I believe in being real and living for oneself and never forgetting those you love who love you in return and understand one of the greatest principles of life ... unconditional love ... the lessons they shared wheither they remain with us on this earth or not ... everything happens for a reason !!! All that would need to happen is for some people who claim to be adults be adult enough to face and confront the things in their lives opposed to talking about everyone elses misleading oneself and the world at large for that matter ..