About Me
Some Random Advice:
Stop worrying. Worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday. Go for a run if you are worried.... some of your best thinking will come out at this time. The people and things that cross ur mind during this time when you go to bed...there's reason for that, you just need to figure out what it is. When you lay your head down to rest at night those thoughts those people are what mean something. Not the ones you run into during ur day, are working with, or maybe even are sitting or lying next to you. The one's that are there with or without effort or time spent mean the most. Do one thing every day that scares you. Dont let anyone ever pressure you into something. When the only person laughing is you....stop.Take a risk. Sing. Attend at least one rascal flatts concert. Cry. It's not such a bad thing. Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours. If you love, love completely. If you dont, I hope you find it. Floss. Don't waste your time on jealousy. You are the only one that is going to help you succeed. Take time to do nothing. Spend a full 24 hours cuddling lying around in your PJs. Know that the person who hurt you the most really did love you, there is a reason you fell, and there is a reason you aren't totally over them. Dont give pointless advice such as "you can do better" "They messed up" "There's other fish in the sea" Do you tell someone who just lost their grandma hey there are other grandma's that are out there...? Didn't think so. Say please. Say thank you. Mean it. Don't be afraid to be goofy. Dont surround yourself with people who cant do the same. Set an example for people younger than you. If you dont agree with something, voice that opinion. Dont try to raise a child if you haven't yet raised yourself. If you're good with advice give it. If your intelligent share your knowledge. Don't doubt yourself. Dont boast. Know that even the worst of people and the most stubborn, have a heart. Forgive. Be aware that sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself. Its not the end of the world when you break a nail, miss an appointment, dont get to attend a party, or heaven forbid get embarrassed. You'll live, you'll forget. You might be reminded...but it wont stay in your head forever. Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how. Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements. Stretch. Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. Dont feel bad if you change your mind. But when you do find that thing that makes you happy, stick with it. Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's. Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own. Laugh...I cant stress this enough..laugh as often as possible, its contagious. Dont mope..no one likes a moper,and no one wants to be around it. IF you're moping there is something you can do about it....go for a walk, do your fav hobby, call the person, fix the argument....just dont mope...never settle for less. never settle at all. Dont let someone tell you you're not good enough, fast enough, smart enough, etc.... but take in to account why they might think that. Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room. Read the directions, even if you don't follow them. Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly. Know that you are beautiful. Know that you have potential. And know that there is always someone that is willing to give you the world. Stay up to date on the world's current events..read a book, take a bubble bath....take a vacation..tell those you love that you love them, and tell those that you miss you miss them. Dont hate people's faults and be stuck on them, enjoy and celebrate what is wonderful about them. We all have faults. As for love... It's up to you to find that person, and when you do to appreciate them and feel the same with them. Get to know your parents. When something seems to be too good to be true, it doesn't always mean it is....that's just something that people say who aren't used to things going their way. As mad as they get, and great or bad as they are, they love you. You never know when they'll be your gone for good. Dont lie. Dont Cheat. Dont Steal. Karmas a Bitch and it will come back to you. Be nice to your siblings if you have them. If not your cousins are just as good. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future. Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Evaluate yourself from time to time. What could you do better? What could you change, and why do things go the way they do for you? Not only evaluate, but do something about it. Do things you wouldn't normally do... Do the things you would be embarrassed to do by yourself with a loved one, most of the time those will be your best memories. Remember the people who come in and out of your life expectedly and unexpectedly. Appreciate each and every day that you have continued on after them. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.Travel. Help people in all aspects you can. Dont be selfish, be selfless. Think about the worlds problems sometimes, and not your own, and you might not feel so down. Hey, at least you have a warm place to sleep, food to eat, and clothes to wear...Nothing in your right mind that you can complain to me or anyone about other than those things comes close to those in other countries or even here in the states who are living in poor conditions or dealing with a government that is fucked up. Accept that we will go to war, we are in war, and that isn't going anywhere anytime soon. If you dont support it, support the people in it at least. I have all the respect in the world for my family and firends over there or who have been. And those who may go. And quite frankly sick of people who put it down. If we never did anything in other countries, we wouldnt be living the way we are today. When you're wrong admit it. When you're right dont put the other person down. Smile.Pray. Have faith in something, even if it isn't what everyone else wants you to. Find what makes you happy. Do that. Take others in to consideration when you make decisions. Be there for those you know who will be there for you. Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. Understand there isnt a relationship in this world that doesnt have problems, and the strongest ones are the ones who are matre enough and capable to work through. No one has a fairytale life. Even the person you imagine to have the most wonderful life....has his or her down day. Again, you're going to get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders. Respect your elders. Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out. Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85. Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth. Follow your heart, and if its telling you something so strongly to do something do it. Your mind if you let it can always deter your heart....but its up to you to let it work. If you do its a wonderful thing. Be ambitious, take chances, and be the best person that you can be for yourself and those around you.
Take or leave it, but thats all for now:)
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