diagnosed ?
Joan - diagnosed May 1, 2007
Mary Davis - diagnosed July 11, 2007
Patrick Miller - October 8, 2007
Sharon - diagnosed October 2005
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Living with cancer is hard. You may have just learned you have cancer or you may be in treatment. Either way, you’ll be experiencing a wide range of feelings, ranging from denial to hope. These feelings may change from day to day. Hearing the words, “You have cancer” can come as a big shock! You may feel numb, afraid, angry, alone, depressed, fearful, worried, etc. These are all normal feelings!!!
DENIAL - When first diagnosed with cancer, some people have a difficult time believing it’s happening to them. You may not accept the fact at first. Denial can be good and bad. It can allow you time to adjust to your diagnosis, to feel hopeful, and focus on the future.
ANGER - It is normal to ask, “Why me?” You may feel angry at the cancer, at your healthy friends and family, doctors, even at yourself thinking you did something to cause the cancer. Talk to you friends, family, or healthcare team about your feelings!
FEAR AND WORRY - It is scary to hear that you have cancer. You may become worried about feeling sick or looking different because of your treatments, who is going to take care of your family while you are sick, paying bills, keeping your job, and dying. Find out all you can about your cancer. Most people feel better when they know what to expect. Knowing the facts may help make you less fearful and worried. Knowing the most you can about your cancer can also help you feel more in control of the whole situation.
SADNESS and DEPRESSION - Many people with cancer experience sadness and/or depression. This is a normal response to any serious illness! Depression sometimes can lead to more serious problems. Let your healthcare provider know if you have one or more of the following signs almost every day. Depression can be treated! 1. A feeling of hopelessness or that life has no meaning 2. No interest in being with friends and family 3. No interest in hobbies and activities that you used to enjoy 4. Crying for long periods of time or several times a day 5. Sleep problems, either sleeping too much or too little 6. Changes in your energy level 7. A loss of appetite or no interest in food at all 8. Thoughts of killing yourself. This includes making plans or taking action to kill yourself, including frequent thoughts of death and dying.
GUILT - Many people with cancer feel guilt. You may blame yourself about upsetting your friends and family with your diagnosis, worry about the burden you will be physically, emotionally, and financially. Let your healthcare team know how you feel. They can provide counseling. You may also want to find a support group for people with cancer.
LONELINESS - Loneliness often weighs heavily on a cancer patient. You may feel distant from people and think that there is no one that understands what you are going through. Some friends and family may avoid you, not knowing what to say to you. It is hard to get them to understand that you are the same person you were before the diagnosis. You may feel less lonely if you meet other people who have cancer or have had cancer. They will know exactly what you are going through and will be able to totally understand your feelings.
HOPE - Hope is so important! There are so many reasons to be hopeful! Cancer treatments can be successful and millions of people who had cancer are alive today!Attitude is everything! Read stories about people who have cancer or stories from survivors and let them inspire you.
PANCREATIC CANCER (also called cancer of the pancreas) is a malignant tumor within the pancreatic gland.
Each year about 35,000 individuals in the United States are diagnosed with this CANCER, and more than 60,000 in Europe. Depending on the extent of the tumor at the time of diagnosis, the prognosis is generally regarded as poor, with few victims still alive 5 years after diagnosis, and complete remission still extremely rare.
About 95% of pancreatic tumors are adenocarcinomas. The remaining 5%, pancreatic neuroendocrine tumors (such as insulinomas) have a completely different diagnostic and therapeutic profile, and generally a more favorable prognosis.
SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS
Early diagnosis of pancreatic cancer is difficult because the symptoms are so non-specific and varied. Common symptoms include abdominal pain, loss of appetite, significant weight loss over a short amount of time without trying and painless jaundice. But not everyone who has pancreatic cancer has these symptoms. It depends where the tumor starts growing. My husband's tumor began in the body of the pancreas and grew toward the tail. He never presented with jaundice or weight loss. He did have stomach pain which they thought were ulcers. But he also had backache pain that would not go away. We later discovered that the tumor was pressing on the spinal nerves which ultimately resulted in excrutiating pain for my husband. However, all of these symptoms can be blamed on other causes. Therefore, diagnosis of pancreatic cancer is often late-stage in its development.
