Jeff profile picture

Jeff

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

I'm still here in Buffalo, NY. I'm 27, but I finally got a new job! I got out of the small company I've been working for and am moving up! I have my own office, full paid health insurance, the whole deal!I'm still with Melissa, the love of my life! We've been together since just before Valentines day of 2006. :) I met her on her birthday, believe it or not, and ever since I'm smiling every day, and I still have the same passion for her that I did the first day I met her! I still have no words to describe what "perfect" means, but if I could... she would make me feel that way. Sure, she can be a pain in my butt, but it's in a good way all the time! Only someone truly special can make you get mad, and yet still make you want to kiss them all at once! She's my princess, my baby, and just writing about her is making me smile. That's a great feeling.I work from 8 to 5 every monday thru friday. After that, it's all up in the air :) I am always there for my friends, and I look at life and the future with optimism, even in the harshest of situations (most of them, at least. Sometimes, something sucks real bad). Life is full of surprises, and some of them can destroy you. I choose to keep my head up high, and think positive. That is what is so great about life... you never know what's around the corner, and what types of situations and decisions you will have to make.Nobody is perfect, least of all me. I get along with everyone though, am a great guy to be around, and just go with the flow most of the time.I bought a new car last year, upgrading from my 2004 Mazda 6S to a MazdaSpeed 6. Since I'm a car guy, it's a nice upgrade :) All Wheel Drive + Turbo and it's just a sexier looking car. I need to get pictures up still...I'm a Starbucks fanatic/addict. I am there at "my starbucks" at least once a day. And I have been for the last few years. They know my name, and my drink is made before I even go inside sometimes :)If you want, hit me up with an IM on AIM at Clean Baldy.

My Interests

Since I'm an IT Professional, I guess I have to give the dorky answer of "computers" but, I'm not a super dork that plays video games all day long, talking about how fast my computer is, and talking about them all day. It's just a job, and something I know a lot about. I've always been facinated with nature and science. So, I spend some time admiring it, from time to time. I love driving. I've always loved to drive. Starbucks. That's it. I like to sit with friends at starbucks, enjoying people watching and the weather, and my nice Grande Mocha. I have an interest in travelling and just relaxing and enjoying life. Going to the beach, laying in the sun with Melissa and just realizing what I have is a great feeling to have.

I'd like to meet:

This list has changed over the years and it always seems to revolve around my mood.Today, I would love to meet Bill Gates or that guy with the bad hair, Donald Trump.Both of them seem to just have positive energy, know what they want and just get it. I'd love to have lunch with either of them, just to be around that.Oh and of course the regular answers... movie stars, famous people, etc etc.Maybe the inventor of the cell phone, so I can personally thank him for making the youth of America retarded.

Music:

I like techno mostly, but I love most all music. Lately, alternative has been what I've been burning to CDs... and I'm not sure why. Eve 6, Barenaked Ladies... that kinda stuff. I'm not really good with music, and I never know who is who. I like all music really, and never put any effort into knowing songs or groups. I've been like that my whole life.

Movies:

Movies I like include: Office Space, Billy Madison, Happy Gilmore, Oceans Eleven (12 sucked), The Italian Job, Titan AE, umm... I'm just gonna stop. There are hundreds of movies I like. I love comedies the most, though.

Television:

I usually channel surf, and end up on a movie. I don't have much time lately, nor do I really turn it on anymore. I only like to watch TV when I'm with someone. TV is boring most of the time, as it's always the same stuff over and over. I'd much rather be out.

