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There are many reasons as to why a man may cheat, whether it is on his girlfriend, wife or partner. However, do all men cheat? Do they all have the ‘dog’ nature?Wanting to know the answers to these questions, as well as being prompted by hearing a man put women into categories, to justify why he needs more than one woman, 2as1 conducted their own survey.It is safe to say that not all men cheat! But every man has the potential to be a ‘dog’. As one man in the survey stated “Every no good man was made no good by a no good woman”. Could this be true?When asked the question “Does a man need more than woman” we got a number of yes’ with a variety of whys, which are as follows:God created more women than men Boredom Because they can Variety of personalities Lack of quality in relationshipThe majority said that because they may cheat, it does not mean they do not love the person they are in a relationship with. For most, it is just a ‘sexual thing’. The person a man cheats with may mean nothing to them. It is like they cannot help themselves, but as another guy stated in the survey; dependant on how stable the man is, depends on how stable the relationship and commitment is.Does this then mean that a man who cheats is an unstable man? Well, what we do need to remember is that men are good at detaching their feelings. If a man wants more excitement; feels devalued in the home; or even feels stifled in a relationship he is bound to cheat. He will look for that boost or that breath of fresh air, to be found in another woman. The only commitment that he may have with the other woman is of a physical nature, the emotions and feelings being abstract from the partnership. On the other hand, some men go into a relationship, not intending to remain faithful. We all know that there are more women in the world then men, but some men use this as an excuse not to remain faithful to their girlfriend, wife or partner. One man put it this way, “My wife is like the trophy, and all the other women are like the medals”. Another statement was made saying, “Imagine if there was only 40 million men and 60 million women, how would you feel to be one of the 20 million not to have a man?” No answer!The categories that each woman was put in is as follows:The Wifey = Girlfriend or Wife The Show Girl = The woman taken places because she looks good The Dirty Girl = The woman who does what he does not allow the wifey to doIn conducting this survey, we concluded that this is a young man’s mentality. The more mature men in the survey believed that a woman could be all three, given the occasion. As one man put it “A lady in the day, but a freak at night”.There simply is not one answer as to why men cheat; neither is there a simple solution. If a man is going to cheat just “because he can”, there is not much a woman can do stop him.Women, keep your man on his toes. Start ‘celebrating you’; look good even if there is no occasion. Learn to be that freak! Know what your man likes and dislikes. You be the distraction in his life!

My Interests

Writing Poetry, Shopping, and Chillin Wit My Homies.

I'd like to meet:

a href="http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.indi vidual&videoid=1828533166"LIL wayne & Loyd - I want youmspobj allowScriptAccess="never" enableJSURL="false" enableHREF="false" saveEmbedTags="true" data="http://lads.myspace.com/videos/vplayer.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" .. height="346" widtDOWN TO EARTH PEOPLE. Your Values ProfileLoyalty:You value loyalty a fair amount. You're loyal to your friends... to a point. But if they cross you, you will reconsider your loyalties. Staying true to others is important to you, but you also stay true to yourself.Honesty:You value honesty a fair amount. You're honest when you can be, but you aren't a stickler for it. If a little white lie will make a situation more comfortable, you'll go for it. In the end, you mostly care about "situational integrity."Generosity:You value generosity a fair amount. You are all about giving, as long as there's some give and take. Supportive and kind, you don't mind helping out a friend in need. But you know when you've given too much. You have no problem saying "no"!Humility:You value humility a fair amount. You tend to be an easy going, humble person. But occasionally your ego takes over. You have a slight competitive streak - and the need to be the best.Tolerance:Not only do you prefer to be around people very similar to you... They're the only kind of people you'll tolerate. You know what you believe in, and you don't like to deviate from that. You don't hate people who are very different - you just don't want to be around them.

Music:

Your All I Need By Method Man Ft Mary J. Blidge. R&B, SOME RAP, ROCK AND POP

Movies:

Drop Dead Fred, Million Dollar Baby, Four Brothers, Losing Isaiah, Freddie Got Fingered, Mrs. Doubtfire, Something About Mary, and Love & Basketball

Television:

Charmed, Closer, & Law and Order

Books:

I Will Read Just About Anything.

Heroes:

(tHe ChArMeD oNeS....) "GOD" All the strong women in my family it has to start somewhere, Grandma Judy, My Moms, Aunt Teresa, Aunt Vanassa, Zina, Tina, Baby Sis "Quander", just wanted to name a few. These women make it possible for me to understand the struggles that I have to get pass in order to be successful. They inspire me to look forward to a bigger and brighter future. Without the knowledge of these smart, strong and successful women I would be lost in this world alone and clueless. When I need a shoulder to cry ON or I just need words of wisdom to keep me going, one of my heros are always available.