So many levels to explore! In June of 2005 I spent a month in New Zealand (The Garden of Eden? Trial run!!) and came back knowing much more about what I don't know. "I won't eat seafood because in another lifetime I was a mermaid--or some other...form of seafood...." I know this because of the recurring dream (note: I did NOT say "nightmare") about being in shark-infested waters, taking a blade and slashing my wrists. Hey, I'm here to help, maybe the sharks were hungry! And there's other evidence as well. I enjoy giving foot massages and pleasing my companions in other sensual ways. If it leads to sex, who's complaining? but I've got other things to do with my time so, never any pressure. And of course the writing, and the related obsession with serial killers, zombies, and other Creepy Guys. Of course we could always go by:
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An Everything Survey!
Starter Questions
What is your full name?: Wendy Alisa Chavez
Were you named after anyone...who?: My grandmother, Elizabeth (took me years to figure that one out)
When were you born?: Mayday, 1972 ... and my mom will never let me forget!
Where were you born?: Little bitty town south of Albuquerque, New Mexico, U.S.A.
Where do you live?: Albuquerque, New Mexico, U.S.A.
Do you like where you live...why?: Yes. Big city but we're small town so it's the best of both worlds
Do you have any siblings? Describe them...: Older sister, younger brother, & my sister's oldest son almost counts
Do you live with your parents?: No
Do you get on with your parents?: Yes, partly because I no longer live with them
Do you have any pets? Describe them...: Well the cat counts doesn't she? And I hope her guinea pig does too.
Appearance
Do you have any peircings?: One in each earlobe
Do you have any tattoos?: Do the scars count? There's a story behind each of them....
What is your hair like?: About waist length, brown with rainbow highlights (all natural), relatively healthy, many people say it's very nice, & I have spiritual ties to it
What colour are your eyes?: Dark brown, usually intense
What's your favourite item of clothing?: Bare skin
Girls, are you happy with the size of your boobs?: Well just about everyone else is & I have no real problems so--
Are you happy with your weight?: Meh, why not?
Do you have any scars and where?: There's my pride and joy, the 13-incher on my left knee that came from the brain injury (email me for further details)
Do you bite your nails?: More often I bite the cuticles
Are you happy with your skin?: Yes! One of the genetic gifts my parents were kind enough to have for me
Love
Have you ever been in love?: Several times
Who was your first crush?: He's lost in the mists of Pre-Brain Injury life
Do you have a crush right now?: A few of them
Do you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend right now? If so, describe them...: Yes; one boyfriend ... and several intrigues on the side. All are aware of the others to some extent, and are encouraged to not stick around if they can't deal
Have you ever gone further than kissing?: A little bit
Have you ever had sex?: A lot
What is your ideal partner? Describe personality and appearance...: Open-minded, adventurous, empathetic, fun-loving as well as serious-minded. Appearance is irrelevant but I really dig tall and muscular, with deep voices and intense eyes
Who are your celebrity crushes?: What's a celebrity again?
What is your ideal date?: One that includes me, at least one male, and a lot of laughter and happiness
Have you ever liked a friend as more than a friend?: All the time--in fact, that's part of my definition of friendship
Have you ever kissed a person of the same sex?: Sometimes more than once and passionately
What age did you start getting interested in the opposite sex (or same)?: I don't remember, probably about 13 or 14
Have you ever said "I love you" and meant it?: All the time
Do you ever wish you could of told someone you loved them?: Both grandpas, before either of them passed away
Have you ever lied about loving someone?: Unfortunately, yes
Would you move country for the one you love?: If it's New Zealand, in a heartbeat
Have you ever played spin the bottle? If so, when and where?: Yes but I don't remember when or where
What would your reaction be if the one you love told you they were gay?: I've deliberately blocked that memory (he wasn't gay, just experimenting, but still)
Do you want to get married?: Had enough of that the first time around
Do you want to have children? If so, how many?: No--I would not do that to any child. Besides, the cat counts, right?
Have you ever had a holiday romance? If so, with who?: The Kiwi Who Stole My Heart--love ya, Andy!
Have you ever spotted a person somewhere that you wished you'd got to know?: Frequently
Describe them...: Usually I either get to know them or quickly forget about them
Music
Who is your favourite band at the moment?: Good question, can I get back to you?
Do you like the same music as your family?: Sometimes
Do you like the same music as your friends?: Sometimes
Name 3 bands you love & why:: Tool, Pink Floyd, and Godsmack
1.: Dark, intense, unusual, and they have great voices
2.: Because they're very nearly gods
3.: 'Cause I like to turn the volume way up and sit on the speaker
Name 3 bands you hate & why:: I plead the 5th Amendment
1.: ...because I try not to think about what I don't like
2.: ...and don't really care about the ones I hate
3.: ...and anything could change anyway
Which bands or songs did you grow up listening to?: '80s rock, '70s rock, '60s rock, & classical violin
Do you play any instruments? If so, what?: From about 3rd to 11th grade I played classical violin, but after the brain injury was too busy trying to remember things ... like what my friends looked like ...
Do you wish you could play an instrument?: One of these days I WILL take up the violin again!
What is the best gig(s) you've ever been to? Describe it...: Oh I don't know, I've been to a lot of Best Gigs
You can bring one musician/artist back from the dead, who do you pick, why?: I don't think he's dead yet
If you could get rid of a band/singer, who would it be and why?: idunno, don't spend a lot of time thinking about it
Which bands did you used to like that you don't like as much anymore?: See above
Are there any bands you've gone off completely?: Probably
Which bands/singers did you like when you were young?: Don't remember, and it changed from time to time anyway
Friends
Who is your best friend(s)?: Johnny Walker--really!
Who is your loudest friend?: Maybe that would be Michele?
Who is your quietest friend?: I never noticed
Which friend is most like you?: Ha! They all are in one way or another
Which friend is most unlike you?: See above
Which friend is the craziest?: See above
Which friend is the smartest?: See above
Which friend is the funniest?: Tough decision...see above once more
Who is a person you dislike now and regret having been friends with?: M. Klaasmeyer
Who was your first best friend?: Tammy Martinez
Who is your best girl mate?: Right now? Toss-up between Michele, Deanise, and Katrina
Who is your best guy mate?: Johnny Walker again
Which friends can you trust the most and tell anything to?: All of 'em, really, or they don't remain my friends for long
Would you prefer to have 2 best friends or 10 acquaintances?: 10 best friends
Who's house have you slept at the most?: J. Chiconas'
Which friend has stayed over at yours the most?: Well the cat counts right?
Which friend hasn't stayed at your house but you would like them to?: J. Chiconas (can't say that anymore--I guess there isn't one)
Do you think you're a good friend...why?: I do try but it's not my decision
Movies
Who are your favourite actors/actresses?: Dave McElhaney
What are your favourite films and why?: Lord of the Rings x 3, and any other movie filmed in or about New Zealand
What is the first film you can remember watching?: Ha! I can't!
What is the last film you watched in a house?: Lord of the Rings parts I and II
What is the last film you saw at the cinema?: It's been so long....
If you could star in a film alongside any actor, who would it be?: (in no particular order) Bruce Willis or Dave McElhaney
If you could be in any film, what would it be?: Whale Rider
You can create your own movie, what would it be like & who would be in it?: I really like serial killers but can't quite star Jeffrey Dahmer and Ted Bundy, so I'll have to have a Creepy Guy casting call, ay
More about You
Is there anyone famous you wish you looked like...who?: Er, not really
Which one of your friends would you most love to look like?: All of them
What's your favourite colour?: Green, with silver a close second
Have you ever seen someone die?: Not that I know of
What has been your most recent dream?: It probably featured a lot of naked men, but I don't remember my dreams
Have you ever been in a fist fight? When & with who?: Probably but I don't really remember
What do you think about death?: Er, it's in my vague future
Do you believe in ghosts? Why or why not?: Yes, but none have ever deigned to speak to me. That I know of.
Do you believe in aliens? Why or why not?: I have no reason not to
Do you believe in karma? Why or why not?: I was a mermaid in another lifetime and karma is possibly involved
What is the worst feeling you have experienced?: I don't remember
What has been the worst experience of your life?: Probably the brain injury but again, and I don't remember
What has been the highlight of the month so far?: That my boyfriend and I have been made up all month
What are you looking forward to this summer?: Sun, heat, and maybe some rain
What are the best things that happened last summer?: That was a long time ago...
What are your plans for tomorrow?: That's a long way away
School
Who is your favourite teacher?: Dee Dee Heffner
What is your favourite subject?: English, literature, creative writing
Do you like school? Why or why not?: Yes, I've always been good at it. Er, until recently
What is the most interesting thing that's happened in your school?: In high school, after missing a full semester due to brain injury, I was still 1/4 credit from graduating with my class; the entire class went to admin to plead my case! I love you guys!
What do you want to be when you're older?: Um, not as young as I am now?
What school do you go to?: Central New Mexico Community College, Albuquerque, New Mexico, U.S.A.
Other Questions
What do you like about yourself?: (in no particular order) hair, smile, eyes, boobs, legs
What do you dislike about yourself?: Very little actually
Are you touchy feely?: Yep
Are you good at keeping secrets?: Depends
Are you impatient?: Can be
What are you wearing right now?: Bare skin
What is your hair like just now?: Long, loose, and uncombed
Do you like roller coasters?: Excitement is good
What do you think about smoking?: Let me just stand upwind
What do you think about drugs?: Do what you want, but not in my presence or my house
What do you think about drinking?: Not as much fun as roller coasters; moderation is good
What do you think about abortion?: I'd rather not--that's why I've been spayed--but make your own decision
Have you ever tried smoking?: Didn't care for it
Have you ever tried drugs?: Allergic, didn't care for it, or scared the hell out of me...depending on the drug
How often do you drink?: Meh, less than I did in New Zealand
What was the last gift someone gave you?: A very nice Italian dinner...and dessert back at his hotel afterward (a box of chocolates, silly!)
What do you think of the person that posted this before you?: Another Kiwi with a good chance of stealing my heart (but he'll never replace you, Andy!)
What are you listening to right now?: Er, the computer fan and the ticking clock
What time is it?: 3:21am, Central U.S. time
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You Are 84% Abnormal
You are at high risk for being a psychopath. It is very likely that you have no soul.
You are at high risk for having a borderline personality. It is very likely that you are a chaotic mess.
You are at high risk for having a narcissistic personality. It is very likely that you are in love with your own reflection.
You are at high risk for having a social phobia. It is very likely that you feel most comfortable in your mom's basement.
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