okay... hmmm... well, indecisive is a factor -- gonna blame that one on the libra thing! hehe! things that work for me include: honesty, love, laughter, MUSIC!!!, positive thinking, original thought, kindness, direct communication, passionate kissing, cooking, green and purple, intelligence (YUM!), in the moment, candles, cozy, MUSIC!!! (did I already mention that? haha), eye contact, smiling, oblivious awareness... whimsical wisdom... spontaneous purpose... and anything but perfect - whatever that means!!! hehe! be who u r and the world will be :) it's all good. recognize your wealth but realize your measurement... love, individuality and keeping it simple is key (for me). peace n love to all! Enjoy and share your life :) AND BACK BY POPULAR "ZACK" demand, "own your shit" xoxo :) hope we're paying attention