Rog

Kia ora (Hello) name is Roger and I live in Melbourne, Australia. I am a very proud Maori who was so privileged to be born in Aotearoa (New Zealand) - like you - I am an awesome person to be around and I am totally living in transformation being a huge cause in the life of those who come into contact with me. I love making difference in this beautiful world. Have you ever stopped doing what you are doing and then realised that all you have is "right now" (I mean in the moment) Our wonderful gift of life is lived moment by moment. Have you also noticed that we don't have our past (because that's gone) and we don't have the future (because it hasn't arrived yet). Yet even though we know this - we still automatically live life as if we have tomorrow as if it is guaranteed and is a definite certainty. But let’s face reality - we don't know what's going to happen in the next hour let alone tomorrow or the next day so then that really makes "OUR LIFE" urgent. So then why do we get upset, wallow in our misery, feel hurt or angry at the smallest things in life when you and I or our friends or family could die any moment? What's the use living in misery? So then stop and ask yourself this question – “Why do we as human beings wait until people die just to say nice things about them at their funeral or in the paper?” What's stopping us from saying nice things to them now while they are alive? Do you know what? Saying "I love you" or "it's so good having you in my life" is really easy to do. Got it? Then try it!! So now that you know it's easy, then why hold off thinking that we have tomorrow to say something or do something when we can do it right now!. Life really is just moment by moment. And hey guess what? - saying these words to someone who is alive gets a more lively response. Now give this a go - pick up the telephone and call someone who's just come to mind, tell them you love them and that you appreciate having them in your life. You will see and hear what opens up for them immediately. In that moment you will get what opens up for you? However before all of this you need to start to love yourself first and then you will learn to love others. Stop making yourself wrong, love your body, love your eyes, love your hair, love your face, love your voice everything about you is so unique. Life has become fast and hectic where now our internal reactions are triggered by whatever is happening on the outside of our body. We have forgotten about what really is going on inside. Give up trying to get somewhere else because where you are right in that moment is perfect and all you have. How annoyed do you feel when you are in a hurry? The traffic lights have turned red, the person in front of you is walking slow or getting in your way, the train or plane is delayed or cancelled. Stop and observe your inner thoughts and reactions next time this happens - those external situations going on outside you are actually controlling your emotions, thoughts and judgments. You feel that you don't have a “choice” right in that moment. But actually you do have a choice - you can choose to be happy instead of angry, happy instead of sad, happy instead of annoyed. Did you know that true power comes to us when we give up being right, even when we know we are right. Remember and practice all the time to look past your thoughts, opinions and judgments of others (the filters) and see everyone else for who they are as a human being - not who we think they are or should be. When someone is talking to us, we are not even listening because we are so engrossed in our own judgments of them. We are constantly talking and listening to ourselves or our little inner voice comparing them. This inner voice or commentary is going nonstop all day and all night. Do we know what that is? That's our past and it's sitting right out there in our future - it's our past that makes us who we are in our future - (who remembers when we were at school and the teacher asked us a question. I put my hand up all confident "blurted out an answer" and was told it was wrong the whole the class laughed at me. It was in that moment that I said - "I’m never putting my hand up ever again" - what did that achieve all my life??? a life of being horribly shy, withdrawn and quiet. But by putting our past in the past - leaves our future free to create in new unknown realms!! You should here me scream out loud now!!! We live into our past day after day. Everytime we get upset, angry or sad - it's because of something that happened in our past. We communicate now by letting our world create who we are - when really our words or communication should be creating who we are in our world. We communicate to fix and survive by with holding, protecting, controlling, defending, manipulating, resisting and changing and the mechanisms that drive us are describing (events), expressing (anger) and commanding. Try a new way of communicating that creates who you are in the world through Love and Affinity, by giving things up, forgiving, accepting, throwing conversation back and forth, being of service, coming from no thoughts or nothing (a clearing) into a new conversation and then acknowledging. Be driven by Integrity, Responsibility and Generosity. Life is very simple and easy, it is 100% "Integrity" nothing more and nothing less. Always be powerful and be peaceful. Be the cause in the life for others and give up thinking you need to get something back. You can have anything you want for yourself and your life - it's easy!! Everything is possible - it's just waiting for you. Walk through fear daily and come with me. Lets go out on the skinny branches of the tree that's where life really goes on for us - not by hugging the trunk and trying to be comfortable and safe. Let's all walk up the path where there is an abundance of joy, happiness, possibility and life are and leave misery behind us. Choose happiness, choose Peace but most of all choose life. The ability to choose is uniquely human and we can choose to be this no matter what god or religion we believe in. How many times do you hear "oh I don't fit in" we all fit into this world - we always have and always will. There maybe times where we may have a thought that robs us of our joy, peace, vitality, creativity, self expression or even in some cases our will to live - JUST LET IT GO!!! We are so automatic in believing that this thought is the truth and we should be giving into it. Guess what? it's all made up in our mind and it's not the truth - it's not even real. Something happened and we just made it mean that so giving it up is easy. Everybody in this world is complete, perfect and whole - for the way they are and the way they are not. Join me with my stand in the world which is to "STOP AND END SUICIDE" because sometimes people just give up on life. That just isn't good enough for me. I want you to know that "Life" is just wonderful "Life" is great - "Life" needs you and "Life" loves you. Sometimes our beautiful friends and family forget this and that is where we come in to the picture - we are here to remind them about "who they are for us". I love you all.»-(¯..v..¯)-» :) «-(¯..v..¯)-«