Well...we are all looking for that right person to have in our life. What am I ultimatly looking for? That is a loaded question...What I would like to have is a best friend, lover and lifetime companion. I am not against getting married again...I have no children nor do I really want any ...but I would like to get married again and have that special someone. I enjoy my weight lifting and my horse..and my best friends. All my best friends are gay men, so if you can't accept that...move on!!! yes, call it a Will and Grace lifestyle, but it is who I am..and am tired of explaining to people who I hang out with. They are closer to me than my own family sometimes...and are a huge part of my life. I just like to be upfront about it from the beginning. No surprises with me...I am a straight forward up front kind of girl. looking for the same kind of man.My man...needs to be about 35 to 47...pretty much drama free with a great personality. Okay if you have kids..I just don't want to have any of my own. I prefer someone into the weightlifting...for a couple of reasons. I believe in being healthy...but also want someone who will understand my crazy all protien diet and time dedicated to the gym. It is not a requirement, but I have found it to be an issue in the past...and am trying hard to avoid issues!!! Aren't we all???