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Debra

I am here for Friends

About Me

Okay, so I am not as boring as I thought I was... or at least that is what I am hearing lately. I am a kid at heart. I see the world a little differently than most. I have spend each day learning what it is to survive and learn life. I have been through enough that I know what is like to be heart broken. I know how to take a blow and keep on going. I know it is not easy to live this life. I know that laughter really can heal & mend. I am drawn to people who have an inner spark. I like to sing, though I may not be good at it. I like to laugh, though sometimes I wheeze or snort. I love music, good, cheesy, and otherwise. I love my friends fiercely, and my family and my husband even more than that. I am mostly a happy soul, even though I have moments of immense sadness. I try to remember that everything happens for a reason, good or bad. That every experience is to be learned from... that each person has something to give. I find joy in watching my nephews grow and the uncertainty of the life that grows within me. I am lost without my mother who passed away 08/04/06. I am still learning each day and will continue until the day I die.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

People who are really boring, too! Actually, just looking for friends and people to connect with on many levels. I like to catch up with people I have not seen in forever and a day!

My Blog

Married... with children

You know I never really considered what it takes to be married with a kid. GOOD LORD, why did someone not warn me!? Maybe they did, maybe I just ignore them... who knows!? God Bless anyone who has mor...
Posted by on Mon, 25 Jun 2007 18:07:00 GMT

Holding tight...

There are few things in life that can make you stop and just marvel at the ways of the world. My best friend of 20 plus years just left my house. We spent long overdue time having dinner, playing with...
Posted by on Tue, 05 Jun 2007 18:36:00 GMT

Life is a little strange, isn't it?

I find myself wondering how strange life can be... I mean it simply is a bizarre set of events that jigsaw into what you manage as your life. You spend so much time when you are younger trying t...
Posted by on Fri, 06 Oct 2006 12:27:00 GMT

When you least expect it...

I never thought I would be writing about my Mom on here. I talked to her on the phone and she seemed fine. We laughed and joked about many things. She had been sick with a viral chest infection the we...
Posted by on Fri, 18 Aug 2006 04:33:00 GMT

You are not the only one here...

I have been watching the flood relief efforts. I have heard many sides of the complete devastation. I have seen the pictures and film of bodies floating in the water and the people with nothing left j...
Posted by on Mon, 05 Sep 2005 18:35:00 GMT

When your Parents become your Child...

I have always heard about the thought that as you get older you become the adult and start to "parent" your parents. I never knew this was a reality until the last few years. I am the youngest of 4 ki...
Posted by on Fri, 26 Aug 2005 17:47:00 GMT

Blood is thicker than Savannah River water (not by much though)

Have you ever spent time with your family and really appreciated who they are as individuals? Amazing how few people take the time to even think of doing something so "weird" as that. I just got back ...
Posted by on Sun, 21 Aug 2005 23:01:00 GMT

Breathe, Just Breathe

Breathing sounds so easy... I mean your body is programmed to breath on its own without you having to remind yourself to do it. There are rare moments you have in life when your mind forgets, and you ...
Posted by on Sun, 21 Aug 2005 09:20:00 GMT

Friends so near & so far away...

Even tough I have some awesome friends here in town, I find some of the best friends I have are miles away. It is really freaking hard to maintain that closeness when the miles are stretching... ...
Posted by on Tue, 16 Aug 2005 23:06:00 GMT

A Change of View

Isn't it weird how one day out of a life can change the way you view a relationship? It could be something small or something huge... hell, it coul be nothing at all really. Somehow, it is e...
Posted by on Fri, 12 Aug 2005 22:48:00 GMT