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C.j.Valentino

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About Me

I'm one of the most awesome people you will ever meet! I'm a super intense person to be around...and I love life! I'm a 24 year old male who speaks his mind. and by that, I mean I pretty much say whatever pops into my head, damn the consequences. Although I am learning when it is best to think before you speak. I'm open minded, free spirited, dynamic, driven, blunt, direct, honest, outgoing, affectionate, contemplative, creative, wild, analytical, and adventurous. I think the most important things in life are being true to yourself, doing what makes you happy, and living everyday as if it just might be your last. I really just enjoy the simple things in life, whenever I can find a quiet moment. I enjoy making new friends, and I love hanging out with my old friends. They are a set of wonderful people and I'm thankful that they are in my life. I think we are all beautiful and I believe we cant choose who we fall in love with. It just kinda happens, and that's beautiful. Sometimes it doesn't work out, but thats not the end of the world. I think we get to learn something new from it. I also enjoy writing prose, poetry, short stories, and taking pictures. I do those a lot and can't remember if there was ever a time when I didn't. My favorite place to be is the beach in the sun, ex foliating, or at the gym working out and tanning. I don't regret anything I've done, and feel I've learned the most from the mistakes I have made in the past. I'm still looking for my perfect career but I don't think I'll ever figure it out, so someday I want to be a massage therapist because I know I would enjoy it a lot. I'm good with my hands and I like to help people relax. I don't eat pork or beef, and I don't drink soda. I'm full of energy and caffeine, although I am trying to give up coffee and just stick with tea [but not at work..lol] I've worked hard for everything that I have, so I don't mind a challenge. In fact I kinda like one. Eventually I would like to have children, but I want to make sure I have built a strong foundation and home first.

My Interests

taking endless pictures of myself and friends, playing catch with preserved sea urchines, breaking stuff when you ask me to clean, letting laundry pile up and buying new clothes instead of cleaning them, going to the gym, listening to music at top volume cause my hearing is shot anyway, smoking three packs of cigarettes a day, avoiding holidays, not celebrating my birthday, eating whole key lime pies by myself when the roomates aren't home, changing my mind mid conversation, trying to pinpoint where it all went wrong from childhood photos, falling asleep anywhere anytime, giving away clothes i don't like anymore cause i wore them once, insisting on wearing shoes with holes in them cause it's sexy, arguing with homeless people, avoiding you for weeks at a time, forgetting keys in the door, at work, at home, and everywhere in between, kittens until they grow up[when will they come in miniature?], watching queer as folk marathons till 4 in the morning and falling asleep on the couch with friends, pretending to go on diets when i run out of money, asking you to buy me a drink, saying inappropriate statements, falling down stairs, remembering to go to work, making insanely strong coffe in the morning(gotta have those uppers to go to work), texting u when ur at work, shopping for friends with their money, ignoring you when you flap your jowls at me, throwing rocks at birds, counting calories(much to my dismay),having days off, going to the beach and making booby traps w/ holly, talking on the phone, pissing in friends drinks when they aren't looking, bars...know any i haven't been to?, ulterior motives galore, pretending to skateboard, antagonizing anyone in earshot, flip flops!...love em to death, smiling vacantly at dumbasses, tanning..and i'm going to get so dark this summer you don't even know, playing gender bender and thinking like a girl (like that's so difficult), writing, art, fashion, music, nutrition, friends, partying, learning new things, traveling, tattoos, going to museums, pinstripes, pointy shoes, future projections, sherbet, antiques, peanut brittle, forign films, languages, iceland, french, chocolate, wine, candles, Russia, violins, picnics by myself, Japan, Greece, mythology, math, science, chemistry, tribal cultures, the rainforest, ecology, Brazil, economics, plastic surgery, carnivals, church festival rides, gossiping, spas, beefs, eating cheese off day old cheeseburgers, piano music, sleeping, jump roping, drunk texting, muscles, brandy, tequila, vodka, wine, friends, getting lost, swimming in pools drunk at night...hoping the neighbors don't catch us, beef jerky, beefcakes, muscular men, hairy men, tanning enchancers[there's no better way to get that deep bronze glow]

I'd like to meet:

YOU!!!! if you're cool, have a good sense of humor, and know how to dance and if you're just a lil crazy we'll get along for sure. just be who you are and be happy. i like to meet new people and hear their unique approaches to life.View All Friends | View Blog | View Pics | Add Comment

Music:

I like Adult., goldfrapp,felix da houseeat,miss kitten,peaches,chicks on speed,madonna,taking back sunday,bikini kill,le tigre,ladytron,placebo, teagan and sara, ani difranco, hole,gwen stefani, hellogoodbye,iris, echo image, cat power, kill hannah, acceptance, yeah yeah yeahs, pretty girls make graves,dir en grey, justin timberlake, bright eyes, dashboard confessional,afi, gorrillaz, dresden dolls,tori amos, the veronicas, janis joplin,jimi hendrix, switchblade symphony, rasputina,modest mouse, the killers, the blood brothers, local h,cold,hocico, wumpscut, stromkern, wolfsheim, smashing pumpkins, radiohead, anti-flag, love and rockets, mxpx,all american rejects, good chartlotte, bjork, portishead, orgy, jojo, jessica simpson, lady sovereign, the postal service, death cab for cutie, garbage, horrorpops, rufio, underoath, the used, new found glory, murder by death, coldplay, cute is what we aim for, 7 year bitch, no doubt, paris hilton, matisyahu, bob marley, 311, incubus, juliana theory, decemberists, rilo kiley, coheed and cambria, mario vazquez, something corporate, jacks mannequin, mindless self indulgence, red hot chili peppers, my chemical romance, fall out boy, filter, everclear, sublime, nelly furtado, the verve pipe, the verve, interpol, blink-182, eminem, transplants, tsunami bomb, birthday massacre, pj harvey, matchbook romance, prince, apoptygma berzek, bravery, fischerspooner, kidney thieves, faint, action action, white stripes, franz ferdinand, bayside, straylight run, blondie, joan jett, the brides, lifehouse, pharrell, avenue d, bush, lauyrn hill, the ataris, the crush, david gray, the fitness, distillers, 30 seconds to mars, pussycat dolls, gnarls barkley, avenged sevenfold, violent femmes, boys night out, from autumn to ashes, rise against, ramones, the clash, bad religion, gym class heroes, the sounds, eagles of death metal, sleater-kinney, quiet drive, rolling stones, black maria, cartel, offspring, combichrist, covenant, sise, zucco 103, pfeifer sam, moulin noir, sneaker pimps, veruca salt, the get up kids, my bloody valentine, silverchair, a perfect circle, voltaire, korn, halifax, morningwood, early november, amber pacific, circa survive, melee, yellowcard, sugarcult, escape the fate, thursday, bella morte, the academy is, hit the lights, cornershop, k's choice, skinned teen, servotron, the bangs, bratmobile, go sailor, judy and the loadies, c.o.c.d., the morning walk, afton, blame it on rio, adam's out, grendel, rotersand, juno reactor, nina hagen, android lust, bouncing souls, the briefs, pilot speed, plain white t's, fergie, strike anywhere, choking victims, john ralston, my life with the thrill kill kult, vnv nation, stabbing westward, missy elliot, brand new, rammstein, the early november, kelly clarkson, joydrop, weezer, terrorfakt, dirty sanchez, pink, misfits, against me!, outkast, lil john, red jumpsuit apparatus, sean paul, akon, cassie, x-ray spex, motion city soundtrack, saosin, w.a.s.t.e., c/a/t, shiny toy guns, joan osbourne, joni mitchell, fannypack, destiny child, en vogue, danity kane, dandy warhols, sneaker pimps, cobra starship, timbaland, shakira, vanessa hudgens, gia farrell, i monster, i am x, snow patrol, diddy, gratitude, vnv, ciara, dining rooms, pilotspeed, cafe tacuba, ne-yo, the lovelies, bush, silverchair, brazil, neuroactive, aaliyah, new skin, wicked wisdom, flyleaf, pixies, denali, sugar ray, paramore, steffy, relient k, third eye blind, lovedrug, cex, CSS, M.I.A., kraftwerk, vive la fete, julie ruin, pizzacato five, freezepop, stereo total, mount sims, mstrkrft. electrocute, john b, the goxxip, rollergirl, air, chevelle, killswitch engage, social distortion, new york dolls, funeral for a friend, the vincent black shadows, hot chip, raconteurs, the photo atlas, debbie deb, andrew w.k., angelspit, dj cheb i sabbah, bob marley, hong kong counterfeit, damian marley, 2cent, blutengel, lumidee, motor, ping pong bitches, nicki jane, daphne loves derby, zombie girl, zox, the optimist, mad caddies, MIMS, atmosphere, dance gavin dance the almost before their eyes +44 crash kelly pierce the veil sparta suicide silence new atlantic drop dead, gorgeous despised icon bring the horizon

