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IBDoinIt2

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About Me

My name is Herbie. My friends often tell me that I'm too shy, but I'm going to be bold and do this. I'm 44, 5'11, 270, black hair, brown eyes, reddish brown complexion, I like shooting pool, playing basketball, volleyball, softball, I like jazz, and art. I'm retired from the Air Force and currently work for them as a computer/communication systems analyst. I was born and raised in New York City but I currently live in Campbell, California. I am interested in finding a someone to become strong friends with. I've been described as quiet and I guess I am. At times I can be shy but I'm not wimpy or boring. I am very passionate about life really and I believe that life is an adventure and I want to experience as much as I can, but I think a lot and tend to analyze, study, and wonder about the things around me (hence my quietness). I do not like to fight or argue. I believe people should try as much as possible to talk things out and understand each other before jumping to conclusions and lashing out. I know that it's not always possible, but at least try.
Your Love Style is Agape
You are a caring, kind, and selfless partner.Unsurprisingly, your love style is the most rare.You are willing to sacrfice your world for your sweetie.Except it doesn't really feel like sacrifice to you.For you, nothing feels better than giving to the one you love. What's Your Love Style?
Your Seduction Style: Ideal Lover
You seduce people by tapping into their dreams and desires. And because of this sensitivity, you can be the ideal lover for anyone you seek. You are a shapeshifter - bringing romance, adventure, spirituality to relationships. It all depends on who your with, and what their vision of a perfect relationship is. What Is Your Seduction Style?..

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My Interests


Your love is... by ChibiMarronchan
Your name is...
Your kiss is... erotic
Your hugs are... gentle
Your eyes... twinkle in the moonlight
Your touch is... irresistable
Your smell is... refreshing
Your smile is... encouraging
Your love is... one of a kind

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My ideal relationship: Two people with respect for each other and each others hopes, dreams, interest, and views, even if they are not alike. It would also be nice being able to debate with them without being degrading. Having separate spaces but one heart, maybe helping each other see things in a new and different way. Accepting each other for what they are and sharing passion, lust, romance, playfulness, understanding, sympathy, and love. Being able to say I'm sorry and sometimes not having to. I want someone that's there for you during the good and bad times, someone who is caring, someone who loves you with all their heart and soul, someone who is honest, someone you can trust them like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are, someone who is open and responsive, someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs, someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship, someone who understands listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important, someone who's there for you no matter what, someone with a great sense of humor, someone who has things in common with you, someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else, someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who they really are, someone who will always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are, someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but admire greatly in them, someone who can make you happy when your sad, someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it, someone who will not hurt you intentionally, someone that you can laugh with, someone who allows you to be yourself around them, someone who will respect you, someone who knows you're not perfect, but treats you as though you are.
How to make a Herbie
Ingredients:
5 parts intelligence
1 part silliness
1 part strength
Method:
Blend at a low speed for 30 seconds. Add a little tenderness if desired!

My Blog

True Love

True love resides in your heart and it flows out of you.  4 Love suffereth long, and is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seek...
Posted by IBDoinIt2 on Fri, 18 Aug 2006 01:46:00 PST

8 Ways To Avoid An Argument

Let's face it, no one is perfect. No matter how hard you try, or how loving and respectful of a couple you are, you are bound to get into a disagreement once in a while. With a few tips though, it doe...
Posted by IBDoinIt2 on Fri, 16 Sep 2005 11:44:00 PST

80 THINGS A WOMAN SHOULD KNOW AND BELIEVE

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. 2. Stop making excuses for a man's behavior. 3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's ch...
Posted by IBDoinIt2 on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST