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MySpace Generators .. Click Here for Free MySpace Layouts .. FOR MATURE MASCULINITY TO DEVELOP, BOYS AND ADOLESCENTS NEED NURTURANCE AND GUIDANCE BY BOTH MALES AND FEMALES; ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER IS INSUFFICIENT. i BELIEVE THAT THE DEVELOPMENT OF MATURE MASCULINITY REQUIRES A CONTINUED STRONG PRESENCE OF WOMEN IN THE DEVELOPMENTAL PROCESSES OF YOUNG MEN, BUT IT ALSO IS IMPERATIVE THAT MEN RE-ENTER THE PICTURE AND ONCE AGAIN BECOME INVOLVED IN THE REARING OF ALL OUR CHILDREN. R.J. ACKERMAN(1993 SILENT SONS: A BOOK FOR AND ABOUT MEN)HAS DESCRIBED MEN WOUNDED IN THEIR DEVELOPMENTAL PROCESSES AS "SILENT SONS". HE DESCRIBES THE SILENT SON AS HAVING A NUMBER OF IDENTIFIABLE TRAITS, INCLUDING A INABILITY TO MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIPS, AND INABILITY TO CONTROL ANGER, A TENDENCY TOWARD ADDICTIONS(LIQUIOR,WEED,SEX,WORK,DRUGS,ETC.), A FEAR OF INTAMACY, A TENDENDY TOWARDS VIOLENT BEHAVIOR, AND A LIKLIHOOD OF INADEQUATE SELF-ESTEEM. THE SILENT SON TENDS TO KEEP FEELINGS TO HIMSELF, HAS A STRONG FEAR OF CRITICISM, IS OBSESSIVELY DRIVEN TO OUTDO MUHFUKAZ, AND WANTS HIS LIFE TO BE BETTER BUT DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO CHANGE IT. HE ALSO MAY HAVE SOME VERY GOOD TRAITS SUCH AS BEING GOOD UNDER PRESSURE, ADVENTURESOME,OUTGOING,HARD-WORKING, INDEPENDENT, AND A GOOD PROBLEM SOLVER.HE MAY,IN FACT, BE FUNCTIONING VERY WELL BUT BE IN PAIN ALL THE WHILE. ACKERMAN HAS SPILT THIS "SILENT SON" INTO SEVEN DIFFERENT TYPES, EACH TYPE STARTS DEVELOPING DURING CHILDHOOD AND ADOLESCENCE. IF YOU'VE BEEN READING THIS LONG I'M SURPRISED AT THE LENGTH OF YOUR ATTENTION SPAN. bUT I'LL ONLY GIVE YOU TWO OF THE SEVEN JUST FOR BRAIN FOOD. triangular- THE TRIANGULAR HAS NEVER LEARNED TO DEAL WITH ISSUES DIRECTLY. HE BLAMES HIS PROBLEMS ON EXTERNAL CAUSES. HE HAS DIFFICULTY ACCEPTING RESPONSIBLITY FOR HIS OWN BEHAVIOR. HE'S ALSO MAD AT AND ABOUT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING.HE THINKS THAT HE DON'T NEED NOBODY; IN ALL REALITY HE HAS DIFFICULTY BEING CLOSE TO ANYONE. detacher- THE DETACHER IS INCLINED TOWARD ENDING OR ESCAPING AN UNCOMFORTABLE SITUATION AT THE FIRST SIGN OF TROUBLE, EVEN BEFORE HE FINDS OUT WHETHER OR NOT THE PROBLEM CAN BE WORKED OUT. HE HAS YET TO LEARN CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS. HE FEARS EXPOSING HIS PAIN AND HIS VULNERABILITY. Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds

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MySpace Generators .. Click Here for Free MySpace Layouts ..Those of u who don't already know me probably look at my page, read wat i have, and wonder, "okay, that's interesting,but what is this guy REALLY about?".Well for starters fuk the dumb shit , cause dumb shit serves no purpose in my life.My thoughts and opinions are often misunderstood.I have a SLIGHT dependency on alcohol(yup i'm always kickin it and drinkin!). I'm sumptin like a people magnet, I'm especially good w/ women. I prefer to deal w/ a REAL WOMAN. You're a real woman if U know the difference between a hoe and a lady.See some gurls(u don't have 2 B young to be called a gurl you can be 39 and still not be at the level that a real woman should be mentally.) r quick to call any and every other chick a ho. When in all reality you're no mother teresa yourself! A lady tends to carry herself in such a manner where a guy has no choice but to respect her. She's hygenic, tries her best to keep not just her hair and nails up, but her toes as well. She recognizes that at the end of the day, a man wants a LADY that he can be proud to call his own. She can go out clubin,dance,drink and flirt,and every guy thats around will be able to tell that she's a real LADY. She doesn't just let anybody in her life, because she knows what she is worth. That's the shit I'm talkin about! I'm a stand up dude and I'll fuk w/ REAL people all day. My motto is "Sink or Swim,Bar-B-Q or Mildew". U can either do what u must to survive and come up or all you'll ever have is excuses.

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A Men's Room Monologue

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Posted by on Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:08:00 GMT

Foolproof self help guide?

Don't clean up after yourself... Just leave you dirty dishes and pots and pans lying around the house. Someone will clean it all up, even if you live alone(don't be surprised). Leave your dirty clothe...
Posted by on Thu, 15 May 2008 15:24:00 GMT

More Foolproof

Streching the truth is the perfect exercise Don't tell the truth if u don't feel like it. The "truth" is just a way to hem you in, control you, and tie you up in knots when you have to "confess" to th...
Posted by on Thu, 15 May 2008 14:50:00 GMT

Cell’s foolproof guide pt. cinco

Let me hold something!   Return things you borrow? Why? That’s your sh*t now! Anyway, who cares? There will always be another dummy to give you whatever you need. What about returning money...
Posted by on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 10:41:00 GMT

MORE NEW SH*T FOOLPROOF pt.4

TREAT THE PEOPLE WHO ARE GOOD TO YOU LIKE SH*T Got some people in your life that have looked out for you? Who cares? I don’t! They’re your doormats so they exist only for you to trample on...
Posted by on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 16:57:00 GMT

FOOLPROOF GUIDE (part trois)

FIX ANYONE AND EVERYONE AT ANY TIME Take notes on this one. Form relationships with people who have lots of problems, and believe in your heart you can change them. This is probably the supreme piece ...
Posted by on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 16:12:00 GMT

FOOLPROOF SELF-HELP GUIDE(part duex)

Don't learn any self disciplineBe a slob. You aren't in your momma's house or boot camp! You're a cool ass, laid back, mellow girl(or guy). You deserve all the rest you can get. You need your sleep ma...
Posted by on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 08:34:00 GMT

CELL'S FOOLPROOF SELF-HELP GUIDE

DON'T LEARN ANY USEFUL SKILLSMake yourself useless. Don't bother to aquaint yourself with history, languages, or math. Don't practice decent study habits. When others sacrifice their fun times to go t...
Posted by on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 08:03:00 GMT