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Wednesday Night Dinners
What the Dinners are about:
Wednesday Night Dinners are an opportunity for you as an individual, group of friends, family, and neighbors to gather in a congenial setting while sharing wholesome, nutritious (healthy) foods. In this setting the goal is to create an encouraging environment to allow discussions of social concerns affecting our country and world. The dinners are an opportunity for America to talk about ways in which our Nation, community, neighbors, each of us individually, can address Racism, Sexism, Violence, our Environmental Health, and develop practical methods each of us can perform in everyday living to overcome these challenges.
We would also like for someone from the United Kingdom to contact us to set-up a similar idea in your country if you so have the desire. Britain has the same social issues as us here across the pond. You are also as culpable as we are in the support on what is going on in Iraq, Africa and many other places in the world as we know. It’s time to heal.
In light of a friends wisdom please join us:
Australia...France....Germany....Turkey....Canada....no matter where you live...try having a Wednesday Night dinner for new friends around you...strangers around you...write and tell us how it goes!!
Why Wednesday Night Dinners are necessary:
The Healing of our Nation – Ourselves – Our Communities – Each Other. A truly bright future encompassing us all where everyone benefits is only truly possible when we believe; there is a lack of belief out there that we can handle these social matters because they seem so out there, so overwhelming. They are not!
Collective minds have the ability to solve challenges addressing us all. Our collective minds need to focus on simple, everyday, practical concrete things we can each do to “Make It Real.” Make solutions that impact us all immediately real where buy in can be had by everyone. Just like people rallying against Wal-Mart or marching on a campus or in a neighborhood against senseless violence. There are practical solutions out there in your minds, let’s connect under this forum to bring those solutions into the light so everyone can look at them and decide on the ones acceptable to them to put into practice. The dinners are an outgrowth of what a group of us practice where we live and continue to do. They are a place of peace, of comfort during the week, a place where friendships are born, strengthened, and where people can be comfortable addressing tough moral issues that need solutions now. Wednesday nights are a time of love and sharing without fear, they are a place for those who find during the week they need an opportunity to connect with good people. You have the ability to create this atmosphere in your own lives.
We have an opportunity now to put forth a mandate as a whole people no matter your political affiliation asking, no, demanding, as a democratic people, that our elections are fair and actively address the issues of social ills plaguing our history and threatening to further sour a future that should be bright with exploration and promise. The choice is yours, we are asking here that everyone who chooses to be a part of this do so with the faith/belief that we can in the common good ask Independents, Green Party Candidates, Republicans, Democrats and any others, their support in keeping the 2008 election clean of any taints.
Most importantly, we can create an environment of good will where people can see through to practical things they can do to help combat Racism, to help stop violence in their community, and to help our streets be safer for everyone, Today! We must go beyond Rock The Vote campaigns and other ideas to really penetrate communities where people have not traditionally voted and get these fellow citizens into positions where they can make intelligent choices that can only help us all. We have two years to make this happen; we have an opportunity to create an organization here whose shelf-life is two years. We don’t need another group of people; we have enough groups and communities, civic groups, and religious organizations in place to help make this happen. Our goal is to set this up, have the 08' election, and then go away because we are no longer needed.
How can you participate?
By simply wanting America to be a better place for everyone. Love conquers all in the end; we are asking you to practice Love. We have chosen to post this first part to MySpace for feedback and participation by those ‘buying’ in to what we are attempting to create here. We need all of your help in order to make this thing work, look at what MoveOn.org has become.
We need College students and anyone else who cares, to comment on this project in constructive, positive, intelligent, well thought out solutions. We need College volunteers for organizing the dinners on campus and in your hometowns. We then need for these organizers to help create content and to report back the content people at your school come-up with so we can form guidelines for people when we present this to the rest of the country. We are counting on your help to encourage people in the right manner to take responsibility and in this non-intrusive manner begin the healing process.
We also are looking for college volunteers to go out in there communities to find programs that work to address social ills and bring those to the table. These programs are the basis of us being able to approach the entertainers, athletes (who come from your student bodies), and others in the community who are identified as “Connectors” (from the Tipping Point) so they can help bring this National program called Wednesday Night Dinners into practical reality.
High School students are asked to participate in the same manner within your own communities and we encourage you to look for the same results as we are asking from your older peers.
What Now?
If your interest has been captured then read on where more philosophy is explained behind the concept and sign-up in our ‘friend list.’ We are in the process of creating a website for the rest of the concept to be presented and flushed out. We know attention spans our short so… we ask that if you are willing based off of what you have read here, to become involved, then we welcome you.

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Steps to Start Wednesday Night Dinners

1. Choose to Actively engage and have fun with Wednesday Night Dinners.

a. This is not a chore – it is a fun environment that is as much about the host/hostesses enjoyment as those who 'show up' and participate

b. Many people have expressed concern over friends gathering on a particular night, that's what it's about. Please feel free to pick any night you want, Wednesday is big because it is in the middle of the week. Gathering with those who choose to come when they can and connect as they are able is a great part of the atmosphere that allows a steady core to form and many others who rotate in and out of the nights provide the excitement as you never know who will show up or when. Once you have been doing this for a while, a natural pattern will emerge where you will never worry about who shows and who doesn't. It only matters that you're there with friends and love, then you choose to share that energy with people who desperatley need for us to come up with solutions to the issues that do not have to plague us if we each choose to do something about it - In the Now!

c. This is about ‘atmosphere’ – the atmosphere created is that of conversation and what people can share. A positive atmosphere that stimulates discussion and ideas that are real and easily doable in your immediate everyday life and community

2. Invite those you would like to attend and at least one person or couple with whom you have had minimal contact but want to know better

a. Invite friends – acquaintances – co-workers – strangers that you have seen here and there – people with a different view then yours or who practice different politics – neighbors – people from your local businesses – people in leagues your kids or you play in – anyone you are comfortable inviting, including those who do think like you

b. rotate houses or make sure the people or person having the event regularly at their home has to do the minimal amount possible to host your dinner

c. switch up and have events at local restaurants, get local chef’s and restaurant owners involved by having them open up their places to dinners and have them help spread the word – you can do a rotating restaurant every week for different flavors and feels to your particular events

3. Send out the dinner theme - a main goal of the dinners is to cook healthy (you decide what that means though we recommend "Healthy," you'll feel better

a. Potato night

b. Italian

c. Thai

d. Green foods night

e. Soul Food night

f. Indian

g. Etc.

4. Please do not go above and beyond what you would do if great friends came over unannounced – just be you to ensure that your evening is enjoyable

a. remember the dinners are a safe-haven for people to feel secure enough to talk about politics, religion, and the hurts that continue to plague us as people – support for each other is key

5. Coordinate/ask people – with those you have invited on what they are bringing – it is a lot of fun and less stress to have people bring whatever they want within the boundaries of the nightly theme

a. ensure that there is enough of a main dish for everyone by having at least two people responsible for making enough of what your average turnout becomes

b. have people bring just one of something unless of course they choose to bring more – it is less of a burden or task if people know they can just bring food or go out and pick-up a bottle of wine or two and show-up

c. check list or form of accountability for what people are bringing - one element for an enjoyable evening

6. make sure essentials are not yours, the hostesses or hosts, sole responsibility

a. essentials include paper plates, paper towels, plastic or preferably items that are environmentally sound and can be reused, recycled, or disposed of organically

7. Question becomes: When do we introduce the 'topic' of the evening for consideration and action?

a. Our suggestion is that the topic is introduced at the beginning of the evening as a sign posted or handed out as a topic on a sheet of paper

b. another thing we did frequently is having little sheets of paper with various words on them as a tone setter for your mind and attitude for the evening(ex. Happiness – hope – gracious, etc.)

8. Conversations – conversations main focus is on getting to know each other better and learn common interests or about something you would like to learn or know – the topic of the evening is a component of the conversation flow and needs to be worked in

9. General Themes for Discussion

a. Earth Friendly Practices

b. Racial Equality/Harmony

c. Healthy Mind/Body

d. Political Activism: Where should this lead us?

e. How can we maintain and expand change on a local - national - international level?

9. Practical Considerations for Discussion

a. How to expand and maintain connections and commitment from Wed. Night Dinners?

b. How to become and maintain our individual ability to be a force for change?

10. Music

a. as always, go with what you feel - mix it up for your guests and for diversity (the theme of life)

11. End of the evening

a. ensure that people do their own dishes with a system for someone(s) to clean common dishes – you can also choose to have those who brought dishes take their own home for cleaning (we like the first way better – but do what you would like)

b. wish everyone a great night and urge those who took pictures to send them to you or to the person who is organizing pictures and/or ideas from the dinner’s discussions

12. After Dinner Activities

a. things we would love to see on the website are pictures from your dinners, ideas from discussion solutions, other dinner ideas and themes, recipes, and anything else you may think of people would love to hear about or see

Cheers & Enjoy Each Other!

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