Currently statistics state that there is a 99% fatality rate for anyone diagnosed with pancreatic cancer! Jaundice occurs when the tumour grows and pressure obstructs the common bile duct, which runs partially through the head of the pancreas. Tumours of the head of the pancreas (approximately 60% of cases) will more easily give rise to such symptoms.
PREDISPOSNG FACTORS
Risk factors for pancreatic cancer include: •Age (onset typically earlier 40's, but it is not unheard of for 30 year olds to be diagnosed with pancreatic cancer) •Male gender •African ethnicity •Smoking •Diets high in red meat and low in vegetables and/or fruit •Obesity •Diabetes •Chronic pancreatitis has been linked, but it is not yet certain to be causal. •Occupational exposure to certain pesticides, dyes, and chemicals related to gasoline •Family history
DIAGNOSIS
The presence of jaundice (yellowing of the skin)and a painlessly distended gallbladder are strongly indicative of pancreatic cancer, and may be used to distinguish pancreatic cancer from gallstones.
Pancreatic cancer is usually discovered during the course of the evaluation of the aforementioned symptoms. Liver function tests may show a combination of results indicative of bile duct obstruction (raised bilirubin, glutamyl transpeptidase and alkaline phosphatase levels). Carbohydrate antigen (19.9) is a tumor marker that is frequently elevated in pancreatic cancer.
Imaging studies, such as ultrasound or abdominal CT scan may be used to identify tumors. Endoscopic ultrasound (EUS) is another procedure that can help visualize the tumor and obtain tissue (biopsy)to establish the diagnosis.
TREATMENT
Treatment of pancreatic cancer depends on the stage of the cancer. Recent advances have made resection (surgical removal) of tumors that were previously unresectable due to blood vessel involvement possible. The Whipple procedure is the most common surgical treatment for cancers involving the head of the pancreas.
Stages Description
Stage I, Stage II, Stage III, Stage IVA and Stage IVB Most patients do not get diagnosed with this disease until they are already in late Stage III or early Stage IVApp. 89% of cases Treatment options and Median survival: Local/resectable--the Disease is confined to the pancreas and is clearly separated from surrounding blood vessels.
Surgery; postoperative chemotherapy and/or radiation may also be offered.
Locally advanced / unresectable (a tumor that can't be removed)disease encases or compresses surrounding blood vessels, or has directly extended into adjacent structures.
Chemotherapy (most commonly gemcitabine-based) and/or radiation. In very rare instances, cancers that respond well to initial treatment may subsequently be surgically resected. survival 8-9 months.
Stage IVA and IVB-Metastatic--Evidence of extrapancreatic spread to distant organs (liver, lungs, etc.)
Chemotherapy (most commonly gemcitabine-based); investigational trials, survival of 4-6 months
On the back of the results of a Canadian led Phase III Randomised Controlled trial involving 569 patients with advanced pancreatic cancer, the US FDA has licensed the use of erlotinib (Tarceva) in combination with gemcitabine as a palliative agent for this tumour. This trial compared the action of gemcitabine/erlotinib vs gemcitabine/placebo and demonstrated improved survival rates, improved tumour response and improved progression free survival rates.
New trials are now investigating the effect of the above combination in the adjuvant and neoadjuvant setting.PROGNOSIS
Patients diagnosed with pancreatic cancer typically have a POOR PROGNOSIS because the cancer usually causes no symptoms early on, leading to metastatic disease (Stage IV)at time of diagnosis. Median survival from diagnosis is around 3 to 6 months; 5-year survival is much less than 5%.
IF A DOCTOR TELLS YOU THAT "YOU HAVE TIME" DO NOT BELIEVE HIM/HER, YOU DON'T. PANCREATIC CANCER IS EXTREMELY AGGRESSIVE AND VERY FAST GROWING as well as very, very, very painful. My husband was diagnosed in mid-August and died at the beginning of November!
With approximately 35,000 new diagnoses in the United States every year, and 34,800 deaths, mortality approaches 99%, giving pancreatic cancer the fatality rate highest of all cancers and the highest cancer killer in the United States amongst both men and women, with the lowest amount of funding afforded toward research.
Pancreatic cancer occasionally may result in diabetes. The insulin production is hampered and it has been suggested that the cancer can also prompt the onset of diabetes and vice versa.
PREVENTION
There is currently no drug or medicine that we can take as a preventative to pancreatic cancer. As it stands, prevention of pancreatic cancer consists of avoiding risk factors when possible.
Cigarette smoking is considered to be the most significant and avoidable risk factor for pancreatic cancer.
