I've never seen a tombstone that read, "Gosh I wish I had...", and trust me, mine won't either....lol....I learned early in life that things aren't fair, so quit bitchin', and make the best of it....I work for a local radio station, so get to enjoy lots of concerts, events, and meet lots of great people! I believe that you're never too old too have fun, learn something new, be sexy, or wear red lipstick and red high heels! I have buried my husband/bestfriend, so know life is short, nobody comes with a warranty! Make the best of everyday...I am a private person, except with those who I know and love, and those who know and love me in return...I love my friends and family dearly, would do anything for them, but I also am a person who needs my space...in short, if I do not call for a few days, hell, even a week, just call if you need me! I don't lie, and do not tolerate it in others, I am as open minded as they come, so there is no need for lies....If you ate a cheesburger and broke your diet, don't tell me you had a salad for lunch! I am serious, even small things, lying is the one thing that will get someone, family included, cut from my life....I am brutally honest, sometimes I can really cut to the quick telling you my opinion if you ask, but I always just say it like it is....I'll be the first one to hold your hair if you puke, but also the first one to cut you off and tell you you've had too much and are acting like an ass..