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Happiness is Loving Him

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My son, Dylan Scott, is my EVERYTHING.On July 3, 2007, I was blessed with a healthy beautiful baby boy at 6:05am. After six hours of labor, 4 pushes in ten minutes, and just a little relief through my IV, my world changed for good. Every thought, every action, every emotion is about Dylan, for Dylan, and for the benefit of Dylan.I msy be entering parenthood alone, but I believe God chooses wisely and if I wasn't supposed to be his mother, he wouldn't have come through me. It's all part of the plan.I love my family and most importantly my mother and my sister Noelle who have had my back since day one. Noelle, I know sometimes we bump heads and don't see eye to eye, but beside all that we're SISTERS and we know each other best. Which is why you're my bestest!Another special person who has touched my life in ways she'll never know is Chantal McCoy. I miss her dearly and think of her always.Tajira, you're such a special person in my life and I'm glad we've become friends. You too have touched my life and at times your kind words have saved me from myself. Thank You. I love you and I am so glad Dylan has you for a God-Mother.I am a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. and loving it! I love all of my Oh So Pretty Sorors! and especially the So Fly ladies of my chapter, Xi Pi Sophisticated Six Fall 2005, you all are so dear to my heart. I have a big smile and a big heart, but don't mistake my kindness for weakness! Trust and believe I'll let you have it. I respect those who respect themselves and respect me. I'm always willing to lend my shoulder for folks to lean/cry on and I'm never quick to judge. I love to promote peace, harmony, and love. Sometimes people unfortunately mistake my shyness for arrogance, but trust me, that is so not the case. Besides eating, one of the many things I enjoy in life is being in the company of good friends and family. I often say I'm not a people person, but that's just because I don't like the people who are my customers at the bank, lol. But I really do love people. Hmmm, what else? Oh yeah, I don't like drama and I've never been one to stir any up and with that being said, don't come at me with it, especially on myspace. And I think that's about it for now. Anything else you want to know just ask.I have someone special in my life and we're still learning about each other. I care about him a great deal and though I don't want things between us to not work out, but if it ever came to that, I'm just happy to have had the chance to get to know him after wondering about him for the last few years. JE + me= two big dorks, lol.I'm not on myspace to hook up so if I haven't met you in person, don't bother. I only accept friend requests from people I really know, and if I don't know you and you send me one, I'll only accept it with a message or if we have something in common. So yep, like I said anything else you want to know just ask.My First and Best Friend, My Crazy Big Sister Noellea href="http://photobucket.com" target="_blank"HIDEFRIENDSBEAU


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My Interests

Property Ownership! Marriage! Motherhood. (Marriage and Motherhood I see way down the line, but I'm definitely interested in experiencing those aspects of life) Staying positive and always keeping it real! Positive people only! ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY, INC.

I'd like to meet:

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Brought to you by YouThink.com quizzes and personality tests. .. -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- END YOUTHINK.COM QUIZ RESULTS --Hmmm, definitely Oprah. She's my inspiration and one of the most influential African American women in the world who is about something. I definitely admire that and hope to be in her shoes someday.I'd love to meet some of my foreign ancestors in the beautiful country of Belize. After college graduation I am planning on visiting.And though I'm in no rush to die, and I wont fear making my journey if my time comes, but I can't wait to meet God! There are also a few dearly missed people up there I'd love to see again.Chantal Marisse McCoy, you're always in my thoughts, "Memory is Sweet" October 10, 1984- June 26, 2003PLAYLIST

Music:

I love everything from Common, Kanye, T.I., Black Eyed Peas, Bobby Valentino, Robin Thicke, ATCQ (that's a tribe called quest if you didn't know) Camp Lo, Fugees, Mariah Carey, Amerie, Mya, Gwen Stefani, Fefe Dobson, Kelly Clarkson, Maroon 5, Yeah Yeah Yeahs...too many to name. If it's on the radio, I'll listen to it and end up loving it.

Movies:

I love scary movies! Though I can't really sit through the whole thing without covering my eyes the first time I see it. I like the thrill, but can't take the scenes sometimes.Latest movie I saw, White Noise. Pretty good, pretty sad, pretty trippy if you believe in all that stuff.My favorites? Any Black romantic comedy, best one so far "Love Jones". I don't discriminate on my movies, but I just happen to be intrigued more with Black actors and actresses, since there are so few.Any love story is good. I don't mind foreign films, but sometimes I get thrown off trying to read the subtitles instead of enjoying the movie.Julia Roberts and Natalie Portman are my favorite actresses, have you seen Closer? That was a good movie I must say.

Television:

The Real World -- All Seasons! (I've been a fan since the beginning) I can honestly see myself on the Real World someday. I've got enough issues to be on that show, and believe me, I'd be in the confessionals most of the time.America's Next Top Model --Go Eva! MADE MTV Cribs (though they need to show new episodes) Date My Mom (that show is the cutest!) Laguna Beach (I can't wait for season 2 to begin) Sex and the City (I'm a true Carrie at heart) Ooooh, just about anything on A&E (City Confidential, American Justice, Growing up Gotti, Cold Case Files-- just love it!) Project Runway (On Bravo if you don't know) Queer Eye for the Straight Guy (Bravo) Degrassi: The Next Generation (On the N!) My So-called life (old but always good) many more, too many to name...
You Are a Good Girl
You are 70% Good and 30% Bad
Generally speaking, you're a very good girl.
(But you don't have us totally fooled!) Are You a Good Girl or a Bad Girl?
Men See You As: An Attainable Challenge
You know how to make your man crave more of you
But you also know when to show some interest back
You're good at keeping your guy guessing
And over time, you'll let him know how you really feel Are You a Challenge?