Maintaining a healthy weight and exercising may be helpful.
Additionally, increasing consumption of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains while decreasing red meat intake is recommended.
Also, in September 2006, a long term study concluded that taking Vitamin D can SUBSTANTIALLY cut the risk of pancreatic cancer (as well as other cancers) by up to 50%.
More studies on this are called for.
Awareness
•November is Pancreatic Cancer Awareness Month
•Purple is the official color chosen to represent pancreatic cancer
•An estimated 52.7 million dollars was spent on pancreatic cancer research in 2004 of the National Cancer Institute’s (NCI) cancer research budget. THIS IS JUST A MERE 1% OF THE NCI’s 2004 4.824 BILLION DOLLAR CANCER RESEARCH BUDGET.
•Despite the especially lethal nature of pancreatic cancer, the research spending per pancreatic cancer patient is only $1145, the lowest of any leading cancer.
•Celebrities who have succumbed to pancreatic cancer include legendary comedian Bill Hicks, Donna Moore, Marcello Mastriani, Joan Crawford, Michael Landon, and Ron O'Neal, Bruce Willis' younger brother also died from pancreatic cancer. And now of course we have all heard about Patrick Swayze's battle. How many more have to die before the public raises its voice in outcry for the seriousness of this disease?If you have been diagnosed or know someone who has....you should immediately prepare AN ADVANCED DIRECTIVE, A POWER OF ATTORNEY and yes, A LAST WILL AND TESTAMENT. If you don't know how to do these documents, send me a message, I can help.
One organization called CancerCare helps people out financially, people that have cancer. You can find them at CancerCare.org or 1-800-813-HOPE.
Also cancer patients can qualify for free prescriptions. Contact: RX Assist and RX Hope 1-888-587-9438. They can help, all your doctor has to do is fill out some paperwork.
Pancreatic cancer is the most virulent of all of the major cancers. The duration from diagnosis to demise in advanced pancreatic cancer (the most common form at diagnosis) is 5 to 6 months with good treatment.
It is also the least funded in terms of research. Pancreatic cancer receives (on a per mortality basis): 10% of the funding of breast cancer (but causes 78% of the mortality), 35% of the funding of prostate cancer (but causes more mortality) and 29% of the funding of colorectal cancer (but causes 55% of the mortality).
Pancreatic cancer will cause more than 40,000 deaths in the U.S. this year (and another 50,000 in Europe) - about 250 deaths (U.S + Europe) per day OR more than 1% of all mortality.
Pancreatic cancer has a high mortality rate because it is difficult to find the disease early. Pancreatic cancer usually does not cause any recognizable symptoms until it is advanced and has spread outside the body. Since the pancreas is deep inside the body, it is difficult to detect tumors during a routine check-up. Currently, there are no screening tests to find this disease early in individuals who have no symptoms.
This page was created in memory of my husband
MICHAEL A. McKEEVER
July 6, 1961 to November 4, 2006
DEAD AT 45 YEARS OLD FROM PANCREATIC CANCER

Hi, my name is Victoria...I have an additional "personal" page at:

..VICTORIA
Mike has a personal page too:
Mike's Page
I started this page because my husband Mike was diagnosed with PANCREATIC CANCER at the beginning of August 2006 and died on November 4, 2006 at 7:36 a.m. I searched and searched for information about pancreatic cancer but found a wasteland. No one talked about it, no one knew about the cancer, no one even seemed to care. The doctors looked at my husband as if he was already dead. The insurance company stalled and denied our referral requests because they knew how expensive the treatment for pancreatic cancer is. They also knew if they stalled long enough my husband would be dead and there would be no expense. They were right. My husband died after receiving no cancer treatment. Also, the doctors we saw wanted to treat the pain, but not the cause--pancreatic cancer. Because of their lack of knowledge and lack of research funding, the medical profession failed us as they have thousands of other people.
I miss my husband tremendously, he was my best friend, my champion, my lover and my soulmate and if I could I would have crawled into his body and gone with him.
However, God had other plans for me and I couldn't do that, so the next thing I might be able to do is to help make sense of this horrific experience is to maybe help one person, one family or hundreds, thousands of people prevent what we went through.
