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Meg (Starving Artist)

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About Me


Greetings Friends! Grab a chair and let me tell you the story of my life, or at least the last several years of it.
In November 2003, my Mom got married to a guy from Guatemala. I didn't get along with him, so I chose to live with my Grandparents since I had not yet graduated high school and couldn't afford to live on my own. They took care of me the best they could while I got my high school diploma and took a course in photography.
It turns out my instincts were correct about my Mom's husband. He turned out to be a wife-beater and an alcoholic He told her that if she ever left him, he'd kill her. I was scared for her, but she begged me not to call the police, for fear that he would come after her.
In June 2005 my Mom's husband got arrested. It turns out out he was an illegal alien, so he was deported, leaving my Mom alone to take care of their 6 month old baby daughter.
She got fired from her job just because she was married to an illegal. (Yes, it's true). She had no one to turn to. My Grandparents couldn't afford to help her out, so I was her only option. I had excellent credit back then, so I helped my mom by paying her bills, buying her groceries, baby needs, etc.
My Mom worked at Burger King from August 2005 to February 2007. Then she worked at Subway and Bob Evans until March 2008, when she got a job as an in-home care provider. Then she got walking Pneumonia and lost that job, so right now she's unemployed.
If you live in Michigan, you know how terrible the economy is. It's even worse than the rest of the country. You have to take what you can get, and try to survive.
I am currently working 50 hours a week as a state-funded child care provider. Needless to say, I barely make enough money to live on. The state keeps making budget cuts and taking even more money out of my paycheck. I'm also trying to make a career as a photographer, but it's not easy to be an artist these days.
I don't know how much longer my Mom will be able to hold down her job because she has chronic pain caused by several reasons including Scoliosis and Fibromyalgia. She needs neck surgery, but is unable to get it because her insurance doesn't cover it and she can't afford to take the time off to recover.
We have over $25k in debts and our monthly income barely exceeds $700 since my mom lost her job.
Here is a preview of my photography:
Create Your Own
I charge the following for my photos:
$2 for 4x6
$5 for 5 x 7
$10 for 8 x 10
$20 for 11 x 14
$30 for 12 x 18*
$40 for 16 x 20*
$50 for 20 x 30*
*Some photos not available in this size.
Shipping & Handling is included.
If you like to see more of my work, please contact me!

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Hungry Cats... life still getting harder.

I have been getting asked a lot of questions about my life and family lately, so I decided it was time to write a post to get you all up to date.My family and I have been having a hard time financiall...
Posted by on Sun, 12 Oct 2008 01:55:00 GMT

Scammed!

A few days ago my Grandma got a letter in the mail. It said she won a million dollars at Publisher's Clearing House. They sent her a check for $5,400 to cover "legal fees". So she called them and they...
Posted by on Wed, 08 Oct 2008 15:16:00 GMT

Life goes on... problems keep piling up.

As you may know, I live in Michigan... the country's worst economy. Might as well live in mexico.Anyway, I'm behind in my car payment, and have totally given up on my credit card payments. Now I'm ser...
Posted by on Thu, 28 Aug 2008 22:01:00 GMT

NOT AGAIN

Just when I think we're starting to get back on track... BOOM! Something else happens. Now we need a car repair. I don't know exactly what's wrong with it yet, but it's squeaking and grinding. Somethi...
Posted by on Tue, 27 May 2008 18:40:00 GMT

Life Update

Well, my Mom got a job. She's back at BK. She looked for a job for nearly 2 months, filled out about 30 applications and had absolutely no luck. This economy sucks so much, no one is hiring. So anyw...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 19:48:00 GMT

WHY?

Why must my life keep getting worse? I thought things were supposed to get better... at least that's what people keep telling me... but so far they have been very WRONG.If you've been following my lif...
Posted by on Sun, 18 May 2008 14:19:00 GMT

More bad news... does it EVER end?

Here’s the latest installment in my downward spiral I call life...My mom got really sick two weeks ago, as in "Walking Pneumonia" sick. She had quit both her jobs, and just started a new job the...
Posted by on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 18:57:00 GMT

Life Update

Here I am once again, blogging about my life. My debt hasn’t gone down at all in the past 6 months, and I haven’t been able to make my credit card payments at all. I don’t even care ...
Posted by on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 00:50:00 GMT

SAD day :-(

My cat Lucy got pregnant right before Christmas. We  had planned to get her spayed when we got our income tax refund, but... too late! Even though I have too many cats as it is, I was still excit...
Posted by on Sat, 23 Feb 2008 22:17:00 GMT

Life Update

Well, it's the new year and time to get my life together. I have given up trying to pay my bills on my own, and decided to go to a debt counselor. Since I have nothing left to lose, I might as well tr...
Posted by on Thu, 10 Jan 2008 01:59:00 GMT