"THANK YOU AND YOU'RE WELCOME MOMENTS " WILL HAPPEN WHEN BOTH PARTIES GIVE AND BOTH PARTIES GAIN.KNOW UR WORTH! PEOPLE ALWAYS ACT LIKE THEY'RE DOING MORE FOR YOU THEN YOU'RE DOING FOR THEM. ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION, "WHY WOULD THEY DO THAT? OBVIOUSLY, YOU BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE FOR THEM TO EVEN DO BUSINESS WITH YOU.GET USED TO GETTING USED!!! TO MOST PEOPLE , THE SAYING "TO USE SOMEONE" CARRIES A NEGATIVE CONNOTATION , BUT I DON'T SEE IT THAT WAY. TO "MISUSE" , "OVERUSE" OR "ABUSE" SOMEONE IS NEGATIVE . TO USE IS NECESSARY AND IF YOU CAN'T BE USED ...THEN YOU'RE USELESS.THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO WILL TRY TO PUT THEMSELVES INTO A POSITION JUST SO YOU'LL OWE THEM SOMETHING. THEIR ENTIRE MOTTO IS :"I DID THIS FOR YOU , NOW YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING FOR ME." DON'T LET PEOPLE THINK YOU OWE THEM ANYTHING. THAT PUTS YOU IN A POSITION OF WEAKNESS. IF THEY CHOOSE TO GIVE, IT'S THEIR CHOICE.
I WONDER... WOULD U RATHER HAVE 100% FROM AN AVERAGE PERSON OR 10% FROM SOMEONE WHO IS OUTSTANDING???THE BEST SEES THE BEST! I PRIDE MYSELF IN BEING ABLE TO RECOGNIZE THE BEST IN OTHERS. I SEE IT AS A TESTAMENT OF MY TASTE LEVEL. I CAN'T STRESS ENOUGH THE IMPORTANCE OF SURROUNDING YOURSELF WITH ENERGY THAT SUPPORTS YOUR GOALS. OLD FOLKS USED TO SAY , "YOU CAN'T SOAR WITH EAGLES IF YOU'RE WALKING AROUND WITH CHICKENS." UNFORTUNATELY, I HAVE ENCOUNTERED COUNTLESS CHICKENS . THERE HAVE BEEN TIMES WHEN I'VE HAD TO SEPARATE MYSELF FROM CERTAIN FAMILY MEMBERS, CHILDHOOD FRIENDS, AND PEOPLE IN GENERAL WHO BROUGHT NEGATIVE ENERGY INTO MY LIFE. IT IS NOT ALWAYS EASY , BUT VERY NECESSARY. IF YOU KNOW YOUR THE BEST, IT ONLY MAKES SENSE FOR YOU TO SURROUND YOURSELF WITH THE BEST . NO EXCEPTIONS!!!LIFE IS 5% WHAT HAPPENS AND 95% HOW YOU REACT!!THINK IT!
SAY IT !
DO IT!
I LOVE SAYING WHAT I THINK BECAUSE IT KEEPS ME ACCOUNTABLE...ONCE I SAY IT, I WANT TO DO IT AND I LOVE PROVING TO EVERYONE THAT I CAN! IT'S LIKE USING PUBLIC OPINION AS A MOTIVATIONAL TOOL INSTEAD OF IT'S COMMON ROLE OF DEGRADATION. PEOPLE WHO SAY WHAT THEY THINK AND THEN DO WHAT THEY SAY NORMALLY GET WHAT THEY WANT OUT OF LIFE.IF EVERYBODY THINKS IT'S RIGHT ... YOU'RE DOING SOMETHING WRONG!
WOULD YOU BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN IF YOU WERE THE ONLY ONE WHO BELIEVED IN IT? WHEN SOMEONE IS STRONG ENOUGH TO BELIEVE IN SOMETHING ONLY THEY BELIEVE IN , PEOPLE ARE GOING TO CALL THEM CRAZY... SOMETIMES CRAZY IS A LABEL THAT THE AVERAGE PERSON PUTS ON THE EXCEPTIONAL.YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY RIGHT? I REFUSE TO ACCEPT OTHER PEOPLE'S IDEAS OF HAPPINESS FOR ME. AS IF THERE'S A "ONE SIZE FITS ALL" STANDARD FOR HAPPINESS . REGARDLESS OF YOUR POSITION IN LIFE, NO ONE BUT YOU IS QUALIFIED TO DETERMINE YOUR HAPPINESS. I THINK IT'S GREAT TO NEVER BE COMPLETELY HAPPY OR SATISFIED IN LIFE . IF I EVER BECAME COMPLETELY SATISFIED WITH THE WORK I PUT OUT AS ARTIST IN HAIR AND MAKE-UP ... THAT IS THE MOMENT I WOULD SUCK! IT IS THE SAND WHICH IRRITATES THE OYSTER THAT MAKES THE PEARL.ALTHOUGH I HAVEN'T TOTALLY EMBRACED THIS YET, PEOPLE OFTEN SAY THAT ONE OF MY FLWAS IS ARROGANCE. IF ARROGANCE MEANS BEING CONCEITED, BRASH, COCKY, OR PUSHY, I CAN BE ALL OF THAT SOMETIMES. ARROGANCE HAS ALSO BEEN DEFINED AS AN OVERWHELMING FEELING OF SELF-IMPORTANCE . I DO FEEL IMPORTANT , BUT EVERYBODY SHOULD FEEL THIS WAY ABOUT THEMSELVES. ARROGANCE IS SOMETIMES EXPRESSED BY TREATING OTHERS WITH CONTEMPT OR DISREGARD . I TRY MY BEST NOT TO DO THIS. YOU CAN BE COCKY WITHOUT BEING ARROGANT. WHEN YOU CROSS THE LINE FROM BEING PLAYFUL WITH YOUR OWN EXPRESSION OF SELF-CONFIDENCE AND MISTREAT OTHERS, THEN YOU HAVE BECOME ARROGANT!I FEEL MY CONFIDENCE+SOMEONE'S LOW SELF-ESTEEM=MY ARROGANCE.