FOR MORE INFORMATION here is a link to a site where you can ask questions, share advice, stories of hope, etc. please click on the link to Cancer Discussion here:
..CancerDiscussion.com

It's important to spread the word about pancreatic cancer. I know this from personal experience. Until you get diagnosed with it or know someone who is diagnosed with pancreatic cancer you don't hear about it. In fact most people have never even heard of pancreatic cancer or know how the pacrease functions or even know where it's located in the body.It is one of the worst cancers there is, and it is one of the least funded areas of research.Any and all kinds of cancer is horrible, everyone knows that. However, given that so many people are dying of pancreatic cancer with little or no notice I hope that you agree more research needs to be done on this very agressive cancer. Please help spread the word and add PANCREATIC CANCER KILLS as your friend and tell your friends about pancreatic cancer and this page
NOVEMBER IS PANCREATIC CANCER AWARENESS MONTH.
We must continue to work to find a cure, to get the word out about PANCREATIC CANCER...people are dying each and every day, statistics tell us that approximately 36,000 people a year in the United States and more than 45,000 people each year in Europe. We must all continue to work to find a cure, to find treatment, to discover preventative measures...each day, not just in November.


PET Scans and Cancer
PET can help physicians effectively pinpoint the source of cancer. This is possible because many cancer cells are highly metabolic and therefore synthesize the radioactive glucose (sugar) that is injected in the patient prior to the exam. The areas of high glucose uptake are dramatically displayed in the scan imagery, as opposed to the anatomical imagery of CT or MRI, which cannot detect active, viable tumors.
If cancer is found early, it can often be cured. A PET scan can be used in early diagnosis, assisting physicians in determining the best method for treatment. A whole body PET scan may detect whether cancer is isolated to one specific area or has spread to other organs before a treatment path is determined.
Approximately 1,372,910 new cancer cases are expected to be diagnosed in 2007. According to the American Cancer Society, approximately 570,280 Americans are expected to die of cancer this year, more than 1,560 people per day.
What is Cancer?
Cancer comes in a variety of forms. Basically, cancer occurs when cells in the body begin to grow chaotically. Normally, cells grow, divide, and produce more cells to keep the body healthy and functioning properly. Sometimes, however, the process goes astray; cells keep dividing when new cells are not needed. Some types of cells are more prone to abnormal growth than others. The mass of extra cells forms a growth or tumor, which can be benign or malignant.
Benign tumors are not cancer. They often can be removed and, in most cases, they do not come back. Cells in benign tumors do not spread to other parts of the body. More importantly, benign tumors are rarely life threatening. Malignant tumors are cancer. Cells in malignant tumors are abnormal and divide without control or order. These cancer cells can invade and destroy the tissue around them. In a process called metastasis, cancerous cells break away from the organs on which they are growing and travel to other parts of the body, where they continue to grow. Cells from cancerous ovaries, for example, commonly spread to the abdomen and nearby internal organs. Eventually, they can invade the bloodstream and lymph system (the two systems of vessels that bathe and feed all of the body's organs) and travel to organs throughout the body. Metastasis is how cancer "colonizes" to produce new tumors within the body.

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WHERE IS GOD WHEN IT HURTS?I have been contacted by a lot of people, all over the world about family members being sick or they are sick...and we know how aggressive and fast pancreatic cancer goes.
Call it what you will...."poppycock" or "the opiate of the masses" I don't care what you call it. However know this....I could not have handled my husband's illness and death the way I did without God's help. He carried us when we could not carry ourselves. As He promised us He would.Also, I hate the thought that my husband would be in hell rather than with God in heaven.Wouldn't you rather live your life believing in God and finding out that He doesn't exist than to live your life not believing in Him and finding out He does exist?A lot of people that visit this page I'm sure, are not Christians, or they think they are or they aren't sure what they think. This particular information is just so YOU can read it, and if YOU want to "get saved" right here and now just say the prayer below.
Sinner's Prayer? That's Not For Me - I'm Not a Sinner!
"Sinner" is a word that gets a bad rap these days - and well it should. Unfortunately, the bad rap it is getting is for the wrong reasons. Confronted with our short comings, we are quick to defend ourselves with words like: "I'm not a sinner! I don't go around sinning! I've never murdered anyone or anything like that!" The problem is, we don't really know what the word sin means. We think it only applies to some despicable act that repulses "church people" who want to hang big scarlet letters around our necks. But sin simply means to miss the mark; to fall short of the goal.