Books:

I've been reading since I was 3, okay maybe 4!I love reading. Such an therapeutic thing to do. It's so mind releasing. I love African American Literature, and once again I don't discriminate, I just read what I can relate to.I enjoy some Major British writers, Aphra Behn tops the list (poetry)Finished reading "He's Just a Friend", by Mary B. Morrison (read 245 pages in 2days, so there!) I also read "Bling" by Erica Kennedy, a definite must read.I've ready plenty from Toni Morrison to Zane, everything, I love to read and write. I'm an English major and an aspiring novelist. What can I say?
Things about me that you dont care about
General
Name Christina or Tina, depends on how well I know you
Age 22
Birthday July 10th
Hometown Ummm
Where you live Hayward
Eye Color Brown
Hair Color Brown
Height 5'5"
Weight around 130 on a good day
Righty or Lefty Righty
Inny or Outty Inny
Ethnicity Black...African American...people get touchy about the label
Worst Fear I'm not telling
Weakness I'm not telling that either
Strengths Self-Respect
Goals To set a positive example as a woman so that my children will be inspired
Favorite's
Soda I like juice sorry
Food Chicken/Steak Fajitas
Car 2002 Honda Civic LX
Actor/actress Boris Kodjoe
Music Artist or Band Van Hunt
Animal Chihuahua
Color Torqouise
Song What it Do? By Mariah Carey and J. Dupri
Movie Love Jones
TV show The L Word/Sex and The City
Holiday Thanksgiving
Subject in school English
Resturant/Fast Food Elephant Bar or P.F. Changs
Pizza Topping Pepperoni
Book The one I'm writing
Thing in your room Lap Top
This or That?
Chocolate or Vanilla Chocolate
Rock or Pop Pop
Pizza or Hotdog Hot Dog (Caspers, the one with the C not the K)
Ketchup or Mustard Mustard
Apple or Orange Apple
Computer or TV Computer
Pencil or Pen Pen
Color or Black and White Color
Skating or Biking Biking
Beach or Mountains Beach
Naughty or Nice Nau'ice (a mixture of both)
Bright or Dark Bright
Night or Day Night
Late night or Early morning Either
Have you's?
Been in love Unfortunately can't say that I have (high school relationships don't count)
Smoke yes
Drank yes
Been on TV When I was 6
Been in the News paper no
Do you's?
smoke no
drink no
play an instrument no
think you're attractive mhmm
have a crush on someone used to
think someone has a crush on you I thought he did
have a best friend yep
draw on yourself who does that?
have a cell phone yes
find yourself bored a lot bored enough to take this survey
have a myspace who doesn't now days
have AIM si
have MSN nope
have a girlfriend/boyfriend nope
For a Guy/Girl
Hair brown...blond (yes, white boys are welcome)
Eyes color doesn't matter...I just hope he can see
Height taller than me
Weight I'm not picky about weight
Style mature but comfortable
Random stuff
Do you have piercings ears
Do you have tattoos no
How many CD's do you own a lot
Are you popular good question
Have you ever broken the law si
Have you ever been arrested no
Are you tired of this survey not yet
Did you like it it was cool
Are you done yes
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Heroes:

My sister Noelle. First in the family to graduate from college (University of Phoenix, Spring 2004) and inspire me to do as she did or even better. I try to lead and set positive examples for my younger sister and show her anything can be done, and I can do it, you can do it too.God The McCoy family. They've gone through so much over the past year and are an inspirational to all in a crisis. My mom, only sometimes when she acts like a mom. She's gone through a lot and has done so much for me, but at the same time it seems as if she resents my sister and I for having to go through so much and do so much for us. Hmmph, that's a tough one.

My Blog

Nocturnal

12:37amThe time change sucks. Longer days. Longer nights up. Waiting. That's all I do. I wait while Dylan sleeps soundly until he awakes and it's time to nurse. Tonight I opted not to watch the old id...
Posted by Happiness is Loving Him on Mon, 05 Nov 2007 12:55:00 PST

What Gets me Through- A collection of Quotes

    Sticks and stones are hard on bones Aimed with angry art, Words can sting like anything But silence breaks the heart. ~Suzanne Nichols
Posted by Happiness is Loving Him on Thu, 06 Sep 2007 02:33:00 PST

After Love...He came and Went 3:44 AM

It was a good run. He came into my life unexpectedly, and even with my circumstance presented himself as more than a friend when I hadn't been looking but I was accepting. Chemistry between us was off...
Posted by Happiness is Loving Him on Wed, 22 Aug 2007 04:08:00 PST

Little Miss Domestic

Little Miss Domestic     Since moving into a 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom condo with two great girls in Castro Valley, I have discovered my hidden passionâ¦domesticity. Yes, the girl who once cou...
Posted by Happiness is Loving Him on Sun, 13 Aug 2006 06:28:00 PST

Banking 101 Volume 1

Greetings all, it's time for Confessions of a Bank Teller, volume 1. Here it is the second week of the New Year and I feel it's high time to share my feelings. As some of you know, I've been working f...
Posted by Happiness is Loving Him on Sat, 14 Jan 2006 10:56:00 PST

One of the Nicest Messages I've received on Myspace

Names have been blocked out for confidentiality (lol):   Hello sweetheart this is Ronnie, you have a winsome page and a winsome style that represents a strong and beautiful black woman of great v...
Posted by Happiness is Loving Him on Mon, 31 Oct 2005 01:44:00 PST