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C-Rob

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About Me


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This is the 3D me.
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Where do I begin??? First off, I'm VERY much into sports... I am a manager of a cage fighter in Portland, whom I also train and corner... I'm currently looking to sign more clients...
I not so recently got out of a VERY destructive and unhealthy relationship... I have a HUGE heart and was ALWAYS willing to give her one more last chance... I put up with a LOT of stuff that I shouldn't have... I put EVERYTHING into it that I had and didn't get much or ANYTHING back...
I'm just looking to find something simple... I'm ready to move on and not look back... I'm NOT looking for a rebound, I don't need nor do I want that... I need someone who's looking for something more than a fling... Don't let that stop you, though... I had a relationship work out quite well and for quite a while that started off as a fling... I'm not necessacarily looking for long term, but if it leads to that, then that's great... I LOVE to cuddle... I could honestly take or leave the sex... That's NOT what I'm about... Kissing is MUCH BETTER than sex to me... I would rather lay there with her, watching whatever, curled up and kissing... Sex is an after thought... If it happens, it'll be bkuz she wants it, I won't be the agressor... All that depends on her, though... I'm about whatever she wants and will keep her happy...
Back on August 17th, 2002 I was in a HORRIBLE motorcycle wreck... I look at it as probably one of the BEST things that could've happened to me... I hit a rock wall doing about 95 on a crotch rocket (pix of the wall and bike in my profile)... It left me paralyzed from the waist down, so now lucky me, I'm confined to a wheelchair... There is a chance that I will walk again, but God only knows when... It has not changed the fact that I'm still a person with feelings... It just means that I'll always have a place to sit and good parking... LOL...
I'm just a decent, genuine guy who's tired of all the dating “games” and looking for a female who's the same... I'm tired of geting hurt... I'm a VERY caring individual who just wants to be happy and the chance to make someone happy... I'm looking for someone to give me that chance... How do you know if you don't try??? Someone who will overlook the w/c and realize that I am HUMAN... I have feelings and emotions... The only diffferene between you and I is that, right now, I can't walk... Look at the plus to dating someone is a w/c... The parking; you don't EVER have to pay a parking meter and you get to park right up front...
I recently cut my long, just above my shoulder, brown hair with blonde hi-lites... I now have a more, professional, "normal" guy style of cut... Generally clean shaven, depends on my mood and how lazy I'm feeling, LOL... I recently got my right eyebrow pierced and both my ears done... All in all, my nose is done on the left side, right eyebrow, 2 in my left and 1 in my right ear... I have a tattoo on right shoulder in memorial of my uncle... I think I'm done with the piercings, but have more tattoo work to go...
I also have a son, he was born January 9th, 2002... He doesn't live with me, and I haven't seen him since December 18th, 2002, partly by choice, mainly not... I went into the hospital and almost died that week... I've had a LOT of things going on in my life since I've seen him last with my mental and physical health... I LOVE my son to DEATH and there'e not a day that goes by that don't think about and miss him... I've got to get right with me before I can get right with him... It's not like I'm a mental case, just dealing with certain issues that have come up bkuz of the accident and with how I was raised...
I have cut WAY down on my drinking, I was never an alcoholic, or anything like that, I have only drank a handfull of times this year ('07)... I FINALLY quit smoking... It took me a while, but I FINALLY kicked the habit... I had tried MANY times before to quit, but something would cause me to pick it back up again...
I'm the type of person who doesn't have regrets in life, not even the accident... I don't feel that you should regret ANYTHING that you've done... EVERY experience that you have had shapes who you are now... If you regret something, the you haven't completely learned from it... I believe everything happens for a reason... We ALL make mistakes, the sevarity of the mistake is determined by how we deal it and learn from it... As long as you learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them, then it's ok to make mistakes.....

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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Someone who is intelligent, mature, NON-judgemental, has a GREAT, yet somewhat twisted sense of humor... I just want to find a decent female who’s going to follow through on what she says and is willing to put as much into the relationship as I am… All I want is to make and keep her happy and for her to do the same… Someone who will see me as a human being, not some guy in a wheelchair... Someone who won't hear about the wheelchair and turn and run... I would like to find someone with similar intrests, but not everything... If you and your partner have ALL the same intrests, how do you expect to broaden horizons... Looks, I cannot lie, do play a role... If I'm not attracted to you, how can I expect to have a physical relationship with you??? I don't mean to sound shallow, but it's the truth... If anyone tries to tell you different, they're not being completely honest with you or themselves... You're not going to start up something with someone of the opposite sex unless they caught your eye some how, or in someway...
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My Blog

My son...


Posted by on Tue, 12 May 2009 13:57:00 GMT

update from Mom

Hi - this is Mom....C-Rob can't IM from MySpace at this time.  He doesn't have internet at the care facility yet.  He can IM from his phone.  He says to message him and ask for his SN for IM.Thanks fo...
Posted by on Sun, 01 Feb 2009 12:40:00 GMT

My PERFECT GIRL will be like... Can you??? Are up for it???

This was orginally written in September '07 as three seperate blogs... I decided to combine them into one for easier reading...   Is it too much to ask???   Is it too much for me to ask...
Posted by on Sat, 04 Oct 2008 12:26:00 GMT

Is it too much to ask???

Written in September '07   Is it too much to ask???   Is it too much for me to ask for someone to put as much into the relationship as I do??? Is it too much to ask for me to want someone w...
Posted by on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 19:10:00 GMT

Why do fools put themselves through this???

Written in September '07 You fall totally, completely, and helplessly in love with someone, and they tell you that they feel the same& You want to spend the rest of your life with them, marriage, fami...
Posted by on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:34:00 GMT

Can somebody tell me&

Written in September '07 Can somebody tell me&Why a person can tell you they love you, they want to marry you and spend the rest of their lives with you, but yet treat you like shit and half the time ...
Posted by on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 01:23:00 GMT

Extra Prayers

Some of y'a know what's been giong on in my life recently... Well, on top of it all, my Dad calls me to inform me that my granfather is VERY sick and they're not sure whats wrong... I KNOW it's bad bk...
Posted by on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:54:00 GMT

THANK YOU DANELLE!!!

I just got off the phone with a friend of mines that I haven't talked to in about 3 years... She told me something that relieved a burden off my chest that's been there for around 4 years... I haven't...
Posted by on Fri, 15 Jun 2007 18:29:00 GMT

3-08-07 Update

Just got off the phone with C-Rob. He's doing well. I went to see him right after he moved into the care facility. I got him unpacked and settled, but more importantly, I brought him his cable box....
Posted by on Thu, 08 Mar 2007 19:41:00 GMT

2-24-07 On the move...

C-Rob moved to Pacific Health and Rehab Center yesterday. He's in room 100. It's not one he's been to before, so he didn't really know what to expect, but he said so far so good. It's out in Tigard...
Posted by on Sat, 24 Feb 2007 17:02:00 GMT