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Free to Be Who Im meant to be

Not your ordinary every day girl

About Me


I have never been too good with talking about myself. I could give you the usual I'm funny, people like me, I'm a great friend, nonsense but who the hell really cares?
I am me. And unfortunatly me is moody, indecisive, a little eccentric, a whole lot of bitchy, and just a little bit of a freak, but I mange to keep up a good front so not a whole lot of people would ever suspect that i am capable of some of the things I do.
One thing that I feel is important to mention is that I am in no way perfect. I have thick thighs, a bubbly butt, love handles, and my hair is sometimes unruly. However, I am faaaarrrr from being obese and I carry my weight well. When men discribe me the term "built like a brick shithouse" is usually at the top of the list. I could stand to lose 20 pounds but I'm comfortable with my body and appearance. I mention this because most men dream of the J Lo or Angelina Jolie physique so just so you don't have any preconceived notions, I am by far model material but still damn good looking.Currently the only picture I have up is of my ass, taken about 10 days ago. I will edit some of my others to keep my face out of them and then post them as well.

My Interests


Meeting new people, making new friends, playing video games, card games, board games, having a few drinks with great friends, great conversation, great fun, and great sex.

I'd like to meet:


I just want to make this very very clear to all of you freaky stalker predator types that use myspace as a new form of single ads....

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN HAVING A THREESOME WITH YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
I am in a relationship with a great guy. we have been together almost 10 years and we love each other very much.
That being said, I suppose I should explain my purpose for even putting up this stupid page. We are the parents of 2 terrific children and I have a son from a previous relationship. His father would have a massive heartattack if he were aware of some of our extra curricular activities so forgive the secrecy. I will never post a picture of my face on this page but I do have many pictures available if you are someone I feel that I would want to get to know then I am more than willing to share. After I run a background check on you of course ;)

Here are the ground rules.
In no way are WE interested in just meeting people to have sex with. That's what we have each other for but we are both secure enough in our relationship that we both can experience other people, either apart or together, and leave it as nothing more than just good times with good friends.

SINGLE WOMEN - Single women - Are fine. Of course my husband won't complain and I really need to have more female friends. It's not like he knows how to appreciate things like manicures and facials. So I am looking for someone to hang out with. become friends with, and if things are right maybe have a little fun with. My husband doesn't have to be involved but if you are pretty he will probably whine like a little baby until we give in and give him a threesome just to shut him up. Who knows, maybe you can teach him that tits are more than just fun bags.

SINGLE MEN - I am probably going to kick myself in the ass for even writing this but I may as well. Single men are ok too as long as you can get over yourself for just a minute to realize that I will never leave my husband no matter how good you think you are in bed. If you can handle a MFM enounter and not try to get me to come over to your house at 2 AM cause you just got back from the bar and you are really horny then maybe we can chat. My husband needs more male friends as well. But we are both smart enough to know if all you are looking for is some strange you aren't gonna find it here. Things like this take a lot of time and require A LOT of trust, on everyones part. If you don't have the time to invest in this, we don't have the time to invest in you.

OTHER COUPLES LIKE OURSELVES - We realize people who think and feel like us are few and far between so that is why there are previous rules for both single members of each gender but if you are a couple who likes to participate in things like this. Send me a message. I do the screenings because I am the one who is overly critical and picky when it comes to everyone so please don't get offended if you are a beautiful blonde 5'8" goddess married to a troll and I don't want to sleep with your husband.

And lastly....we drink on occasion,and smoke cigarettes. we don't do any other drugs of any other kind. So if you are a pot head, coke fiend, or crack addict...don't bother wasting your time or ours/mine. Smoking a little pot is ok I suppose, I did it back in the day but don't expect me to hit the bong with you. I work for a company with a very strict random drug testing policy and I am not about to jeopardize my employment just to laugh at things that aren't funny and get a craving for chili dogs.
I think I covered just about EVERYTHING but if you have any questions feel free to send me a message. I try to sign on here a few times a week but this is not a major priority of mine so don't be offended if it takes me a week to get back to you.

Music:


I listen to everything imaginable. Not a huge fan of hip hop/rap unless I'm shaking my ass on the dance floor at a club somewhere and country isn't high up on my list either but as I said, I can listen to anything.

Movies:


Mean Girls, 10 things I hate about you, Cruel Intentions, stuff like that. I also like action movies. It's been a long time since I made a bowl of popcorn, grabbed a box of tissues and watched Jerry Maguire but my taste in movies is all over the board as well.

Television:

I watch Passions once a week to get caught up. The rest of the time I watch things like Forensic Files, North Mission Road, and all other who done it, court/crime true stories.

Books:


Dean Koontz isn't bad. J.K. Rawling (yeah I love harry potter) Some Tom Clancy, and Edgar Allen Poe.

Heroes:


The men and women who would give their lives to protect and defend this country get my utmost respect and praise.