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I'm irishboyblu
Where do I begin??? First off, I'm VERY much into sports... I am a manager of a cage fighter in Portland, whom I also train and corner... I'm currently looking to sign more clients...I not so recently got out of a VERY destructive and unhealthy relationship... I have a HUGE heart and was ALWAYS willing to give her one more last chance... I put up with a LOT of stuff that I shouldn't have... I put EVERYTHING into it that I had and didn't get much or ANYTHING back...
I'm just looking to find something simple... I'm ready to move on and not look back... I'm NOT looking for a rebound, I don't need nor do I want that... I need someone who's looking for something more than a fling... Don't let that stop you, though... I had a relationship work out quite well and for quite a while that started off as a fling... I'm not necessacarily looking for long term, but if it leads to that, then that's great... I LOVE to cuddle... I could honestly take or leave the sex... That's NOT what I'm about... Kissing is MUCH BETTER than sex to me... I would rather lay there with her, watching whatever, curled up and kissing... Sex is an after thought... If it happens, it'll be bkuz she wants it, I won't be the agressor... All that depends on her, though... I'm about whatever she wants and will keep her happy...
Back on August 17th, 2002 I was in a HORRIBLE motorcycle wreck... I look at it as probably one of the BEST things that could've happened to me... I hit a rock wall doing about 95 on a crotch rocket (pix of the wall and bike in my profile)... It left me paralyzed from the waist down, so now lucky me, I'm confined to a wheelchair... There is a chance that I will walk again, but God only knows when... It has not changed the fact that I'm still a person with feelings... It just means that I'll always have a place to sit and good parking... LOL...
I'm just a decent, genuine guy who's tired of all the dating “games†and looking for a female who's the same... I'm tired of geting hurt... I'm a VERY caring individual who just wants to be happy and the chance to make someone happy... I'm looking for someone to give me that chance... How do you know if you don't try??? Someone who will overlook the w/c and realize that I am HUMAN... I have feelings and emotions... The only diffferene between you and I is that, right now, I can't walk... Look at the plus to dating someone is a w/c... The parking; you don't EVER have to pay a parking meter and you get to park right up front...
I recently cut my long, just above my shoulder, brown hair with blonde hi-lites... I now have a more, professional, "normal" guy style of cut... Generally clean shaven, depends on my mood and how lazy I'm feeling, LOL... I recently got my right eyebrow pierced and both my ears done... All in all, my nose is done on the left side, right eyebrow, 2 in my left and 1 in my right ear... I have a tattoo on right shoulder in memorial of my uncle... I think I'm done with the piercings, but have more tattoo work to go...
I also have a son, he was born January 9th, 2002... He doesn't live with me, and I haven't seen him since December 18th, 2002, partly by choice, mainly not... I went into the hospital and almost died that week... I've had a LOT of things going on in my life since I've seen him last with my mental and physical health... I LOVE my son to DEATH and there'e not a day that goes by that don't think about and miss him... I've got to get right with me before I can get right with him... It's not like I'm a mental case, just dealing with certain issues that have come up bkuz of the accident and with how I was raised...
I have cut WAY down on my drinking, I was never an alcoholic, or anything like that, I have only drank a handfull of times this year ('07)... I FINALLY quit smoking... It took me a while, but I FINALLY kicked the habit... I had tried MANY times before to quit, but something would cause me to pick it back up again...
I'm the type of person who doesn't have regrets in life, not even the accident... I don't feel that you should regret ANYTHING that you've done... EVERY experience that you have had shapes who you are now... If you regret something, the you haven't completely learned from it... I believe everything happens for a reason... We ALL make mistakes, the sevarity of the mistake is determined by how we deal it and learn from it... As long as you learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them, then it's ok to make mistakes.....
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