Movies:

the namesake, the fountain, children of men, isolation, the mothman prophecies, clueless, pi, donnie darko, fight club, superstar, stigmata, lola montes, beautiful boxer, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, elektra, documentaries and indie films, never been kissed, defying gravity, american beauty, but i'm a cheerleader, the slums of beverly hills, brigadoon, legally blonde, minority report, vanilla sky, stuck on you, day after tomorrow, chicago, pretty little things, xxx, le divorce, chronicles of riddick, monsoon wedding, paycheck, charlie and the chocolate factory, don't tell mom the babysitters dead, memoirs of a geisha, welcome to the dollhouse, thin, rules of attraction, 28 days, firestarter, carrie, team america, reefer madness, cool hand luke, mysterious skin resident evil 300 1408 high tension

Television:

i've completely stopped watching tv[except for when i'm on the treadmill]that turns on auto

Books:

she's come undone, the bell jar, middlesex, east of eden, the last mortal man, invisible monsters, red azalea, archangel protocal, stones from the river, tibetan book of living and dying, running with scissors, memoirs of a geisha, dry, confessions of a shopaholic, conversations with the fat girl, jurassic park, pandora, the red tent, the last cato, the janson directive, emily dickinson, milkrun, the jungle, the idyll of the white lotus, the death of vishnu, confessions of a sociopathic social climber

Heroes:

MYSELF!!!!! emily dickinson sylvia plath james dean pete wentz, kimber from nip/tuck and the lil people....Karen Walker, Janice Dickinson, marla singer from fight club %0

My Blog

pssssssstttttttt

never stopdreaming...
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Thu, 24 Jan 2008 11:42:00 PST

:::::::::*I’LL MISS YOU GUYS!!!*::::::::

after six and a half years i'm leaving this jobi knowit's sadright?it's been a pleasure working with everyone and i wish you all the best[p.s. i'll totally still come and visit!!!]me and mar marme and...
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Mon, 19 Nov 2007 04:32:00 PST

:::::::::too bad they arent a band anymore:::::::::

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Posted by C.j.Valentino on Sun, 18 Nov 2007 03:56:00 PST

:::reachable again:::

after my phone basicallly died yesterdayi knew it was cpoming back againso mar mar gave me a phoneand guess hwat?this one works!i'm pretty pumped...i can hear people on the phone and:::GASP:::they can...
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Wed, 26 Sep 2007 09:56:00 PST

:ah old job...good times mpfh!::

this pic has got to be at least a year oldi was still at 212 then.crazybut funnyluv it
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Thu, 20 Sep 2007 08:42:00 PST

:::::::strange gym experience:::::

so saturday night i went to the gym at 1130and i was the only one therewhich was finethe lights were off[motion activated]but they came on when i went inso i do my workoutand then decide to start some...
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Mon, 17 Sep 2007 10:18:00 PST

:::::guilt free drinkin::::::::

guiness is a godsendonly a lil over 125 calories a canyou can drink guilt freeand stay in shape[no gross beer belly]so much better than bacardi...
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Wed, 12 Sep 2007 06:25:00 PST

party pic


Posted by C.j.Valentino on Tue, 11 Sep 2007 08:30:00 PST

i’m back!

i finally have a computer again!!!!i'm so pumpedholly's bf built it for mecool
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 07:46:00 PST

:::hiliarious sh*T!!:::

i'm pretty sure i was bombedlol
Posted by C.j.Valentino on Sat, 28 Jul 2007 06:40:00 PST