Going too the movies and shopping at the mall dinning at nice restaurants, going too sporting events and taking walks in the park.
Everyone looking for the â€BESTâ€, the tallest, richest, beauitful. I am looking for the â€RIGHT†person. The â€right†person is the person who will bring the best out of you. Tonight I am wondering if there is anyone in the universe who is in a situation similar to mine. I`ve noticed that when I look around, people seem to be busily making their way through life doing this and that to stay occupied But are they really happy I wonder? Perhaps they are settled in their ways already. I`m not. I feel unsettled and unsatisfied. The feeling is not about achievements professionally because I`ve been quite successful. There is no spiritual hole to fill; I have God in my life. I have family and the support that goes with it. I actually have a pretty full life. Still, I miss having a female companion. Ok, I`m lonely. Well, a major obstacle for finding a partner is that I`m not interested in dating. In other words, I can`t imagine cycling through women after women. It seems pretty brutal on the face of it. And the toll it must take on a person`s mind, body and spirit. The motto is: AVOID the PAIN. I am not into the dating game. I am not a serial dater but I realized that what we all probably know in our heart, but fail to acknowledge is that there is no perfect person awaiting our arrival. Most people love checklist consist of physically attributes that doesn`t go to the core of a person`s character. The beautiful blond may have a terrible problem with anger. Most people choose who they will love long before they actually meet that person. A person can look like a movie star, but is she reliable and caring. The key question I ask myself is in the presence of this special person is do I like myself more? The smartest women knows that she always wants to be remembered for who she is, not how she looks. An evening with me involves hot chocolate and great conversation. A relationship of kindess that elevates the lives of people involved.
Alicia Keys - A Woman's WorthMusic: Gospel...Hip-Hop R&B, Jazz Slow JamsArtists: Kirk Franklin, 2Pac, R. Kelly, Jodeci, Dru Hill, 112, Usher, Sisqo, Musiq, Tyrese, Jennifer Lopez, Alicia Keys, Nelly Furtado, Mariah Carey, The Isley Brothers, Luther Vandross
All the urban classics New Jack City, Boyz N Da Hood, Menace IISociety, Friday,Juice,All of Jim Carrey`s Movies, All of Martin`s Movies, Frequency, Titanic, Alex Haley`s Roots Series...and many more. Actors & Actresses: Jim Carrey, Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Angela Basset, Stacey Dash,Wesley Snipes, Julia Roberts, Halle Berry, Chris Tucker, Vivica A. Fox, Eddie Murphy, Martin Lawrence, Jada Pinkett-Smith, Cuba Gooding, Jr., Samuel L.Jackson, John Witherspoon, Charles S. Dutton, Laurence Fishburne, Vanessa Williams, etc etc.
TV Shows: Martin, Charmed InThe House, Moesha, Who Wants To Be A Millionaire?, Fear Factor, Blind Date, WWF Raw & SmackDown
Book: The BibleLast Book Read Completely: LL Cool J`s Autobiography "I Make My Own Rules"Scripture: Romans 5:7-8 "For hardly for righteous man will one die:yet perhaps for a good man some would even dare to die. But God commends his love toward us, in that, while wewere yet sinners, Christ died forus."Preachers: T.D. Jakes