DeShaye

First let's get the introduction out of the way. I am a goal oriented, incredibly smart and resilient woman. Notice I did say woman so if you are not at that level or unable to operate at that level, you can bypass the introduction and go back to another page. I have four beautiful children of my own and an "extended" daughter (from my fiancee') that I love and adore and as you can tell I am about business.I won't say I have many friends because it took me a very long time to learn that people aren't always who or what they say they are or who they claim to be. I've learned that I've had enemies (defined as one that is antagonistic to another,something harmful, one seeking to injure,overthrow or confound an opponent) that have posed and pretended to be my friend(defined as one attached to another by affection or esteem,a favored companion) and I always have and always will refuse to be rivals (defined as 1 of 2 or more striving to reach or obtain something that only one can possess,one striving for competitive advantage) with any individual who claims that they love me and "got my back". I can stand strong on my own through my trials,tribulations and struggles, I don't need to break another individual down to hold myself up.I'm real and down to earth, my life isn't perfect and I'm not afraid to admit that. I don't feel the need to be compelled to pretend to be something I'm not or pretend to have a life that I dont have.I've made mistakes and bad decisions, but I am not embarassed about that, Ive learned and grown from them. My circumstances have molded me and made me the beautiful, strong butterfly I am today. It's too many people out here wasting time chasing perfection and acceptance from peers that you are missing living your life. You need to realize that God has created us all with flaws for a reason. That's why I live by "Hate it or Love it" cause I'm gone be me,Luvly!