Quality people with something interesting to say. It's not what you have or who you know, it's what's inside you that counts.For a partner/boyfriend, the first tall, honest, well adjusted, handsome gay man in L.A. that can make me laugh through a conversation and doesn't immediately want to take his pants off and think I "want it." ;););) Is that really asking for too much? And geesh guys, if I ask for an add, I'm not that hideous and scary. Make a new friend, it couldn't hurt.