YOUR FLAWS!!! RECOGNIZE AND EMBRACE YOUR FLAWS SO YOU CAN LEARN FROM THEM.
WARNING!! ARROGANT PEOPLE ARE MOST OFTEN TOO ARROGANT TO REALIZE THIER ARROGANCE .YOU CAN LEARN MORE FROM A CRITIQUE THEN FROM A COMPLIMENT!!NEVER COMPLAIN WITHOUT OFFERING A SOLUTION !! YOU RARELY SEE POSITIVE RESULTS FROM PEOPLE WHO DO NOTHING BUT COMPLAIN . THE MAJORITY OF THE TIME, COMPLAINERS SEEK ONLY TO BE HEARD WITH NO SOLUTION IN MIND. ONCE HEARD, THEY'RE OFF TO FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT.
WHEN YOU'RE EXTREMELY FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU WANT, THERE ARE TIMES WHEN IT'S NECESSARY TO EXPLAIN THE THINGS YOU DON'T WANT, AND THEN TELL PEOPLE WHAT YOU DO WANT.EXPECTED BLESSINGS RARELY COME. THERE WILL BE TIMES WHEN YOU SHOULDN'T EXPECT TO RECEIVE YOUR BLESSING FROM THE SAME PERSON YOU BLESSED. WE ALL KNOW THERE HAVE BEEN TIMES WHEN WE HAVE ALLOWED OUR EMOTIONS TO GUIDE OUR DECISIONS . IT ALSO DOSN'T HELP WHEN PEOPLE ARE GIVING YOU BAD ADVICE ON HOW TO HADLE THE SITUATION YOU MIGHT BE IN. INSTEAD OF ALLOWING YOUR ANGER TO PUSH YOU TO DO SOMETHING NEGATIVE , I FOCUSE ON THE POSITIVE . YOU WORK HARDER AND WORK THROUGH THE PAIN.
GOOD ENERGY BRINGS GOOD ENERGY !I WOULD RATHER LOSE BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE WAS RIGHT THAN WIN WHEN I'M WRONG.I WONDER ... WHEN A PERSON SAYS, "WHAT, YOU DON'T TRUST ME?" DO YOU FIND YOURSELF THINKING, I DID BEFORE YOU ASKED ME THAT?NEVER JUSTIFY YOUR BEHAVIOR WITH THE WRONGS OF OTHERS . WHEN DOES IT MAKE SENSE THAT BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE MAD A BAD DECISION, NOW YOU SHOULD? YOU MUST FIGHT THE IMPULSE OF BELIEVING : IT'S NOT FAIR THAT YOU CAN DO IT AND I CAN'T. IT IS MAN'S OWN MIND NOT HIS ENEMY OR FOE,THAT LURES HIM TO EVIL WAYS.WHEN YOU'RE SO FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE ...YOU WON'T HAVE!I QUESTION ANYONE WHO QUESTIONS ME... BUT I QUESTION MYSELF ALL THE TIME!I WOULD RATHER BE HATED FOR WHO I AM THEN LOVED FOR WHO IM NOT.
LOVE YOUR HATERS THEY'RE BIGGEST FANS!!! I LOVE YOU!ISN'T IT INTERESTING HOW ONE THING CHANGES EVERYTHING?THANK YOU AND YOU'RE WELCOME
"As you grow up, you learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to let you down probably will. You'll have your heart broken, probably more than once, and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend and you might even fall in love with him/her. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing so fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too hard, and love like you've never been hurt because every minute you spend mad or upset is a minute of happiness that you'll never get." Life will forever be a challenge, some things are meant that way. Learn to deal with each challenge, using time and thought, so in the end it will be a lesson well learned."
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