My vanilla interests include scuba diving, soccer, travel, reading, writing, music, film, photography, the arts, and current affairs.
My perverted passions include interracial cuckoldry, FemDom, strap-ons, butt-plugs, teasing, verbal humiliation, cream-pies, bukkake, gangbangs, spankings, riding crops, domination, submission, bondage, roleplaying, hot wifery, leather, lace, exhibitionism, voyeurism, forced feminization, sissification, group sex, swinging, polyamory, erotica, and porn. In fact, I’m pretty much open to exploring anything except for pee, poop, and serious pain (CBT, cutting, Celine Dion, etc.).
I'd like to meet:
I prefer women who are attractive and healthy - both physically and mentally - as well as intelligent, imaginative, and aggressive. I'm interested in someone with a sense of humor, a sense of adventure, and a deliciously wicked sense of the erotic.
I tend to lean towards the pretty and petite as opposed to the curvaceous and voluptuous. But what I am really looking for is a woman who seeks to live life to the fullest - both in the bedroom and out.
Of course if you share some of my many interests - particularly that of exploring a Dom/sub and/or cuckold relationship - things could get very interesting. And in case you are not familiar with the concept of cuckoldry, allow me to offer the following definitions:
Cuckold - a man who accepts and encourages his lover's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions and serving her in any way he can.
Cuckoldress - a woman who enjoys having sex with other men (typically hung black studs) in addition to her own lover, and relishes her domination and promiscuousness as well as his submission and humiliation.
This may seem odd to some, much like the music of Abba, but we all have our little quirks. And seeing someone I love completely surrendering to an onslaught of wanton sexual pleasures just happens to turn me on.
I would like to think that some women might find this exciting as well - a chance to have their and, if you pardon the pun, eat it too. It's basically the idea of an ethical slut - all the advantages of a relationship with none of the limitations.
Who I don't want to meet are people who play for profit. I only play for pleasure. That means professionals can keep looking elsewhere. As Johnny said, "If the love don't fit, then you must acquit."
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And, for the record, I am an EOP (Equal Opportunity Pervert).
Music:
Rock, reggae, jazz, samba, and the blues. My music varies with my mood. For example, Miles Davis' Kind of Blue for love and the Sneaker Pimps' Spin Spin Sugar for lust. My mind is open, just like my ears.
But to give you the obligatory rundown of my favorites: Allman Brothers, Bachman Turner Overdrive, Beastie Boys, Beatles, Big Audio Dynamite, Johnny Cash, Chemical Brothers, Clash, Coldplay, John Coltrane, Crosby Stills Nash and somtetimes Young, Miles Davis, Doors, Elvis, Fat Boy Slim, Gorillaz, Grateful Dead, Macy Gray, Jimi Hendrix, Billie Holiday, David Holmes, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Quincy Jones, Led Zeppelin, Ramsey Lewis, Little Feat, Bob Marley, Glenn Miller, Steve Miller, Mint Royale, Money Mark, Thelonious Monk, Os Mutantes, Beth Orton, Pink Floyd, Polyphonic Spree, Portishead, Primal Scream, Radiohead, Bonnie Raitt, Lou Reed, Rolling Stones, Simon and Garfunkel, Nina Simone, Jimmy Smith, Specials, Sublime, Matthew Sweet, Talking Heads, Toots and the Maytals, Peter Tosh, Traffic, U2, Velvet Underground, and The Who.
Movies:
The fire between Bogart and Bacall in To Have and Have Not. The similar connection in Lost in Translation. The surprisingly wicked Belle du Jour. Eva Green in The Dreamers. The original, Italian version of Swept Away. And, of course, the standards like 9.5 Weeks, Henry and June, Bound, Wild Things, Secretary, Patton, etc.
Television:
"Who needs TV when I've got T-Rex?" - David Bowie.
OK, so there's The Simpsons, Family Guy, American Dad, SeaLab 2021, Harvey Birdman, Duckman, Anthony Bourdain, Henry Rollins, Frontline, NOVA, and all the good stuff on The History Channel, The Discovery Channel, The Discovery Times Channel, The Science Channel, The Military Channel, The National Geographic Channel, and PBS.
Books:
On the vanilla side, I read a lot of non-fiction about foreign policy and such, plus anything by Kerouac, Thompson, and Twain.
As for my darker and argueably richer reading, the top shelf selections include Anais Nin's Delta of Venus, Pauline Reage's Story of O, and A. N. Roquelaure/Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty trilogy.
My mother always said, "if you are going to be a pervert, you might as well be a well-read pervert."
Heroes:
These days the term "hero" has become a propaganda tool. I don't consider someone a hero simply because of their profession - such as a soldier or fireman. Those who choose dangerous jobs for profit have weighed the risks with the rewards ahead of time. They seek out these situations and get paid to do so. I don't consider that heroic.
However, there are those in these professions who do distinguish themselves, going above and beyond the call of duty. And they are indeed heros.
For me, though, the truest heros are those who do not seek such risks and recognition. And true heroism isn't just in the task, but the way in which it is accomplished.
That is why my true hero is Mahatma Gandhi. He set out to help the poor - a noble effort that afforded him little recognition and absolutely no profit. And he ended up changing the world, in a peaceful and positive way.
"Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever." - Mahatma Gandhi
