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MelMal

Happiness is a conscious choice, not an automatic response. -- Mildred Barthel

About Me

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Who am I? Who are you? I am the Walrus… (Where is that from? Come one you know this!!!) Who I am is pretty simple- I am the most question asking-est human on the face of the planet! In my next life I think I’ll be a CIA agent or an investigative reporter! I think I am good daughter, great friend, awesome girlfriend (sadly- whether you deserve it not!) hard worker (only if I like the job otherwise forget it), loving Tati and Marraine and lastly the best sister in the world! I am loyal to the end, but not afraid to tell you that you suck or fucked up. I expect nothing less from my people (even if I don’t like it) I am a great story teller, and have been known to do a voice or two! :-)

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I'd like to meet:

Who would I like to meet? Hmmm... (this is my thinking noise) I suppose people who are interesting and smart (otherwise who cares???) and have something to teach me, oh and a touch of the bad ass in them! Object of the game is learn more about the way other people think and to come away with a new persepective. I know some one who says that they would like to meet people who have "warm, delicious funky souls" I love that!
You Have A Type B+ Personality
You're a pro at going with the flow
You love to kick back and take in everything life has to offer
A total joy to be around, people crave your stability.

While you're totally laid back, you can have bouts of hyperactivity.
Get into a project you love, and you won't stop until it's done
You're passionate - just selective about your passions Do You Have a Type A Personality?

Music:

I love music of all kinds. It varies...Mary J.Blige, Guns and Roses, John Legend, New Edition, Diana Krall, Arturo Sandoval, The Fray, Showtunes (in my past life I was a fab gay man!), George Benson, Alica Keys, Old School Dance (Think Cover Girls, TKA) Tribe called Quest, Fleetwood Mac, Brand New Heavies, Heatwave, LL Cool J, lately Robin Thicke & and some nut named Amy Winehouse! (Who knew?) oH and how could I forget-- Hello Haitian Music! Compas Compas Compas! :-) I really could go on and on... But you get it. Music is universal people!!!!

Movies:

.. Yes I love all things HP!, Goodfellas, OO7 Movies, Face Off, Grease. There are tons more... I like action movies, dramas (I love a good drama!) romantic comedies, movies from the 80's (think Breakfast Club, Pretty in Pink), I LOVE Mafia movies. And I have to add in the 40 year old Virgin... that is comedy.....

Television:

While I try to stay from reality TV I have to admit that I have found myself watching Miami Ink Marathons! I love tattoos...LOST, Heroes, Grey's, October Road (recent)Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip (Although I think it's too smart for network TV and is bound to be cancelled. While crap like The Bachelor keeps coming back!) News Magazine shows (20/20 etc)

Books:

I love to read...I just finished reading one of the books I gave to The Boy for his birthday: Ace of Spades by David Matthews. After a rocky start, I found that I loved it! Dave Matthews is really interesting! If I was a writer I would want to write like him. I highly recommend it! It was really great. I am always on the hunt for new books to read, so if you have any tittles you'd like to pass my way--- by all means! But I read alot... self help (we all need some), romance (we all need some of that too), mysteries, true life stories (change your life type s**t) I will read just about anything! Although I started to pick up a book about Che... yikes too much info. I need to go slower than that!

Heroes:

What kind of heroes are we talking about here? Let's take true life heroes first---Nurses, Firemen, Teachers--- they can change lives, provide comfort, save lives and put people on the right path. Martin Luther King was a hero, Mahatama Gandhi was hero. A hero will change your life-- or at least inspire you to change your life--not dribble a basketball, strut down a runway, act in a movie or sing a song.Super Heroes- I am a fan of Wonder Woman. I mean she's sexy, smart, and can get people to confess things they normally would not. Hello? Who doesn't want some of that? :-)
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My Blog

Forget your troubles come on get happy!

I am feeling pretty good!  My birthday is tomorrow and there is no sign of the dreaded blanket of depression to be found!!!   I am healthy, happy and fortunate to be alive!   I ch...
Posted by MelMal on Sat, 21 Apr 2007 06:26:00 PST

Happy Birthday To Me!

Recently, I watched an old episode of Sex and the City.  This was the episode where Carrie turns 35. She finds her self at a restaurant waiting for friends, who never show up.  Later on she ...
Posted by MelMal on Thu, 19 Apr 2007 07:22:00 PST

Shame on a bitter bitch!

Sometimes you have to take a long hard look at yourself and say Shame on you.  So here I am&. Saying it now.  Shame on me.   Shame on me for not having more faith in myself for going...
Posted by MelMal on Fri, 13 Apr 2007 07:15:00 PST

Bad Ass Chick!

Who are you? Who am I? Who is anyone really?  Do we follow the path that we do because we think that we should, or do we do what ever pleases us when the moment strikes?  Do you serve at the...
Posted by MelMal on Sat, 31 Mar 2007 09:11:00 PST

Tipping

Tipping&   Let me first say that I always tip. I believe in tipping, especially for good service.  So I ALWAYS tip at restaurants, manicures, spas, hair salons etc.    At restau...
Posted by MelMal on Mon, 05 Mar 2007 05:29:00 PST

New York New York

I love NY.  I love everything about it& there is an energy here is that is just extra!  It doesn't matter that we may not live the "Sex in the city life".  But those of us who live and ...
Posted by MelMal on Fri, 23 Feb 2007 06:31:00 PST

Fly on the Wall...

A few days ago, I went to the supermarket to get few things.  As I was parking my car, I noticed three guys coming out of the store. One of them had a bouquet of flowers. He and his friends ...
Posted by MelMal on Tue, 23 Jan 2007 05:12:00 PST

I "heart" Harry Potter

I did it. I'm in. Yesterday, I went to Barnes & Noble and I reserved my copy of Harry Potter & the Deathly Hallows.  It comes out July 7, 2007.  And I will be in line at 12 midnight ...
Posted by MelMal on Mon, 22 Jan 2007 08:28:00 PST

The Trouble with Hair

After years and years and years of straightening, ironing, rolling and blowing it out, a few years ago I gave it up... I said NO!  No more... I thought it would be an expression of me...finally I...
Posted by MelMal on Wed, 17 Jan 2007 12:05:00 PST

Good Grief...

So& in an effort to meet some new people I have done a few things& signed up to the cult that is myspace.com, hanging out with my friends more often and signed up to an online dating service.  I ...
Posted by MelMal on Sun, 07 Jan 2007 08:40:00 PST