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Serenity9698

Character is what you know you are, not what others think you have

About Me

When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us
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Association breeds similarity, you are who you associate with, look around at your 5 closes friends and that’s who you are … if you don’t want to be those people you know what you have to do. Poverty is a mind state time waits for NO man… but no man wants to die a poor man with no plan……
MyHotCommentsI love music and sports, I enjoy cooking (its my hobby) I love to travel, but a great time to me would be going out with family & good friends. I am mommy first and for most so when I get the chance to have fun I try to make sure its memorable.... I also love to work out, go to movies, play cards, dominos etc... I just Love to have fun!!!
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A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A set of screwdrivers, A cordless drill, and A black lace bra...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
One friend who Always makes her Laugh... And one Who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A good piece of furniture Not previously owned by Anyone else in her family...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
Eight matching plates, Wine glasses with stems, And a recipe for a meal that will Make her guests feel honored.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A feeling of control over Her destiny... EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love Without losing herself...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
HOW TO QUIT A JOB
BREAK UP WITH A LOVER
AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
When to try harder... And WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change
The length of her calves, The width of her hips, or The nature of her parents...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That her childhood
May not have been Perfect...But; It's over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and Wouldn't Do for love or money...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to live alone... Even if She doesn't like it...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust, Whom she can't, And why she shouldn't Take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go.. Be it to her best friend's kitchen table.. Or a charming inn in the woods... When her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish In a day... A month... And a year..

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Music:

I have been in love with hip hop since I was a small child.. So by far I would call myself a Hip Hop contisure. I also love gospal, R&B, Rap, Jazz, Pop, etc... Im in love with music!!

Movies:


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Television:

Desprete House Wives, The Wire, First 48 , Headline news
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Shanita
Birthday: 11/08/79
Birthplace: The Chi
Current Location: Dyt
Eye Color: brown
Hair Color: brown
Height: 5'9''
Right Handed or Left Handed: right
Your Heritage: BLACK!
The Shoes You Wore Today: Stiletos
Your Weakness: music!
Your Fears: Dying young & not being there 4 my chldren, family & friends
Your Perfect Pizza: pep & cheese
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: To go to more games with my children and visit my family out of town more
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol...lol...
Thoughts First Waking Up: I'm late
Your Best Physical Feature: My smile
Your Bedtime: who knows
Your Most Missed Memory: spending the weekends with my brothers watching movies crackin jokes and cooking
Pepsi or Coke: I don't drink soda
MacDonalds or Burger King: MacDonalds
Single or Group Dates: Both
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Nestea
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate....
Cappuccino or Coffee: Cappuccino
Do you Smoke: No
Do you Swear: sometime
Do you Sing: In the car, in the shower, at church, to my children
Do you Shower Daily: twice
Have you Been in Love: yes sir.....and in LUV is what I thought it was lol
Do you want to go to College: went will again......I"ll never want to stop learning
Do you want to get Married: Someday
Do you belive in yourself: ALWAYS!!!!!
Do you get Motion Sickness: Never I am a "True Trooper"
Do you think you are Attractive: Now what do you think.....look at the Pic again... now ask yourself that question...lol..
Are you a Health Freak: 5 out of 7 days a week
Do you get along with your Parents: I talk to my mother everyday
Do you like Thunderstorms: yes.....
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: a lady never tells...... ;)
In the past month have you Smoked: no
In the past month have you been on Drugs: no......
In the past month have you gone on a Date: yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yes sirrrrr
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: no
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes
In the past month have you been on Stage: no
In the past month have you been Dumped: No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: no
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: no
Ever been Drunk: a lady never tells..... ;)
Ever been called a Tease: ???????????
Ever been Beaten up: No
Ever Shoplifted: no
How do you want to Die: I don't.... but since I might..in my sleep
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: I'm a Grown Woman
What country would you most like to Visit: Egypt
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: any
Favourite Hair Color: dark brown
Short or Long Hair: short
Height: lets say this I am 5'9'' with my heels on I am at least 6'0"....take note I wear them everyday....
Weight: cares about his body.....need I say more
Best Clothing Style: Grown ass man.....no sagging.....or everyday gym shoe types
Number of Drugs I have taken: 1 and has to have grown like a weed in the grass...... and not the humidity of Columbia, this drug may not come in shades of eggshell white down to black tar.....lol ...only shades of green
Number of CDs I own: never thought about counting but over 1,000
Number of Piercings: 2
Number of Tattoos: 1
Number of things in my Past I Regret: 0
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Books:

