I need someone who understands me.A Simple enough. He hasnt experienced anything I have, and that makes it not worth it in the least. I need someone whos lived, who has loved deeply and gut wrenchingly, whos been really happy, and had someone break their heart into little pieces. Because otherwise, he DOESNT KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF TAKING CARE OF SOMEONES HEART when its offered to you, and how could I ever trust him with mine?i need someone whos written a song or painted for someone they loved, someone whos had drama and irony and pain in their life. I need someone who analyzes, who contemplates, who holds wisdom behind their eyes and a fire in their souls. I need someone who's tasted life in every respect. I need someone who can laugh at inside jokes and say 4 or 5 words in a way I've never heard them said before, and who can communicate a zillion words a second with a look or a gesture...I'VE ONLY FOUND THIS THING I'M LOOKING FOR ONCE, WHICH WAS IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWED BY THE SPECTACULAR DROP KICKING OF MY HEART .until I found my man!