Heroes:


Your Seduction Style: Ideal Lover
You seduce people by tapping into their dreams and desires. And because of this sensitivity, you can be the ideal lover for anyone you seek. You are a shapeshifter - bringing romance, adventure, spirituality to relationships. It all depends on who your with, and what their vision of a perfect relationship is. What Is Your Seduction Style?
Your Kissing Purity Score: 20% Pure
For you, it's all kiss and no talk.
You're in a permanent lip lock. Kissing Purity Test
Advanced Global Personality Test Results
Extraversion |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Stability |||||||||||||| 53%
Orderliness |||||||||||||| 60%
Accommodation |||||||||||||||| 63%
Interdependence |||||||||||||||| 70%
Intellectual |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Mystical |||||||||||||||| 63%
Artistic |||||| 30%
Religious || 10%
Hedonism |||||||||| 36%
Materialism |||||||||||||||| 70%
Narcissism |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Adventurousness |||||||||||||||| 70%
Work ethic |||||||||||| 50%
Self absorbed |||||||||| 36%
Conflict seeking |||||| 23%
Need to dominate |||||||||||||||| 70%
Romantic |||||||||||||||| 63%
Avoidant |||||||||| 36%
Anti-authority |||||||||||||| 56%
Wealth |||||||||||||| 56%
Dependency |||||| 30%
Change averse |||||||||||||| 56%
Cautiousness |||||||||||||||| 63%
Individuality |||||||||||| 43%
Sexuality |||||||||||||||| 63%
Peter pan complex |||||||||| 36%
Physical security |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Physical Fitness |||||||||||||||||||| 84%
Histrionic |||||||||| 36%
Paranoia |||||||||||||||| 63%
Vanity |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Hypersensitivity |||||||||||||||| 70%
Female cliche |||||| 23% Take Free Advanced Global Personality Test
personality tests by similarminds.com

My Blog

Two years! A poem by me.

Loving and cherished for a couple of yearsMelissa and me treasure that moment with a couple of beers.Oh wait I forgot she hates the tasteThis 24 pack I bought, geez, what a waste.I guess I'll have to ...
Posted by Jeff on Sat, 02 Feb 2008 05:59:00 PST

Another poem

Living life is half the fun,no plans or course of action.What happens is what is done.Doing anything but what you know,you'll find out soon where you'll go.Tick tockTick tockTime goes by like the hand...
Posted by Jeff on Mon, 23 Jan 2006 08:23:00 PST

Time with a good friend

Sometimes you just realize how absolutely wonderful life is, when you're walking side by side with a great friend, and you're just happy being there. Driving, with no particular place to go, we ended ...
Posted by Jeff on Sat, 14 Jan 2006 09:01:00 PST

To those I care about... I will always be there for you

You ever know someone who care about that keeps doing stupid things, acting dumb because they feel a certain way... and there is nothing you can do but watch as they do stupid stuff over and over, and...
Posted by Jeff on Fri, 30 Dec 2005 11:18:00 PST

A simple poem :)

A love poem written in the blink of an eye,images fill your head when you do not expect it.You sit and write out the words,sometimes they are not what you expected.Not needing to w...
Posted by Jeff on Tue, 27 Dec 2005 09:38:00 PST

...

I am not happy. EDIT:    I am now happy.   Every minute that goes by, I feel more stable :)   I am happy!!!! I went snowboarding for the first time tonight. &nb...
Posted by Jeff on Mon, 19 Dec 2005 04:49:00 PST

The thought of the day.

Being single compared to being in a relationship.   There really is no comparison, and I still can't comprehend exactly how you go from being single to a relationship without losing a lot of...
Posted by Jeff on Tue, 13 Dec 2005 10:33:00 PST

Realization of what is going on.

It's incredible to actually find somoene that has gone through what I have gone through in my recent relationship.   Not just gone through a relationship, but seemingly living in my life and...
Posted by Jeff on Mon, 12 Dec 2005 05:08:00 PST

I went Ice Skating!

For the first time in my life, I went ice skating last night! I get a call from Becky saying "hey, come ice skating"   I couldn't pass it up.    I didn't know what to do, or e...
Posted by Jeff on Mon, 12 Dec 2005 05:22:00 PST

A poem

For those that think with the heart and mind, they cannot leave the past behind. The head keeps remembering the things it has seen, the heart only wants what comes in a dream. When you listen to every...
Posted by Jeff on Fri, 09 Dec 2005 09:38:00 PST