The complete collected poems of Maya Angelo
Yesterday I cried By Iyanna Vanzant
The Mis Education of The Negro
The 10 Comandments of Common Sense
Stolen Legacy
The Bible

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Comment Graphics and Myspace Layouts at pYzam.com

Heroes:

#1 My mother Rosa Mae Clay...I can not describe her strength and spirit alone.... Charictor is what makes you... Phenomonal and My Family
You Would Choose Love
Money may buy a little happiness, but not the happiness of true love.
You rather have a true soulmate than a private jet.
And while many people may claim they would choose love too...
You're one of the few who would really do it. Would You Choose Love or Money?.. .. .. .. ..
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are you taken or single? Single
do you like someone? Maybe
have you been in love? Yes and will love again
if so how many times? twice
what is your bf/gf's name? N/A
are you happy where are right now? Yes
what you look for in a gf/bf?
what color of eyes? what ever God gave you
what color of hair? doesn't matter but can't be longer than mine....lol
how old? 25 and up
how tall? 5'10'' and above
hearts
have you ever had your heart broken? yes
do you break hearts? try not to but it happens
does someone have your heart right now? No comment
is your heart very fragile? yes
other random ?'s
what is your name? .........
nicknames..: ........
best friend? .........
how old are you? 27
DOB: 11/08
left handed or right? right
pet peeve? people who do not use common sense
favorite color(s): purple, blue amd pink
do love your life? of course!
have you ever done something illegal? ladies don't tell tose things
what is your middle name? .......
last person
that called you? My mother
talked to? my brother
you cryed to? my friend
you laughed with? my children
you laughed at? my son
you hugged? my children
you kissed? a lady never tells
who are you thinking about right now? he knows
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A good woman is proud of herself.She respects herself and others.She is aware of who she is.She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, or does she expect them to read her mind.She is quite capable of articulating her needs.A good woman is hopeful.She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true.She knows love, therefore she gives love.She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated.If her love is taken for granted,it soon disappears.A good woman has a dash of inspiration, a dabble ofendurance.She knows that she will, at times, have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them.A good woman knows her past, understands herpresent and moves toward the future.A good woman knows God.She knows that with God the world is her playground, but without God she will just be played.A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past.Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons, meant to bring her closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love.
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My Blog

LETS JUST KISS AND SAY GOOD-BYE

My Grandfather (a very mise man) sent this to me... I've never recieved anything from him before so I thought it was best to share what he felt was important enough to forward to not just myself... bu...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Wed, 24 Sep 2008 03:51:00 PST

Wisdom

The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise"...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Sat, 30 Aug 2008 10:53:00 PST

A Womans life lesson

This is something I would ask all of you to share with your sisters, sister-friends, cousins, nieces, daughters, granddaughters, etc.  I just did!  Very valuable wisdom&    I love...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Thu, 14 Aug 2008 08:09:00 PST

Attitude

"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, ...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Sun, 03 Aug 2008 02:19:00 PST

Living with integrity means:

Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.Asking for what you want and need from others.Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension.Behaving i...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Tue, 15 Jul 2008 06:49:00 PST

A Decalogue of Canons for observation in practical life

1. Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today.2. Never trouble another for what you can do yourself.3. Never spend your money before you have it.4. Never buy what you do not want, because it i...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Fri, 11 Jul 2008 07:31:00 PST

Success

To laugh often and much;To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;To appreciate beauty,...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Fri, 11 Jul 2008 07:32:00 PST

Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are.

If you run with wolves, you will learn to howl. But, if you associate with eagles you will learn to soar to GREAT HEIGHTS. "A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the k...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Tue, 08 Jul 2008 03:38:00 PST

The cold Within

Six human beings trapped by happenstancein black and bitter cold Each one possedssed a stick of wood, Or so the story is told. Their dying fire in need of logs, The first woman held hers back For the ...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Fri, 27 Jun 2008 06:19:00 PST

How to Bring Love Into a Relationship

Don't rush into saying "I Love You!" Take the time to realize what it is that you're saying, that it means something. Unless you can feel like this is a promise, that you will feel like this for...
Posted by Serenity9698 on Sat, 31 May 2008 10:43:00 PST