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jared

I am here for Friends

About Me

I have always thought things were better with a few cocktails.... so here we go!Lesson learned but not so jaded. Life really is a box of chocolates, and with my addiction to food....the chocolates are ALL GONE! I have lived in LAS VEGAS for about 11 years, and have loved every moment of it. I have had my heart broken, been fired for the first time and came out of the closet here. This i s my home, and although times may get tough, the tough get goin'.I am a person who enjoys a lot of things. I can remember my mother saying to me. " Jared, you have to try everything at least once....never be close minded." And that is what i am not! I try not to be to judgemental. I figure if it does not hurt anyone then why worry about it. People do things for a reason, and although i spend to much time reading "between the lines" it really does not get you anywhere. People are who they are. I have learned that you can not change someone, unless they want to change themselves. I have also learned that it is okay to say " i have had enough, no more thank you." especially at the WONDERFUL buffets we have here...there is nothing wrong with the term "all you can eat" just make your girlfriend bring a bigger purse! I know what i want and will do what ever it takes to put it in motion....I feel funny when I say "holla" and like to answer my phone "yo" ever since I prank called Jared Leto;) I'm pretty dainty but I cuss like a sailor when I play darts. My work number and cell number are so similar it seriously confuses the crap out of me. I like the thought of packing my lunch but somehow always end up eating it on my way to work. Discrepancies and riddles make me neurotic. I'm pretty sure the Gingerale at restaurants is just Coke and 7up, an overlooked fact that should be pondered as you lay your head on your pillow...unless of course your pillow is next to mine in which case I don't care to hear about it;) ha;) Only in California will friends show up at your house with legalized marijuana, even when you don't smoke, and an overpriced $6 cupcake when you're mopey. The big mystery is why people call each other "b" and what the heck that even means?!? I am enamored by socially challenged, smart people. I hate traffic, cold showers and "lol" in messages. I prefer sleeptalkers over sleepwalkers and dolls kinda frighten me. Clearly, the smurfs were on some sort of psychedelics ... especially Papa Smurf. Who makes these cartoons anyways??? ha;) And if you still don't know enough about meYou should probably know, i am a Taurus....only the best sign since sliced bread! I can be stuborn, jealous, and lazy....but to balance it all out, i am Loyal, honest, and determined. If i set my mind on somthin, i will do what ever it takes within my means to do it, or get it. I do like attention...let me clarify this, from the person i am with....i can never get enough of them....i figure one day i will find someone who understands me... until then...life is my oyster....and i embrace it... we are all here to learn somethin, and whatever we take we grow from it. No regrets....and looking back on things can be detrimental to ones well being. Tomorrow Never knows.....

My Interests

what are my interests? i love riding horses...and playing the piano....HAHA...noti actually love to volunteer....i find that it actually helps me make sense....well...sense of what i call life....why not help someone else who needs it?! besides most the stuff is on the weekend.....and i got those off.....and if u have never volunteered.....u should do it...u never know who u are gonna meet! aside from workin out...i have been on a runnin kick lately...i love video games...RPGS mostly.....but who has the time to do that anymore....not me! oh...yeah....and nap....yes...a good nap consists of 2 or more hours...i dont care what they say about that 30 min shit....thats gives me a headache.... eat late at night.....yeah i know...i am on my way to RICKI LAKE in HAIRSPRAY!!! ACK! watch out.... oh...and....i like to hold hands....yeah....wanna hold hands?!

