I really would like to start communicating with someone close to my age. A few years younger. (My husband is 16 years older)It is difficult living with a person who has alzheimer's The person you have known is no longer there. It is like dealing with someone who has had a stoke and their personality changes. You can not commuicate with this person anymore, like you use to. You deal with all house hold duties, paying bills and etc. With God's help I will get through it. My 21 year old really helps out.