A stand up kind of man.....one who only has eyes for me.....who can pull his own weight, has a job, pays his bills, and doesn't live with family... i mean parents or brothers and sister....not meaning your kids....thats acceptable..and one that can handle my strong personality...and like intimacy like i do....i love facial hair, salt and pepper color hair, tattoos. has pride of family and country...former military...a man that can be the protector and gentle enough to be the lover....i'm at "one wild wave" all squished together where the cowboys cry out PLEASE..post a recient photo of yourself...one that is NOT more than 6 months old....the worst thing is when you go to meet someone in person and they don't look anything like the posted pic....we can only go by what you post...and if you want someone to hook up with you, then you need to be honest and post a recient pic. My 20 pics are anywhere from 2 years to 2 days old. if you can't do that, then don't bother to meet me in person.