erwin

I'm a fun friendly slightly nerdy, nicely built intellectual artistic type and the only major drama I want around me comes with a deal memo attached.Someday soon, I'd like to snag a keeper who's decided he's ready to build something exclusive and mutually meaningful with the right man. Not too much of that going around these days, but I can dream.I'm attracted to the jock next door type - a clean-cut, intelligent, masculine and confident athletic guy with a great spark in his eyes - lean, naturally muscular and healthy... fun, sane, drug/smoke free, a few years younger but not young enough to be my kid... someone who has the class to be respectful and kind to the people in and out of his life.It ain't all about sex, but when hormones rage, I want my arms wrapped around a down to earth, emotionally connected man who craves a safe place to explore his deep and perhaps private desire to transform into a very oral, sexually playful jock pup bottom boy... eager to grow more and more intensely submissive and hungrier to please the dominant muscular top man who makes him feel protected and surrounds him with masculine power and affection.Yeah... that about sums it up. :)Long term, I want a great guy by my side who's loyal and romantic - with a full life outside our relationship, dreams I can encourage, and thoughts about the world we can share while I hold him close at night... a functional, emotionally and intellectually connected bond between a dominant and submissive man without any pain, humiliation, or abuse.FYI - I won't freak out if my partner wants to be alone with his friends without me sometimes. I'm not the jealous type.If you have a picture showing, and you think we'd be a good match, go ahead and start a private chat. Might take me a minute, but I'll respond if I'm free and something about your picture and profile connect with me. I can send a clearer face pic and other private photos if there's mutual interest.....