I came to realize how life plays its role. U can't help but act out what you believe. Why deceive yourself & have other fall into your void? As you come to find that your significant other has lost or never had gained something vital to a relationship's continuous, u shouldn't look for something that natural occurs. U can't ponder about IT's existence and wonder if u have IT or not. It takes for u to lose IT to truly realize IT. The terms which u lose it is up to u. Will it be a dramatic uproar & emotion that drive your bond deep into a drift, a final bout between two, lies, deceit, frustration or will it be the respect or love for each other? I'm sorry but some things must come about. A change in time, moments of growth come with self reflection. We see ourselves, our mistakes and what challenges us. Someday things will be as you wish them to be, but today is not that day
"We all have days from time to time when it feels like the world is against us or that the chaos we are experiencing will never end. One negative circumstance seems to lead to another. You may wonder, on a bad day, whether anything in your life will ever go right again. But a bad day, like any other day, can be a gift. Having a bad day can show you that it is time to slow down, change course, or lighten up. A bad day can help you glean wisdom you might otherwise have overlooked or discounted. Bad days can certainly cause you to experience uncomfortable feelings you would prefer to avoid, yet a bad day may also give you a potent means to learn about yourself. You may consider a bad day to be one where you've missing an important meeting because your car stalled, the dryer broke, and you received a piece of very bad news earlier in the morning. Multiple misfortunes that take place one after the other can leave us feeling vulnerable and intensely cognizant of our fragility. But bad days can only have a long-term negative effect on us if we let them. It is better to ask yourself what you can learn from these kinds of days. The state of your bad day may be an indicator that you need to stay in and hibernate or let go of your growing negativity. Bad days contribute to the people we become. Though we may feel discouraged and distressed on our bad days, a bad day can teach us patience and perseverance. It is important to remember that your attitude drives your destiny and that one negative experience does not have to be the beginning of an ongoing stroke of bad luck. A bad day is memorable because it is one day among many good days - otherwise, we wouldn't even bother to acknowledge it as a bad day. Know too, that everybody has bad days, you are not alone, the world is not against you. Tomorrow is guaranteed to be a brighter day."