The fact is, we are all sinners, for there is no one, save Christ alone, who has lived a life that did not in some way fall short of the perfection God requires. We all deserve to pay the penalty for that sin, which is to spend eternity in hell.
Sinner's Prayer - What the Bible Says About Sin
Sin, according to the Bible, is any action that violates the law given by God in the Ten Commandments. The law was given by God to show us what it means to live a life deserving of God's love. It was also given to show us that none of us can live that kind of life. God knew that in advance, and that is why He sent His Son Jesus to be that perfect life for us. Jesus, God in human flesh, voluntarily laid aside His God-hood to connect with us, to show us He understands us and to give us a way to be reconciled to the Father, since none of us can keep the law to its letter. "For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23)
Some say that sin is two letters, "s" and "n", with "I" in the middle. We elevate ourselves, and certainly we live in a time when that thinking is being promoted. Sin may be something we can't be free of, but the good news is we can be free of its penalty. "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 6:23)
Sinner's Prayer - Become a Sinner Saved by Grace
What's the key to the Sinner's Prayer? As long as we are content to live in sin, the Bible says we are separated from God. That condition may seem fine for a while, but it ultimately leads to misery and then to eternal separation from God. "There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death." (Proverbs 16:25)
The good news is that God Himself has made a way for us to be reconciled to Him, and He has done this through His Son, Jesus Christ (Romans 5:6-15)
What about you? Are you content to live for yourself, get the most toys, and die anyway? Or do you want a life of purpose and hope? God, the One who created you, has a purpose for your life and wants to give you a new beginning.
If you are ready to admit your need for a clean slate in life, the God of second chances is waiting to give it to you. All you have to do is start with the Sinner's Prayer.
Sinner's Prayer - Recognizing the Need The "Sinner's Prayer" is a term that describes the words spoken by a person when he or she has recognized their sin and their need for a relationship with God through Jesus Christ.
It goes something like this: “Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.”
Of course you can always make the above prayer a little closer to home, more personal for you. The above can be considered an outline. Or if you aren't really good with words or don't quite know what to say the above prayer can get you started.
My favorite bible verse is: The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord make His face shine upon you. The Lord turn His face toward you and give you His peace." Numbers 6:24.
You can simply say the above prayer and also ask Him to bless you and keep you and shine His face upon you and to give you His peace. Or any other verse that strikes a cord with you.
It isn't hard, and we need to remember that today's actions have eternal consequences. So if you decided to repent of your sins and receive Christ today, welcome to God's family.
Now, as a way to grow closer to Him, the Bible tells us to follow up on our commitment.
Get baptized as commanded by Christ. Tell someone else about your new faith in Christ.
Spend time with God each day. It does not have to be a long period of time. Just develop the daily habit of praying to Him and reading His Word. Ask God to increase your faith and your understanding of the Bible.
Seek fellowship with other followers of Jesus. Develop a group of believing friends to answer your questions and support you.
Find a local church where you can worship God.

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To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.
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Diagnosing Pancreatic Cancer Diagnosing a tumor in the pancreas can be difficult. Symptoms are not always obvious, and usually develop gradually. Supplementary medical tests are often required to establish the diagnosis of and to determine whether it has spread beyond the pancreas. M. D.Anderson uses state-of-the-art diagnostic imaging in the diagnosis and staging of pancreatic cancer. Diagnostic tests for pancreatic cancer include: Computerized tomography (CT): The CT scan is the primary test used to establish the stage of pancreatic cancer, which determines whether a tumor can be surgically removed. Using a special X-ray machine, this test gives detailed pictures of the body and can help to determine if the tumor has spread. MRI can be used when there is a contraindication (patient allergy) to contrast-enhanced CT, and may provide similar information to CT scans. Ultrasound helps determine the size of the pancreas and possibly the presence of a tumor. Ultrasound is commonly performed by placing a probe on the surface of the abdomen./b Endoscopic ultrasound (EUS) involves a special endoscope equipped with an ultrasound probe and a small needle at the end. The scope is placed through the mouth into the esophagus and the first portion of the small intestine. EUS provides an excellent opportunity to take a small biopsy of the pancreas. Endoscopic retrograde cholangiopancreatography (ERCP): an endoscope is guided down the throat and into the small intestine. By injecting dye through the endoscope into the bile and pancreatic ducts (as X-rays are taken), this test can demonstrate narrowing of these ducts due to pressure from a tumor. Blood tests: currently, no single blood test can make the diagnosis of pancreatic cancer. Blood tests can evaluate the function of the liver and other organs. When a tumor has been identified, a biopsy can be obtained one of two ways:.Endoscopic Ultrasound FNA: a special endoscope equipped with an ultrasound probe and a small needle at the end is placed through the mouth into the esophagus and the first portion of the small intestine. The physician then performs an ultrasound and uses the needle to obtain a sample of any tissue that appears abnormal. Laparoscopy: this procedure is done in the operating room under general anesthesia. A tiny camera is guided through a very small (half inch) incision in the abdomen that enables the surgeon to directly visualize the pancreas and determine if the tumor has spread.

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You're Still Here....At the finest level of my being, you're still with me....We still look at each other, at that level beyond sight.....We talk and laugh with each other, in a place beyond words and expressions......We still touch each other, on a level beyond touch......We share time together in a place where time stands still......We are still together, on a level called Eternal Love......But I cry alone for you, in a place called reality.
I read of a man who stood to speak..... At the funeral of a friend...... He referred to the dates on her tombstone...... From the beginning to the end....He noted that first came her date of her birth.....And spoke the following date with tears......But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years.....For that dash represents all the time......That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her.....Know what that little line is worth.....For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash.....What matters is how we live and love.....And how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard. Are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left. That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough......To consider what’s true and real.....And always try to understand The way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger.....And show appreciation more.....And love the people in our lives.....Like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect,....And more often wear a smile....Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy is being read.....With your life’s actions to rehash....Would you be proud of the things they say....About how you spent your dash?
Those that have gone before us...gone but NEVER forgotten:

OUR LOVED ONES:Alan Nakasaki: ? - 7/28/06
Alphonso Clinton Crater: 05/11/1953 - 01/05/2000
Anne: 01-23-20 - 09-09-07
Anna Cooper: 7/6/31 - 7/5/07
Arthur Frasier: 01/16/32 - 01/12/2003
Ben Campobasso: 2/10/47 - 1/15/07
Bartholomew Courtney:? - 9/16/85
Betty L. Sanders: August 20, 1930 - August 31, 2003
Bob Dubin:1/9/45 - 9/14/07
Cal Newton: 07/11/51 - 06/23/06
Carlos M. Zepeda 9/22/1937 - 5/4/2006
C.E. "Ed" McGee, Sr. - my daddy, July 28, 2007; Forsyth County, NC. I love you daddy, I miss you so much I just don't know how I get through each day... your daughter-eldest, I will always be a daddy's grrl, kdm
Carol: 10/11/43 - 03/03/06
Carolyn 05/13/50 - 01/07/07
Charlie: 08/11/49 - 02/03/07
Fr. Charley Giacosa: 02/17/1936 - 10/12/2007
Charlotte O'Neill: 4/15/1898 - 7/9/86
Chery: 10/02/73 - 11/06/05
Chuck: 11/01/36 - 09/07/05
Claude Azell Prince Jr.:(last living employee of Thomas Edison) 5/3/13-11/9/05
Clyde Stephens: 12/12/32 - 12/30/04
David:10/13/49 - 11/27/03
Dawn: 05/28/55 - 02/06/07
R.I.P Debbie Torres 7/6/01 mom sister daughter wife my best friend~ I love you mom
Dennis Lee Delfs: 6/17/41 - 11/10/06
Douglas E. McKim: 09/28/24 - 9/28/07
Eddie Rodrigues: ? - 1/23/04
Edwin Cross - diagnosed January 2007, died December 4, 2007
Frances Hansen: 1/2/42 - 5/3/97
Fredrick Cooper: 4/22/60 - 5/12/05
George Simmons:12/16/30 - 9/18/01
Glenda Joyce Spencer: 5/30/46 - 9/10/06
Harry: 07/11/32 - 08/07/07
Howard O. Griggs, Jr.: ?
IvaMay Boone: 6/24/26 - 12/3/93
Jack: 12/10/45 - 10/26/06
Jacquelyn: 06/16/54 - 02/16/05
James: 05/07/70 - 06/30/07
James Michael Caton: 11/24/48 - 6/7/06
James P. McMalley: 1951 - 4/19/06
James Lambrix: Nov. 10, 1947- June 5, 2002
James W. Severence: 5/7/70 - 6/30/07
James G. Parry: 3/21/51 - 12/26/02
Janet Gardner lost her battle on February 14, 2008
Janet Shirkey diagnosed Oct 2006 and died December 5 2007
Jean Wilson: ?