I'd like to meet:

I am not here to hook-up or get nastey emails that contain vulger comments.....so if that is you....please do not email me! it just makes you look like a silly pervert, wait...silly perverts are kinda fun. Okay, it just makes you look like a LOOSER!haha...i have met a lot of people lately...i think that every person has a certain trait they can offer someone....how about what i dont want....i dont want a person i am involved with to lie, cheat or feel the need to find self gratafication with other men on the computer....if you dont do that..well....holla! Perhaps one could one say i am waiting for this cosmic connection between me and some other hot guy...or would that be explained as the roofie that was slipped in my drink..hmm...either way....i'm a cheap date..lol.....just be nice and make me laugh, right? i find that people are so strung up on what a person looks like or what they can offer them...how about...what can you offer someone...and are you even happy with yourself? cause....if you are not happy with yourself, you are not going to make anyone happy...trust me....i know....see....what i suggest if that is you, go get some therapy as well as some lexapro....problem solved.... I have found that most people are affraid to just lay "it" out there. "It" being their feelings. I always wondered why is there this need to be coy about ones feelings. I think we are all adults here, and i do not know about you, but i hate playing the "guessing game" when it comes to feelings. Is there really a need to hold back what you truly feel. Perhaps if more people thought with their hearts instead of their heads there might actually be such a thing as a "golden anniversary" in these days. Who i want to meet is someone who will not waste my time and give back what i put out. These days i find myself liking someone who likes to stay at home....watch movies....drink champagne...do some lines together....oh wait...where is the backspace key???? =P KIDDING....not...seriously...kidding.... =P anyway...so what...i dont like to go out all the time ( i work at a hot ass club)....its all about quality time...cause when u think about it....how often do u spend quality time with someone u are interested in.... and when do we actually have TIME these days to do anything.....so...why not spend it with your...BESTFRIEND...cause thats what im lookin for honey! and as a reminder....relationships dont happen over night...they take time...and like i said, time is hard to come by...but when u got my time....you got me....but friend wise....i like outgoin people....not fake....nor people who like to not be honest...active is a plus..whether it be goin to the gym, out to a lounge, or up for coffee.....just real people.....who do drugs...KIDDING! again.....what i dont like are people lie, cheat, and say they will change when they never do....oh...did i mention i dont like people who lie.....? AND who i never want to have in my life....are BACK STABIN, VONDICTIVE, people who sneek behind your back...and you know if that is you....it is....please don't waste my time. yeah...i know that is just a summary...u know...the important stuff...stated again...so yah wont foget......

Music:

well....i have to admit...i am a fan of bubblegum pop...i like remixed fag music....hence....u know...i am a fag.....but aint no shame in that.... lately i have really been interested in..downloading illegal music! I sit infront of a computer most of the day, call people...bull-shit around..so i need me some good music to entertain myself to.... oh....and to update...although i have been into Ace of Base for years...I STILL think they ROCK...infact.....ACE OF BASE IS SOOOOOO COOL...that i have all of their albums.....beat that!

Movies:

love all movies....even straight porn...i like goin to them..watchen them at home....anywhere....umm...well that would be g- r movies....lol...not the straight porn.....

Television:

friends, will and grace, sex and the city, queer as folk, and deff. simple life...gotta love nicole....she'll put anything in her mouth.....and so will i!!! lol what else...WEED(s), DHW, HEROS, Brothers and Sisters, Greys Anatomy.

Books:

play girl..play boy....oh? books? sure...war and peace....and i am finishing up my 5th time through the bible.....HA!NOT!

Heroes:

my mom....she is an endless source of knowledge..and a perfect judge of character..... she is my heart....and i can tell her anything... ahhhhhhhh, sweet and...last but last least...My VIDEO IPOD...with all my homo remixes....i put way to much man hours into DLin and copyin music to it...but it is worth it...cause now i can walk down the street and strut my shit out there like noone is watchin!

My Blog

over three years in the making

So many times have i come on this thing to vent my frustrations, anger, and general emotions that can never be expressed in spoken words....Relationships are funny, aren't they?Friendships, Partnershi...
Posted by jared on Mon, 27 Nov 2006 12:19:00 PST

Gay CLUB Rants....

Why do gay clubs... -STILL have gender segregated bathrooms? If anything, an all male bathroom will only encourage more grotesque sexual conduct. And if a female is honestly offended by a gay mal...
Posted by jared on Thu, 26 Jan 2006 05:20:00 PST