Jeffery Roy Denny: 8/8/61 - 8/9/05
Jo: 02/9/40 - 02/26/05
Joan K. Bivens: 9/20/44 - 2/9/07
Joan "Jo" Boren - 10/21/34 - 2/16/08 Mom whipped the cancer's ass by letting go from the pain to show it that she was bigger than it could ever image being! Knowing that she desired nothing more than to stay here with her family, and we wanted to still have more time with her, she couragously fought this ugly damn beast for all she was worth until the very end. She is my hero, my friend, my heart and my mom...and I love her the most. Janice
Jodee Anne Clarke: 3/19/65 - 9/8/07
John: 08/31/41 - 10/20/04
John J. Skoritoski:
Juan J. Gudino: 12/26/50 - 10/14/06
Judie Terrell: 04/02/55 - 12/06/06
Karen Ann Brubaker:11/11/41 -10/15/06
Katherine Point Smith, age 32 - died 11/25/06 and her unborn child Prudence Katherine Smith died 10/11/06
Larry: ? - 10/05/07
Laurent Auguste Townsend: 4/20/61 - 12/17/05
Lynda: 09/27/57 - 02/17/05
Lynda Robertson (my mother) 7/16/34 - 5/23/08
Maggie: 07/15/55 - 04/11/06
Margeret Dutch Macinski
Marie Keaton: 2/10/46 - 7/19/05
Marilyn Hagen of Middlesex, NC. 11/16/49 - 8/19/06
Mark Reilley: 6/11/1949 - 9/23/05
Mary Ann Smith: ?
Mary Ellen: 07/01/44 - 06/08/06
Michael Courtney: 6/11/30 - 5/4/03
Mike Harrison: 2/27/61 - 7/8/04
MIKE(my husband): 07/06/61 - 11/04/06,/b
Mike Warren, Captain: 10/19/58 - 10/14/05
Ona Hilton Moody: 02/10/35 - 10/25/05
Palle Nielson: ?
Patricia: 03/14/58 – 11/27/05
Peter Lannon, Sr.: March 9, 1958 - 6/1/07
Peter Lynch: 1952 - 2004
Riohard Dornbos
Robert Keller 8/11/53 - 6/19/03
Robert Hancock: 09/03/50-11/09/05, survived by his two daughters Jennifer Steele and Melissa Thedford and his grandchildren Gage and Kassie Steele
Robert Webber: 10/1/05 age 62
Ron Baumann: 5/25/52 - 5/19/06 Newton NJ
Rosemarie Palmeri: October 2007
Rudy J. De La Fuente, Jr.: 21 yrs old!
3/5/85 - 8/18/06
Sal Vargas passed away Nov 2, 2007
Scott Julien: 1/3/62 - 1/19/07
Shaffie Mohammed: 7/9/31 - 8/10/97
Sharon Hill: 10/24/49 - 4/12/07
Stanley "Butch" H. Stanton, Jr.: 9/19/50 - 4/26/05
Steve: 01/29/53 - 10/26/07
Tammi: 04/02/60 - 09/11/06
Tim: 02/04/50 - 10/10/06
Thomas M. King: 04/20/59 - 12/05/06
Thomas H. Donohue 5/15/48 - 2/13/07
Tony Craft: 5/15/55 - 6/27/00
Vincent Edward Barron: 3/3/54 - 6/24/04
Wendy Sable: ?
Willard L. Parker 7/18/34-5/29/05
William Livesey: 06/24/69 - 9/18/06
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STUDY GIVES NEW HOPE FOR PANCREATIC CANCER PATIENTS

There is new hope for patients diagnosed with inoperable pancreatic cancer. There's a new treatment being studied in Colorado and it has already cured one patient.Most patients diagnosed with pancreat...
Posted by Pancreatic Cancer Fighter on Sun, 27 Jan 2008 08:27:00 PST

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By Savannah Morning News Created 2007-11-15 00:30 Q.    Hello, Dr. C. My name is Margaret, and I live in Bluffton. My father is 81 and had been in good health until last year. He has b...
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What You Need to Know About Cancer of the Pancreas

In the United States, cancer of the pancreas is diagnosed in more than 39,000 people every year.  In Europe the numbers are higher; some 45,000 people are diagnosed each year with pancreatic canc...
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